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Topic: why do people cheat
Anusha's photo
Tue 01/11/22 01:23 PM
I cheated to see weather my partner was actually in love with me I wanted to hurt her because thats how felt loved you might think of me as a psycho but thats just who I am I test ppl

Sarah's photo
Mon 01/24/22 03:26 AM
Spirits have nothing to do with cheating. Men and women cheat for different reasons. Men will cheat just for variety. Women cheat because they are unhappy in the relationship.
This is true most of the time, not all of the time. There are exceptions.

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Mon 01/24/22 06:50 AM
Chewing Bubble gum...
Cheat-Chatting :eyes::grin:

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Mon 01/24/22 09:01 AM
They see no use in Christian values and want more than they got.

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Wed 01/26/22 01:44 AM
I cheated once! My girlfriend decided to be a Cop and moved away for a year. I didn't know what to think about that and when a school teacher brought me a whole cake for helping me with her car, my character became flawed. Next women who brought me a cake was a Cop and then I remained faithful even though she was beautiful like few others. I dodged a bullet there, later my girlfriend and her started working together!

I think there are many reasons for cheating. Sometimes it's bad, sometimes it can change things to the better.
People tend to stay together to long in relationships that don't work. Mostly relationship fails because they are not on the same page together in the book of life. And want different things at different times.

Rod's photo
Wed 01/26/22 01:22 PM
You only live once.

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Thu 01/27/22 06:34 PM
Edited by Unknow on Thu 01/27/22 06:41 PM
I believe i have a answer , My relationship sense 2008 before it ended she has bipolar, manic depressive disorder. She was caught sending naked photos to a guy on Facebook mind you to a stranger older than her
I discovered it I thought her phone was mine. Same color case. I took her to therapy couples therapy. The second time was she lied said she was going to job center never returned apparently she went.back.to her x boyfriend well husband. As stupid idiotic as it sounds love is blind I took her back only to find out a couple years later she decided to take off while I was asleep meet this African American guy who was with FedEx and had woman on the side I filed a missing person report after 24 hours found out.
Apparently she never met h came back from Maryland back to Connecticut. Again as stupid idiotic I was took her back and back to therapy.
A couple years later she did it again went behind my back to her x husband again this time got all messed up. A day after Christmas. I was begged from her brother to get her he on New Hampshire so my brother in-law and I picked her up again. From Middletown CT BB ack toy city.
I finally realized not worth it and it's true one a cheater always a cheater. It's a sicknes that only they can fix only they can change .
Part is the mental illness as well.
Am almost 50 now I have no more time in my life to mess around I hope this teaches some of you this lesson.
A person only good for their word if they are truly worth their word a relationship shouldn't be toyed with or abused yes ladies this works both ways.
This is why people cheat it's a sicknes that only they can get help with just like a person who drinks dose not stop or someone who has a partner rather watch porn not make love to their partner.
Don't blame yourself for their stupidity only be thankful that you where the faithful one . Now I move on don't look back and now am much wiser than before.

David Michael 's photo
Fri 01/28/22 11:29 AM
because they are not satisfied with them selves,
and are dishonest with everyone else about it.

selfish in a nutshell

Jean 's photo
Sat 01/29/22 12:55 AM
Because they are contented and satisfied in relationship.

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Sat 01/29/22 12:59 AM
Because it's heat here

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Mon 01/31/22 10:37 AM
To cheat or not to cheat that is the question.
I do believe I did mention that those who.cheat have no regrets. They fine it ammusing fun a sport .

I know people who are manic depressive and bipolar some of them can't hold a relationship.their very sexual and will do it behind their partners back .
So yes part had to be mental illness.

Their is no correct answer to answer why people cheat because everyone is different and has their own way expressing themselves and their ideas as so many here has already.

Point is if you can't stay faithful than you don't deserve a relationship .The person who cheats is the only one who can stop .

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Devy's photo
Tue 02/01/22 11:35 AM
They don't value being monogamous!

i think they just don't care

sonofrangi's photo
Tue 02/01/22 02:50 PM
I jave no idea why...is it for the thril of the chase :rolling_eyes:...Tis beyond me and I do not condone it either
If you love someone..stay in love..don't go messing it up:sunglasses:

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Tue 02/01/22 08:40 PM
Maybe there just trapped. It's not always black and white there's no mulligan button. Craving a connection that's out of reach.

Jaylee's photo
Thu 02/03/22 03:54 AM
Well.... I found it very interesting that is proven that males are more prone to cheating than females. That is because, in nature, it is the Male's natural instinct to feel, may I say?... "feel an animalistic urge" , if you will. Naturally, a Male most often times, no matter human animal or insect, it feels necessary on a subconscious perspective. As in to seek out as many partners in short increments of time as a natural survival tactic. To populate and repopulate the Earth. 🕺:information_desk_person::muscle:

Enrom's photo
Thu 03/03/22 02:04 AM
People cheat cause they saw something else in someone that the think n believe they lack in their current partner.... Some cheat cause they are not really in love with you, the just saw something in you that caught their attention.

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Tue 03/08/22 01:59 PM
inability to face the reality of relationship and it's complexity. People when in uncomfortable situation inside the relationship tend to seek safety zone. Or sometimes cheaters are really meant for each other as they collide in the same perspective.

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Tue 03/08/22 09:59 PM
Because they eat more cheese and meat of free. :smile::smile::smile::anger:

Rod's photo
Tue 03/15/22 12:21 AM
You only live once.

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