No harsh, no above others, just a little misunderstanding due to perception differences.

Oh.... that would be an another topic, which I would not see your thumbs up.

You got that right. I am not looking for a solution on here. It is just a thread for people who like to share their thoughts and experiences. I know what is the best for my children.

He loves his momma. Yes. He actually sees how much i love him


He sees you lonely. No. At age of 9 , the word of lonely has not been defined in his mind.


You worded your concerns like he was having a problem. Half correct. I worded my concerns because of guilty pleasure


Perhaps the problem is not with your son? I have said he is a highly intelligent boy. No problem there.

Children pick up on the emotional states of their parents. True


Are you projecting something that makes him feel a need to give you comfort?
He might just be worried about you? Lol... I am the parent , he is the kid. I worry about him, but not another way around.

Examine yourself.

I can not wait for him to grow out this phase so i can finnaly enjoy sleeping alone.
How can a loving mom push a scared of dark little kid back to his own bedroom! What is for?

Psychological program ?

All people who have met my son would say that he is a nerd.

When he was three years old, he figured out how to calculate double-digit numbers math in the bathroom alone.

When he was six years old, a psychologist stated that his vocabulary usage was in a high school level.

If you ask him what is the difference between cancer and tumor, he would give you a clear answer without a blink.

He loves looking at the periodic table just like some kids loves playing video games.

He is sensitive and compassionate. Sometimes he considers too much about other's feelings...

He doesn't like doing math because he is forced by me.however he is able to independently finish the whole page of advanced math by himself while i am not home.

I think it is me who worries too much about my son.This is nothing but a bed time sleep habit. it certainly will not lead to any of oietipal sense in this co-sleep case.

Hi Txsgal

Salute to all of our great, smart and confident moms.

Hi David,

Thanks for sharing your solution!

As the parent myself, I feel the relieve at that night.

When he was 5 years old, he asked me once about when would I get a BF. My answer to his question was" when the time you grow up".
Or maybe he doesn't want to grow up... ha

He has his own bedroom. The racing-car bed was specially bought for training him to sleep alone before my separation. So far i don't see any negative psychological on him yet. On the contrary, he has apparently become more confident, happier and high-esteem boy.

My 9 years old son won't sleep alone.It is not because he can not fall asleep by himself, he just prefers the comfort and maternal intimacy. There are times I have worried about that he would never grow up if he sleeps with my nightly. When I think back my time that families all shared the same beds for centuries. My brother and I both turn out rather independent. I moved to Canada 16 years ago alone, and my brother lives in the different cities apart from my parents. In addition, we both rarely miss the time when spending with our parents.
So What is your thought and experience with your children sleep with you in the same bed?

I am taking a break by
drinking tea;
reading forums on Mingle2;
digesting my lunch: baby kale leaves with Balderson cheddar fromage cheese, onion fried with shrimp , blueberries ,two slice of apple ,one orange , soybean noodle which cooked with bone broth(wow , I just realized that I have underestimated the capacity of my stomach);
recording my daily data;
reviewing a few aberrations , such as PEEP, positive end expiration pressure. Can not stop my arty brain to associate these words with other situations besides the science .

People who play games ,are also played by games.

Where is the balance?

Put her on your lap

This woman can kick my azz.
I don't know how to act?

Spank her , easy!

No plans , everyday I live like a zombie .

live without any desires and expectations.

I appreciate you and Sofia's wise advises, Eric !

Hope to see your rave eyeball costume soon on here