Topic: why do people cheat
Josh's photo
Wed 12/15/21 11:04 PM
I think it has to do with a few reasons. Insecurities. The way they grew up people always leaving them. Just bad people. Sometimes its because the person they are with change, they get comfortable in the relationship and stop showing the affection and saying and doing things they started out doing. I also think it has to do with a part of the brain, it didn't develop fully and it causes them to do stupid hurtful things to other people with no regard for what that actually does to a person. Honestly there's really no excuse for it, if you're not happy then just leave, or if you have a history of cheating just stay away from good people, it ruins them.

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Thu 12/16/21 12:14 AM
why do ladies,guys,men and women cheat in their relationship is because they lack the spirit of insincerity whice is the firs spirit we are to possess as humans to live a responsible life.

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Don't know nor interested in knowing such, until they have an explaining examples for again a lies or truth.

Focus on Chitchat an here im in surrounding of good people's.
Stay smart and active.:thumbsup:

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Thu 12/16/21 12:16 AM
its a choice

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Tue 12/28/21 03:35 AM
People cheat coz they never had enough. They always try to find the full 100% of their partner. When there's missing or lacking to the person, they will use it as an excuse to cheat ... but the truth is-- cheaters are one insecure creature who never had the chance to accept his or her own self that's why it's easy for them to find faults to others ... they never experienced the real meaning and value of love and being selfless.

Sameer 's photo
Tue 12/28/21 05:09 AM
act dishonestly to gain advantage

which is why they generally don't call open relationships 'cheating',, no one is acting dishonestly and everything is known and open

when one is sneaking about and being deceptive,, then it is referred to as 'cheating'

hi

delightfulillusion's photo
Tue 12/28/21 05:10 AM

act dishonestly to gain advantage

which is why they generally don't call open relationships 'cheating',, no one is acting dishonestly and everything is known and open

when one is sneaking about and being deceptive,, then it is referred to as 'cheating'

hi


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Sameer 's photo
Tue 12/28/21 05:11 AM
People cheat coz they never had enough. They always try to find the full 100% of their partner. When there's missing or lacking to the person, they will use it as an excuse to cheat ... but the truth is-- cheaters are one insecure creature who never had the chance to accept his or her own self that's why it's easy for them to find faults to others ... they never experienced the real meaning and value of love and being selfless.

yes

Ava Adore's photo
Tue 12/28/21 05:12 AM
Some people don't need an excuse to cheat. They cheat because they want to. They could be with the most perfect partner ever, but if they want to cheat, they will.

iammavis's photo
Tue 12/28/21 07:07 AM
This question should be answered by those who have cheated. Just my two cents.

Geldof Sambo's photo
Thu 12/30/21 03:23 AM
For my own opinion is that it just that we don't fully trust each other also we tend to keep secrets

Geldof Sambo's photo
Thu 12/30/21 03:26 AM
Sometimes we might blame the devil :imp: but we're the ones who tend to knock at his door :door:

Poetrywriter's photo
Thu 12/30/21 09:41 AM

This question should be answered by those who have cheated. Just my two cents.


I agree! I cheat all the time..................playing cards!

kevin's photo
Thu 12/30/21 05:01 PM
i have cheated and been cheated on.

people rationalize cheating in many ways, but it's always because of unmet needs.

i feel like there's some crossover between the why and how people cheat.
personally i feel there is an emotional range from mentally ill to tragically wounded to malevolent.

when i cheated i was definitely on the mentally ill end.
i was drinking hard every day, unmedicated, and hanging around the WRONG people.

i was emotionally disconnected from everything, only pursuing selfish and shallow desires.

i feel like people find themselves in that state for lots of reasons. trauma, substances, etc.

i feel like there are folks that are wired to be polyamorous, and they're doing everyone a disservice when they try to play at monogamy.

i feel like there are folks that are going through it, and they can heal.

some people are constitutionally incapable of being honest, and will always burn you.

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Thu 12/30/21 09:28 PM
it's called people are fake

Edward's photo
Fri 12/31/21 06:10 AM
bcz of they are not god fearing person. people never cheat if they are god fearing .

Edward's photo
Sat 01/01/22 06:43 AM
Because they live without God, that's why they're in trouble all the time.

agree with you . they are not god fearing person. or they didn't believe in karma

dust4fun's photo
Sat 01/01/22 07:35 PM
I've never seen a ring that could plug a hole. People don't own other people so to each their own. But I believe most of the time they get a thrill out of the risk involved, it's more exciting for them to do something they are not supposed to be doing, than to be stuck in the same routine. Cheating on a test can get you ahead in life, it can also get you kicked out of school. Cheating on a spouse rarely turns out good in the long run, so people should consider the risk and reward.

God fearing bible thumpers get caught up in cheating too, but usually the karma catches up with everybody at some point.

Laska Paul 's photo
Sun 01/02/22 11:23 PM


Whether you steal a Diamond or a Cucumber , Stealing is Stealing . In the Similar manner whether you Cheat a Black Woman or a White Woman , CHEATING IS CHEATING !

Ryan 's photo
Tue 01/04/22 04:47 AM
because they want to do those things they think about when they lay their heads to the pillow. The things they don't want their husband or wife to know they even think about.
And women think about them just like men do

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Tue 01/04/22 05:18 AM
why they cheat is why they shouldn't cheat (if asked to them).

eg, if they have no good reason not to, that then would be the reason TO.

often, things happen because the alternative has no reason for happening.

the path is slippery depending on your shoes.