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..people are who they are ... |
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Insecurities or no morals or both.
Cheaters can change. |
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"why do people cheat"
is it better to ask those who cheat on this? 
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Edited by
tombraider
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Thu 07/05/18 02:37 PM
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.UGH..perhaps too much youtube.. 
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Our culture basically dictates that we take one wife while other cultures may dictate otherwise..would that be cheating..whose to say who is right..what would we say if our spouse wanted other mates ..surely we would not conform why not..because this is what we are taught so whose right.Do we go with that which is socially acceptable within our confines ..and who was it that made up these rules to which we so blindly follow ..and why do we follow..because it's been passed down from generation to generation?..A book..but there are many books which one of those is right..that which best supports our beliefs?..If we step beyond our learned matrix do we gain freedom or confusion? ..after all now there is nothing to follow it's not as if we were going anywhere anyways..are we sheep to conformity..never to be free..only to be unaccepted..and why is acceptance so important..less likely to be lonely? why does this matter..why do we wear bands of gold can our hearts not bind us..learned symbolism?..rather childish don't you think..but let's continue on the path set before us by others.. why? and exist within the matrix provided..it's easier that way..after all everyone else is..UGH..perhaps too much youtube..
I love this... very thought provoking! My experience with stepping beyond the learned matrix has proven to be both... freedom and confusion.... as well as fear producing, which causes one to return to the learned matrix... and thus creating more upheaval because once you learn outside the box, returning to the box doesn't work well and is never the same. Your life becomes like a pendulum swinging back and forth until you find that balance of what fits you more than what fits those that you've followed. So it's kind of understandable why there are those who remain within the matrix... ignorance appears to be bliss. As far as the topic... I agree with mrmxb... if the one you are with has cheated on you... it is better to ask them why. |
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Our culture basically dictates that we take one wife while other cultures may dictate otherwise..would that be cheating..whose to say who is right..what would we say if our spouse wanted other mates ..surely we would not conform why not..because this is what we are taught so whose right.Do we go with that which is socially acceptable within our confines ..and who was it that made up these rules to which we so blindly follow ..and why do we follow..because it's been passed down from generation to generation?..A book..but there are many books which one of those is right..that which best supports our beliefs?..If we step beyond our learned matrix do we gain freedom or confusion? ..after all now there is nothing to follow it's not as if we were going anywhere anyways..are we sheep to conformity..never to be free..only to be unaccepted..and why is acceptance so important..less likely to be lonely? why does this matter..why do we wear bands of gold can our hearts not bind us..learned symbolism?..rather childish don't you think..but let's continue on the path set before us by others.. why? and exist within the matrix provided..it's easier that way..after all everyone else is..UGH..perhaps too much youtube..
I love this... very thought provoking! My experience with stepping beyond the learned matrix has proven to be both... freedom and confusion.... as well as fear producing, which causes one to return to the learned matrix... and thus creating more upheaval because once you learn outside the box, returning to the box doesn't work well and is never the same. Your life becomes like a pendulum swinging back and forth until you find that balance of what fits you more than what fits those that you've followed. So it's kind of understandable why there are those who remain within the matrix... ignorance appears to be bliss. As far as the topic... I agree with mrmxb... if the one you are with has cheated on you... it is better to ask them why. 
we share the same idea ... |
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Edited by
Mrmxb
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Thu 07/05/18 03:34 PM
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Cheating is an abstract concept. We can not see the trick, we can not hold it by hand. it is only a concept that we perceive with our mind and gives a sense of negativity.
our talk about someone who is cheating; - maybe it will not go beyond interpretation, - maybe it will just be prejudice, - maybe to get away from the right, - maybe ... - maybe ... but; the confession of the cheater, the very valuable information will be on its own. because; - she knows better, - he is the owner of the verb, - that embodies an abstract concept, - ... - ... /// "why do people cheat" is it better to ask those who cheat on this? the reason for this answer is the situations described above. /// with this answer; human thought / comment on a "fact" (= cheat); it has been attempted to be made visible by words in a humorous manner. greetings...
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Cheating is an abstract concept. We can not see the trick, we can not hold it by hand. it is only a concept that we perceive with our mind and gives a sense of negativity. our talk about someone who is cheating; - maybe it will not go beyond interpretation, - maybe it will just be prejudice, - maybe to get away from the right, - maybe ... - maybe ... but; the confession of the cheater, the very valuable information will be on its own. because; - she knows better, - he is the owner of the verb, - that embodies an abstract concept, - ... - ... /// "why do people cheat" is it better to ask those who cheat on this? the reason for this answer is the situations described above. /// with this answer; human thought / comment on a "fact" (= cheat); it has been attempted to be made visible by words in a humorous manner. greetings...
You have good points Sahin, thank you for sharing your views with us.
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That is a good question. I guess because they see a married person. That other married person is forbidden. That is the reason I am told. As a young man, I often wondered why ladies seemed so interested in me. I had a wedding ring on. One man told me that I was forbidden proof. They usually want the very thing they can't have. Now, as a widower, I no longer wear my wedding ring. A friend joked, "Maybe you should put it back on."
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Cheating is an abstract concept. We can not see the trick, we can not hold it by hand. it is only a concept that we perceive with our mind and gives a sense of negativity. our talk about someone who is cheating; - maybe it will not go beyond interpretation, - maybe it will just be prejudice, - maybe to get away from the right, - maybe ... - maybe ... but; the confession of the cheater, the very valuable information will be on its own. because; - she knows better, - he is the owner of the verb, - that embodies an abstract concept, - ... - ... /// "why do people cheat" is it better to ask those who cheat on this? the reason for this answer is the situations described above. /// with this answer; human thought / comment on a "fact" (= cheat); it has been attempted to be made visible by words in a humorous manner. greetings...
You have good points Sahin, thank you for sharing your views with us.
Thanks River... 
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Yeah right.Because they can......., and once they gain something out of it, the feeling gets stronger & gradually it turns into a habit.
A liar is commonly seen lying even if it's not required at that instance. |
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Selfish
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why do ladies,guys,men and women cheat in their relationship is because they lack the spirit of insincerity whice is the firs spirit we are to possess as humans to live a responsible life. Because they can. |
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Maybe they're confused thinking they are in France and it's all good
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1) Unhappy in the relationship and not able to leave
2) Having a fetish that your own partner can’t help you with so you look for someone who can 3) Not enough sexual contact at home, so you decide to quiet your hunger elsewhere. |
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It is very much part of human nature, plus serves a biological way to mix the genes. Used to think only men cheat, but both genders do. Unlike years gone by, it is much easier to cheat using social media, the internet and cell phones.
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1) Unhappy in the relationship and not able to leave 2) Having a fetish that your own partner can’t help you with so you look for someone who can 3) Not enough sexual contact at home, so you decide to quiet your hunger elsewhere. |
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why do people cheat....Maybe because they gave it their all and they still feel unwanted? I don't know but one thing I do know is I will cheat at cards or any kind of board games or anything like that, but with a woman I will never cheat.
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Why do people cheat?
Simple. They CHOOSE to cheat. Irregardless of the reason (s) or situation, they simply choose to. Total lack of character and moral compass. There is reason why 60% of marriages result in divorce , and 60% of remarriages end up in divorce. I understand one does not have to be married to cheat . Many individuals want instant gratification without being concerned about the ramifications. Total selfishness. |
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"why do people cheat"
there is something they know
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