When I go out for an entire day, I meet close to 500 people. I go home with no number and a bunch of names that I've forgotten.

So here is my problem. I meet a lot of women, a lot of women approach me. They do this because I have a dog, they love my dog and it's like a magnet. Now I know that talking with all of the women is impossible sometimes not even pheasable. However, I would like to move past the initial part of hi *bends down to pet dog as I stare at their breasts* what's your dog's name... Answer she's really cute.. answer yeah she is or so... I might get to ask what is your name? Now comes their friend who doesn't want her friend to pet dog or move along now... How do I stop that? Or before she goes away because she clearly had enough balls to stop and talk before all of a sudden it hits her maybe she's uncomfortable *most of the women I like are rather young probably between 18-23* how I do elongate the conversation? It happens so fast, so frequent, and so often that I actually lose track of how many names I get in a night. I've tried a very few times to get a number to no avail but I'd also like to move on in the conversation or at least make it longer than 20-50 seconds or so. I am not granted with a huge amount of time but I know this. If I was a total creep to them they wouldn't approach my dog. I also know that if they were afraid or insecure or even shy they wouldn't talk to me.

Here's another example as well. I took my dog to a dog park for the very first time. A beautiful girl came over to me *mind you my dog is off leash and she's wandering around and I do like to watch her because she could potentially get injured by another dog.* It's kind of like watching your kid on a playground. ANyway, she invited me to a dog park she frequently visits because she never comes to this one. I'm thinking total hit on must bring dog to other park but then again maybe this isn't true? I honestly don't know.

It's really wierd around certain people I become extremely comfortable but when on the spot in public I become really shy like not myself and for some reason I can't take off the shock collar get up the nerve to speak or hit on back. I'm getting better I think but not good enough. Sometimes I don't even get to say any words because I'm just in awe of how beautiful the girl is that approaches me and before I know it they're on the move.

huh? So I noticed the rating thing right but like it tells me that 5 people want to meet me so I said no to 5 people or so then it said 3 people want to meet me and then it said 2 and then it said 1 and then I said no to those and it still says 1 :(. Spam?

as for rating my profile uhm this profile sucks I'm not interested in really building it but uh if you want to learn more about me and stuff or make fun of me please visit

http://www.myspace.com/scarred_by_tears there are videos on the main page so those that have dialup I would suggest not going to it.

I totally don't update that much information about myself but I can't say other than location I change all that much month to month. I am the same person, I like the samethings, I'm looking for the samethings in a woman that I have been looking for since the beginning of my life. There isn't much change going on as far as that is concerned.

We can only use what information we have about the world to make decisions on what to do in the world. Maybe she has had a profile up on numerous sites explaining certain things that she wants like no complimenting her about her features and all the guys do is say wow you got big tits can I lick them? I mean you aren't her, give her some space. You have no idea what she goes through. I think I'd hate to be an attractive female on a dating site. You'd get soo many e-mails and I'm sure that there are some really sick people in the world and men who don't know how to speak correctly.

WHen men find that they can take advantage of someone based on a personality flaw, they will totally do it. I just forewarn you that an attempt like this is pretty scary. It's not that you seem desperate or anything but you're giving a potential person the knowledge of how to fool you. When you meet the right gentlemen for you, you'll know if you take the time to get to know them. It's very hard to go from googley eyes for a male and then get to know him so watch yourself on the whole good looking part. Once you have those googley eyes and this male is like oh I'm good looking to you all I gotta do is be nice and you're in bed... Not exactly a good way to find a good guy.

The countless opportunities that I always **** up. On the average when I go for a night, I probably pass up the chance with like 30 potential people and I haven't been able to figure out why I do this.

For me it never starts to fade but for the other.. well that's a different story I guess. I have always felt that they were just filled of lies and found something or wanted something more than I was able to give/offer.

It's not like I could've known that haha. If a hotel or motel in NYC or NJ was 25 bucks a night I guarentee crack is the main reason why.

I've never intentionally tried online dating it just sorta happens. You develop friendship through writing, laughter, and becoming personable with someone that brings you closer than you're with just normal friends. It's that kind of kinship that is much easier to evolve on the internet rather than in real life. Plus it also allows you to develop a means of understanding without getting the wrong idea. It's so much harder to talk in person because of peoples behavior. Like they're flipping out and yelling at you but when you're just reading words it doesn't evoke that kind of response :). It's so much more awesome.

Now that I keep moving around the world and not knowing anyone or anything and pretty much everyone stays inside nowadays unless you have money to go out and buy stuff or go out and just spend money it's much easier to look for a pretty girl online and see if we connect rather than having to find someone who isn't busy on the street to talk to you. It's also much easier to communicate without being nervous or uncomfortable :). Plus you don't get the whole oh I don't like the way you look or being completely ignored. You kind of forget who you message online if they don't reply :).

That would defeat the purpose of love. It's suppossed to be completely spontaneous and based on pure emotion not just thrown around and not suited to my desires.

I don't just randomly im people. So I always read what is inside of a profile after I have decided that the girl is worth looking at. So first picture, second profile. When I enter the profile first thing I look for is a kid, second thing is more pictures, then if both of those are good to me, then I look at the information. Depending on what I read creates whether or not I move forward with a message most of the time what is written or if nothing is written I move on to the next person. It's the writing within the profile that really brings me to decide if they're worth talking to but it's very rare that I ever message anyone. I'd say out of searching through 10,000 people I might message 15.

Hahaha I do realize you made the thread, and I'm glad you were able to find the answers you were seeking from your posting. However, your thread did evolve and numerous questions did come up.

I do realize that motels or hotels can change on location, I was going by the typical ones I've encountered in my life. Also a 25.00 a night stay is really really cheap and although that may seem like a good alternative if you don't have a lot of money I'd say most people would shy away from the cheapest and try to go mid range such as a 2 star or 3 star in case the relationship does evolve. I mean I doubt someone would want to go back to a place that is in really bad shape you know? Eh it's just me and my thinking.

A sincere apology is all you can really do. Presents may seem like stalker material to some or they could be well received by others.

Only you know her and the idea behind getting past the issue is to change her mind about you. The only way you can do this is to bring a smile to her face. Will flowers do this? I don't know you know her, not I.

No one would know this answer but the guy himself. I'd move cautiously or not at all. That's just me though.

It has nothing to do with interest. Unless we're from a different world every single person eats food.

I still haven't seen a response as to how it protects you. You're arguing without having any rational reason other than he must afford a hotel/motel to meet me but if he lives 3 doors away it's totally kosher. I'm not seeing it.

Whether I had the money or not, I still wouldn't meet someone for that large of a sum. That's just ridiculous. I've done my fair share of travelling across country from WV-to houston, from NJ to Austin, from NJ to MD from.

I don't care what other people ask. I asked a simple question how does a hotel room prevent a potential psychopath/stalker help protect you? I would just like to know that.

I just don't see how sitting down to do something that I have to do every single day is a date because a member of the same sex or opposite sex is with me.

When you live together and you cook each night is it a date? Does it only count when you go out? Do my 3 roommates date me everynight when we all sit down to dinner? Am I dating my children *if I had any*? It's pathetic! It's such a crazy idea that this would even be considered romantic at all. I have no idea who came up with this logic but whoeever did and instilled it into the mindless drones of society clearly it worked! Still though I don't fall victim to something I've done since I was born. Did my mom date me everynight that she cooked me food for dinner, breakfast and lunch? 3 dates a day damn I'm racking em up now.

Don't get me wrong, it's really nice when people cook for me like for instance my roommates may make a dinner and invite me to eat with them but I am not dating them. If I make a dinner for my three roommates they're not dating me if they eat it. Does my boss or corporation date me when they pay for lunch? It's too funny I'm sorry.

I just don't see how it's a *date* especially if you go well we went out to eat and money bought us food from this really nice place but weren't alone. We were constantly being stared at by the waiter or the waitress and the busboys.. Freaky if you ask me.

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First of all don't use flea shampoos or collars. Get rid of them. They don't work. All they do is cause irritation. Sometimes depending on the size and age of the animal this can cause serious side effects as well. There is a pill or this gel like substance that you can give your animal to prevent kill and prevent fleas. It's not expensive. It's also NOT FRONTLINE! Don't get frontline! Frontline doesn't kill fleas! Frontline prevents fleas but does a really ****ty job at it. Depending on how much the dog weighs depends on if they're elligible for the pill or not. The pill is like a miracle. My parents live in an infested area of fleas. There's no killing them in their climate pretty much all year round fleas are there. This pill not only kills fleas but also keeps them off of the animals for about 24 days or so and then they might develop them on the animal during the last 6 days before you can return to giving them a new pill. *ALL FLEAS ON THE ANIMALS ARE DEAD WITHIN 24 HOURS* :) It's really good stuff. You can only get this from your vet.

Next you should only bathe your dog every 3-4 weeks. That's it. If you're doing it more than that you have a problem and can cause irritation. This may be the reason for the butt dragging.

As for the worms. You need to go to a vet to get the proper medication since over the counter stuff failed. Take a bag of poop to the vet when you do so. They will run diagnostics on the crap, and find out what to do about the infection of worms.

If you have a cat still alive and the dog has worms he's probably getting the worms from eating cat crap. You should if not must also get your cat done for worms. If one animals has it chances are extremely high that the other animal has it.

Now as for where worms come from... They come from the food you give them. It doesn't have to be human food. It can simply be cat food or dog food. Sometimes when you get stuff from stores, well this is what's in it. There is absolutely no real way to totally prevent it but I think if they're on heartworm medicine I think they may prevent this.

I've never had it workout.

I wish it didn't matter.