I don't get angry.

wow you're one sick puppy. I do not date pre-teens.

First of all I said I would never meet someone after 1 day of talking on the phone. However, I have met people and I have stayed at their house before on the very first time that we ever met. There are a total of 5 people who I have met through the internet that I slept at their house the very first time I ever met them. One person stayed at my house.

Did you just say you don't know... Here's a really funny story for ya truly think about it for a minute. Your mom brought you home from the hospital, she has no idea who the **** you're, all she knows is you're alive and have been living inside of her. There is no way to tell if you will grow up to be the next serial killer. Here's another thing, every person you will ever meet in your life, you will never ever ever know. You will be able to trust them if you let yourself do so, but you will never know them. You aren't a psychic, you aren't god and the only person that knows someone is themself. That is it, everything else can be a lie including the information you submit to your employer.

Also there is no rule that you can't have friends stay at your place to protect you. There is also no rule that you have to meet with him. You could easily say no and like I said it seemed wierd after one phone call or during the first phone call.

Check this out. How many people per weekend take a chance with a complete stranger who they met at the club or dance hall and took them home? Think about it for a minute seriously. You don't know anyone, not your husband, your boyfriend, your mother, your father, your sister, your brother, your best friend or any of your friends. You never know what is inside of their head unless they tell you and then it could be a lie. Every single relationship is built on trust.

You seem to think that you can't use preventive methods to make yourself safe.

For one-why would you let someone drive to your house? First things first this person doesn't drive up to your place, you meet them in public first.

Second-you develop a trust with them in public before you do anything else with them *this doesn't guarentee safety but it helps*

Third-if at anytime during this part you feel unsafe why continue with the journey? Actually if you feel unsafe to begin why did you meet them?

Fourth-Bring friends no ones going to be mad about you bringing friends.

Fifth-develop an understanding of the person before you meet them. Like I don't know the guy says he works for blah blah blah simply ask to speak to his friends or managers to confirm this. It's not hard it only takes a couple of seconds.

Six- I have no idea how you met your previous boyfriends or girlfriends or lovers but chances are if you make a connection through the internet, you take a lot more time getting to know this person than you do with any of the people that you just said.

Seven-you could make it perfectly clear that if this person is lying they're going straight back where they came from. Like for instance their photo isn't real... They showed up as someone totally different.

I'd go on but it's absolutely pointless. The point I will finish this off with. Sure people on the internet do lie, sure people who you meet on the street do lie, but chances are through the internet meeting someone I'd say is about 200% safer than it is to meet someone at a ****ing bar when they're drunk as are you so your senses all kinds of screwed up. If not higher by the way.

Dragon Warrior

Oh come on the beatles are classic rockstars.

Nirvana=totally overrated. Hahaha. That's just too funny.

GLAY!

His safety is just as at risk that yours is.

Just because you're a woman doesn't mean women don't kill, sodomize men, or have really freaky ways of living in this world. All I'm saying is I would never ever ever ever ever spend 500 to meet someone no matter if sex was included in the deal or not. That is an absurd amount of money.

3 hour drive= at least 50.00 gas

hotel room for 3 days minimum 50.00 a night- 150.00 and that's at a bare minimum most likely 300.00 350 dollars without food ok so now you eat out and since you're the man you pay for dinner eat + 2 dinner good dinner=at the very least probably about another 50.00 for one night dinner, breakfast maybe the hotel offers it for free if you wake up early enoguh *yeah right hahaha* so breakfast and lunch you're going to spend money on for 2 days which will probably be about another 20-30 per day if you ate by yourself so now you're looking at another 60 bucks.

Man I don't know too many people who are going to spend 500.00 on first meet and greet. That's a lot of money.

This doesn't include drinks to get to and from home. 3 hour drive I usually get 2 drinks plus an energy kicker or coffee going both ways I would spent about 10.00 bucks or so. This has no activities planned by the way or any type of gift or anything like that.

Like I said, I've flown across country before and spent 7 days in Houston with a girl, I spent 5 days in Austin with a girl, I spent maybe 7 days on 2 different trips to MD with a girl... I don't recall the amount of days with the mD girl because of the two seperate trips. I stayed at their places all of the times.

Actually I was wondering who ate the fish heads!

I don't always leave a big tip. I usually leave about a 25% tip however if a server doesn't do what I ask them to do like I don't know I order coffee they bring me 2 creamers I ask for another creamer and they don't come back when they do come back with the 3rd creamer if they remember my coffee is cold=not a good tip.

Food quality has nothing to do with the server this doesn't diminish the tip. Getting my order wrong could diminish the tip depending on what is wrong with the order... If it's the cooks fault I keep the tip the same. If it's the servers fault lower tip. People shouldn't be rewarded for their mistakes, that is my belief.

I'd say a good portion of those are much more expensive than I could afford except the whole coffee house thing., I always dig open mics, chess, and conversations as well as neat artwork, and whatever else they got in there...

I dig walking through forests and on the lakes and finding some neat spots.

I dig camping it's cheap if you already have the gear cozy too :).

stargazing is really cool drive out somewhere put the top down...

Parks are awesome. Bring a frisbee and uh the dog and go mingle with other people or be alone and make a snack out of it.

the zoo oh yes the zoo is great times. Not only do you walk a lot but seeing animals will usually always bring a smile :). *dog park is better than the zoo*

Create a new game. You know like tag but like you know invent your own game.

Mystery house hide something and play hot and cold or just give a clue. This is fun! :) Such a tease too! I prefer not to play hot and cold... I just give tips on where it is and I always put it in a place where they won't find it no matter how hard they look during the day, however the next day they always find it. That's the clue by the way. Hah.

Make fun of people day... This is probably my favorite activity ever! You go out to like a crowded place and get out your yelling voice *it's better if the place echoes*... This always creates good laughs oh wait you still don't know what I mean oh well.

Make a collage from art or something paint the walls and paint eachother... cheap if you do a drawing or coloring thinger majigger instead of the actual wall... Markers are always fun!

wrestle!!! Wrestling is fun plus full on body contact=win everytime.

Pillow fights are cool but you could really hurt her so you gotta be gentle with the pillow.

that's a few more and they just came from the top of my head with being single, not having a girl who might enjoy these activities and thought of oh I don't know in maybe 7 minutes or less.

Interracial or not people are people and some are blessed with a good personality and others aren't.

Now I will say that interracial dating could have some serious ramifications such as loss of family, loss of friends, and also very uncomfortable behavior. So it could potentially be an overwhelming burden to some people which makes even the best of the couples split up.

Love is love and I do believe it can be found anywhere but finding the right person to love you like you love them... Well I haven't been so fortunate.

a job would be nice... I won't be getting any presents.

Money is the power and not having customers=loss of money.

When you define a date to me, I will give some past experiences based on the response.

As for experiences I win in this category. I am like the awesomest person ever with great ideas... Usually they are generated based on impulse and quick thinking, the best kind of ideas :).

First let me ask you this... WHat the **** is a date? I don't think I've ever been on a date in my life. I've done things in private with people when it's just the two of us but let's be real here what the does a date consist of?

Don't you dare tell me eat food and see a movie. I eat food 3x a day, I watch a movie about once a day. Just because I am sitting down with a member of the opposite sex doesn't constitute a date at least not in my mind.

I don't think it's the word or words, I think it's who uses them.

Maybe they dated... dun dun dun

There's a video of me dancing on a table... It's really bad.. Hah.

I think it all depends on where we're, what friends I am with, or what we're doing.

If I'm drinking with friends out in public totally anti-social.

If I'm walking down the street with my best friend everyone I pass is going to hear me say something about them.

I've met a number of people through the internet over the years. I've flown half way across the country to spend time with them on our very first meeting.

My intentions weren't to get into the sack right away but you never know what will happen once you two are together. You don't plan sex it happens..

If someone was being sketchy about their weight though yikes... I don't play games like that. I don't like sketchy people to begin with. If it's not open I usually just end the conversation right then and there. Unless like I am really digging their personality and they're able to keep maintaining a conversation.

I do think it takes time to get to know someone though. I wouldn't jump into meeting them after one conversation. Remember this is the internet and not everyone tells the truth on here or on the phone for that matter. I believe it takes time and I don't think I'd ever ask to meet someone after one conversation.. I think that would be a little too fast. I mean I might say wow you seem awesome maybe sometime in the future we could meet up but not like tomorrow hahaha.

yuck I'd never make love in the mud that is just wayyy too gross for me.