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Topic: why do people cheat
IgorFrankensteen's photo
Sat 07/01/17 12:02 PM

They cheat because they are not contented with what they have..just wondering,,what the hell you will u get if u will cheat?!!! :thinking::thinking:


Well, there's the trick of it. People who cheat about pretty much anything, always expect to get something for nothing, basically. Cheat on a test, they expect to have the test continue to be recognized as a valid representation of their accomplishment or value, even as they utterly destroy exactly that, by cheating.

In romance, the only reason to try CHEATING, rather than breaking up formally and THEN getting involved with someone else, is that the cheater wants to keep getting something from the person they decide to lie to. What that is, varies from one case to the next, some want to keep the official mate and add another side bit, but some just want to get the fun of the new person, while retaining the idea that they really are a good person who lived up to their vows. Again, even though they utterly destroyed exactly what they wanted to keep, by cheating.

jazzinc's photo
Sat 07/01/17 05:29 PM
Edited by jazzinc on Sat 07/01/17 05:30 PM
We must know and understand very clear the essential differences between 3 verbs:
-To have fun
-To cheat
-To betray

And be your own judge where you belong in your behavior

...with honesty and sincerity.

Not less than that

pessant's photo
Mon 07/03/17 03:41 AM
We all can go back and forth with this question truth is all our answers are based on our thoughts not what we know if ur a cheater u'll know wy u cheat but I'm sure the other person's has a different reason as to y he or she cheats

Bansal21's photo
Mon 07/03/17 11:40 AM
right

Duttoneer's photo
Wed 07/05/17 12:51 AM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HBb1LA10Ebk

When you're in love with a beautiful woman
It's hard
When you're in love with a beautiful woman
You know it's hard
Everybody wants her
Everybody loves her
Everybody wants to take your baby home

When you're in love with a beautiful woman
You watch your friends
When you're in love with a beautiful woman
It never ends
You know that it's crazy
You want to trust her
Then somebody hangs up when you answer the phone
When you're in love with a beautiful woman
You go it alone

Maybe it's just an ego problem
Problem is I've been fooled before
By fair-weather friends and faint-hearted lovers
And everytime it happens
It just convinces me more

When you're in love with a beautiful woman
You watch her eyes
When you're in love with a beautiful woman
You look for lies
Everybody tempts her
Everybody tells her
She's the most beautiful woman they know
When you're in love with a beautiful woman
You go it alone
When you're in love with a beautiful woman
You watch your friends
When you're in love with a beautiful woman
It never ends
When your in love with a beautiful woman
You watch her eyes
When you're in love with a beautiful woman
You keep looking for lies

"When You're In Love With A Beautiful Woman " Dr Hook 1978.

Basha's photo
Wed 07/05/17 04:56 AM
If u can have 100 grand why be satisfied with 10 grand~
Why do ppl buy shirts of different colors~
Can you be happy eating the same dish everyday~

Toodygirl5's photo
Thu 01/25/18 01:42 PM

why do ladies,guys,men and women cheat in their relationship is because they lack the spirit of insincerity whice is the firs spirit we are to possess as humans to live a responsible life.


Cheaters cheat!

msharmony's photo
Thu 01/25/18 01:53 PM


told to me by a very dedicated ladies man(dedicated to being a ladies man)

because they CAN

he added that, for men, it generally doesn't have to be anything except they feel they deserve everything they want and if no one knows noone will be 'hurt'

for women, it generally is because they feel neglected in some way


,,,not my words, but straight from the ladies man
..sooo.. just to recap if a man does it it's just because he can. ?
But if the lady does it it's because she feels neglected from her man..?..

Wow.. sounds like no matter what it's the man's fault..hmmmm...lol


it came straight from one of your fellow ladies men ...lol

speaking on trends, men may do it out of hurt, and women may do it out of selfishness, just like women might beat up their spouse, but it trends a certain way ,,, in general.

msharmony's photo
Thu 01/25/18 01:55 PM


They cheat because they are not contented with what they have..just wondering,,what the hell you will u get if u will cheat?!!! :thinking::thinking:


Well, there's the trick of it. People who cheat about pretty much anything, always expect to get something for nothing, basically. Cheat on a test, they expect to have the test continue to be recognized as a valid representation of their accomplishment or value, even as they utterly destroy exactly that, by cheating.

In romance, the only reason to try CHEATING, rather than breaking up formally and THEN getting involved with someone else, is that the cheater wants to keep getting something from the person they decide to lie to. What that is, varies from one case to the next, some want to keep the official mate and add another side bit, but some just want to get the fun of the new person, while retaining the idea that they really are a good person who lived up to their vows. Again, even though they utterly destroyed exactly what they wanted to keep, by cheating.



drinker cake and eat it too, they want the security of having a monogamous partner but not the responsibility of BEING one ...

yellowrose10's photo
Thu 01/25/18 02:05 PM
Imo I don't care why people cheat. They are cheating. Cheaters and liar are cowards to me

LeeFranklin's photo
Thu 01/25/18 03:00 PM
Liars just lie.

All kinds of reasons but all BS.

Nothing like being at home and knowing I am being stabbed in the back only to receive some lame, garbage excuses.

Sucks.

Toodygirl5's photo
Thu 01/25/18 03:40 PM

Liars just lie.

All kinds of reasons but all BS.

Nothing like being at home and knowing I am being stabbed in the back only to receive some lame, garbage excuses.

Sucks.


laugh

maybwecan's photo
Thu 01/25/18 04:13 PM

why do ladies,guys,men and women cheat in their relationship is because they lack the spirit of insincerity whice is the firs spirit we are to possess as humans to live a responsible life.


ok...time to up the ante...suppose both of you belong to a swapping club or a swingers club or have an "open" situation, is the word "cheating" still applicable?

no photo
Thu 01/25/18 04:14 PM
They cheat for sex Vic... that is all they want.. men and woman.. that is why they do it... sex

Really not that complicated.


AngelHappiness's photo
Thu 01/25/18 04:23 PM
They cheat because they are not happy and contented with their relationship... sometimes they feel that something is missing and they are thinking that they will find that missing when they cheat

rwfuller's photo
Fri 01/26/18 07:36 AM
they cheat because its human nature, humans want to breed and we are curious creatures. humans think the grass is green and better on the otherside.
monogamy is hard for some, thats why there is now a polygamy groups out there.
you have to choose to be in a monogamy relationship with someone.

Narlycarnk's photo
Fri 01/26/18 05:27 PM
Yes I am slightly squeamish to say the reason why, but it is hatred. It is better to dream about dating than to date a cheater, in my opinion. I do believe people change though.

no photo
Sat 01/27/18 10:54 AM
Maybe knowing why someone DOESN'T cheat is more important to choosing future relationships. It seems to me there would be fewer factors involved. You know, accentuate the positive, and all that. flowerforyou

LeeFranklin's photo
Sat 01/27/18 10:57 AM

Maybe knowing why someone DOESN'T cheat is more important to choosing future relationships. It seems to me there would be fewer factors involved. You know, accentuate the positive, and all that. flowerforyou



2X

There are so many positive reasons not to cheat.

So many negative reasons to cheat.

no photo
Sat 01/27/18 11:17 AM


Maybe knowing why someone DOESN'T cheat is more important to choosing future relationships. It seems to me there would be fewer factors involved. You know, accentuate the positive, and all that. flowerforyou



2X

There are so many positive reasons not to cheat.

So many negative reasons to cheat.


flowerforyou Hi there ho there Lee! waving

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