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why do ladies,guys,men and women cheat in their relationship is because they lack the spirit of insincerity whice is the firs spirit we are to possess as humans to live a responsible life.
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I think I got that
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I think there's something awry in there. Maybe you meant that they HAVE the spirit of insincerity. In plentiful quantities.
Anyway, people cheat because that's what they want to do. Nothing more to it than that. And they either don't care at all about their official mate, OR they actually want to hurt them. No other real reason I've ever seen. |
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why do ladies,guys,men and women cheat in their relationship is because they lack the spirit of insincerity whice is the firs spirit we are to possess as humans to live a responsible life. Nah..... why bother to know why? Cheaters always have their own reasons. All you need to know is how to motivate yourself to a better person. |
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Because they chose to be selfish.
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Topic: why do people cheat because the devil made them do it 
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They don't value being monogamous!
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Edited by
Toodygirl5
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Fri 04/14/17 02:39 PM
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Selfish choices
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Edited by
msharmony
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Fri 04/14/17 02:34 PM
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told to me by a very dedicated ladies man(dedicated to being a ladies man)
because they CAN he added that, for men, it generally doesn't have to be anything except they feel they deserve everything they want and if no one knows noone will be 'hurt' for women, it generally is because they feel neglected in some way ,,,not my words, but straight from the ladies man |
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"Cheat" I've never understood that word in the context of a relationship, cheat like in a computer game so you can miss levels out to reach the next level?
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Edited by
msharmony
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Fri 04/14/17 02:38 PM
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act dishonestly to gain advantage
which is why they generally don't call open relationships 'cheating',, no one is acting dishonestly and everything is known and open when one is sneaking about and being deceptive,, then it is referred to as 'cheating' |
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I have always found cheaters to be of the insecure ilk.
They must continually prove to themselves they are attractive by baiting that hook and throwing it out. I avoid. |
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Edited by
no1phD
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Fri 04/14/17 03:05 PM
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Well.. I think it goes beyond selfishness.. or insincere or insecure..
Sometimes a person cheats simply because they're not getting what they need from their partner.. after they have exhausted all avenues.. pleading with their partner.... Sometimes the universe just puts in front of you what you need.. to make you realize you are unhappy in your present relationship.... Yes some will say nay nay to the cheater... But he or she did not get there on his or her own.. What is that saying it takes two to tango.. Now I'm in no way condoning cheating.. But there's more waysof cheating than the physical... your partner May cheat you of time.. they may cheat you of affection.. they may cheat you of communication... the list of ways to cheat is endless.. the physical just seems to be the most popular one..yup. . But what do I know !I'm just a simpleton |
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Right answer I guess
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Selfish
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Well.. I think it goes beyond selfishness.. or insincere or insecure.. Sometimes a person cheats simply because they're not getting what they need from their partner.. after they have exhausted all avenues.. pleading with their partner.... Sometimes the universe just puts in front of you what you need.. to make you realize you are unhappy in your present relationship.... Yes some will say nay nay to the cheater... But he or she did not get there on his or her own.. What is that saying it takes two to tango.. Now I'm in no way condoning cheating.. But there's more waysof cheating than the physical... your partner May cheat you of time.. they may cheat you of affection.. they may cheat you of communication... the list of ways to cheat is endless.. the physical just seems to be the most popular one..yup. . But what do I know !I'm just a simpleton the choice of crossing that line lies solely on the one unzipping his or her pants is it because there are issues in the relationship? sometimes and sometimes...not sometimes there may be no issues on homefront whatsoever the person doing the cheating is doing it for other reasons ego to feel young to feel excitment |
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told to me by a very dedicated ladies man(dedicated to being a ladies man) because they CAN he added that, for men, it generally doesn't have to be anything except they feel they deserve everything they want and if no one knows noone will be 'hurt' for women, it generally is because they feel neglected in some way ,,,not my words, but straight from the ladies man Nailed it |
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told to me by a very dedicated ladies man(dedicated to being a ladies man) because they CAN he added that, for men, it generally doesn't have to be anything except they feel they deserve everything they want and if no one knows noone will be 'hurt' for women, it generally is because they feel neglected in some way ,,,not my words, but straight from the ladies man But if the lady does it it's because she feels neglected from her man..?.. Wow.. sounds like no matter what it's the man's fault..hmmmm...lol |
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Edited by
msharmony
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Sat 04/15/17 10:28 AM
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told to me by a very dedicated ladies man(dedicated to being a ladies man) because they CAN he added that, for men, it generally doesn't have to be anything except they feel they deserve everything they want and if no one knows noone will be 'hurt' for women, it generally is because they feel neglected in some way ,,,not my words, but straight from the ladies man But if the lady does it it's because she feels neglected from her man..?.. Wow.. sounds like no matter what it's the man's fault..hmmmm...lol don't forget 'generally', there are no absolutes and no, a woman's cheating is not a man's fault, it's her choice if she is neglected or feeling neglected she should be grown up enough to discuss it and work on it with her man,, or to leave...period. |
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Edited by
SparklingCrystal 💖💎
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Sat 04/15/17 10:32 AM
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Well.. I think it goes beyond selfishness.. or insincere or insecure.. Sometimes a person cheats simply because they're not getting what they need from their partner.. after they have exhausted all avenues.. pleading with their partner.... Sometimes the universe just puts in front of you what you need.. to make you realize you are unhappy in your present relationship.... Yes some will say nay nay to the cheater... But he or she did not get there on his or her own.. What is that saying it takes two to tango.. Now I'm in no way condoning cheating.. But there's more waysof cheating than the physical... your partner May cheat you of time.. they may cheat you of affection.. they may cheat you of communication... the list of ways to cheat is endless.. the physical just seems to be the most popular one..yup. . But what do I know !I'm just a simpleton I agree with this... Sure there's those who cheat for the heck of it so to speak, because they cannot be monogamous. But I don't think the OP was really addressing this group of cheaters, the eternal players, but more asking "Why do 'normal' people -aka non players- cheat?" On that I wholeheartedly agree with No1. . . . |
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