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Tue 12/23/08 02:01 AM
A MONEY MAKING PLACE FOR ME TO GO TO EVERY SINGLE DAY TO HELP ME SURVIVE TO SEE ANOTHER YEAR AND SEE MY 26TH BIRTHDAY!

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Tue 12/23/08 01:58 AM


I don't see a problem with drinking every once in awhile when it's an every weekend or weekday activity well that's a completely different story...


It's a problem for me. I've lost way too many people to alcohol as it is. It's simply not going to be a factor in my life.


Why must people be smart to be considered a lover? I mean I don't know you, but I'm sure to a rocket scientist you aren't smart. How do you judge smarts? Street smarts or like book smarts? Business smarts?


Well, historically, I've dated a lot of girls in the short-term. The main reason they were short-term is because they got boring after a few months -- couldn't hold a conversation, couldn't express opinions (or didn't have any, or had some but they weren't based on anything other than which shoes went with which purse); that sort of intellectual disparity, while it may seem mildly endearing in the beginning, gets old rapidly.

I don't know any rocket scientists, but I do know several clinical psychologists, and they think I'm very smart....

Of course, it could just be that they're fooled by the fact that I've written two books....





I saw the book post earlier...

Do women become boring to you because you're unable to enjoy them for who they're? I mean you say they aren't conversationalists but do you turn them into conversationalists? I must say I've met quite a few people who aren't as intelligent as others, but that doesn't mean they don't have feelings or knowledge about other things. Knowing someone for a few months isn't knowing them all that long. You could learn a lot about someone in a few months but to know even half of their life within that time span or what they've encountered or what they feel is important can change. People are constantly evolving and changing inside of their head or maybe that's just what I've seen since I'm younger. Maybe as I continue to grow up people become fixated in life and have no passion to keep evolving.

I do grow bored with people as well but this is primarily due to a focus of me to stop being me based on a quality I found in a woman a couple years ago. I enjoyed a relationship where she almost dictated the entire relationship, it was quite weird and very hard to get a word in sometimes. I was like wow I dig this because I was so used to always leading conversation. To that point in my life I never encountered someone like that, but that doesn't mean the others I was with before that weren't suitable for my tastes. I do enjoy learning about people but then I'm out of questions or I have forgotten to ask new questions or they aren't as passionate as they once were with their answers.

a career doesn't make smarts that's why I brought the rocket science thing. I have a roommate who will be moving out next month who asked for my advice quite a number of times. Totally not the best chef *he burnt french toast*, he grabbed a potato from the microwave after he cooked it with his bare hands... I guess he never played hot potato. That was basically my point how do you judge smarts because I mean everyone has their own way of thinking and well others have a different way of thinking. I think it's about finding what their passion is and getting them to talk about it. Mr. rocket scientist gave me a lot of knowledge about people and job interviews and how to act on the job, but yet I'm the social butterfly in the outside world. I thought of myself as a runner and yet he's going on a marathon in a couple weeks.

Just because you have a more eloquent vocabulary doesn't mean that you carry more value than another person. It's just what you were driven to do in life. You wanted to be a writer unless you're writing children's books you generally need to have an extensive vocabulary as to intrigue your readers and differentiate yourself from other peers. You must go into a higher degree of difficulty but that doesn't mean the people who use less of a vocabulary are dumb or not worthy of knowing. I'd rather know a person who isn't book educated but has all the world's experience to live off of. Then again that's me. People interest me, it's my passion. I meet as many people as I can from young to old and will talk with any of them. It's also important to know the people who truly care and love others, this is what I value most. As for this conversation about purses. I've been alive for 25 years and I've never had that conversation with any girl in my life.

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Tue 12/23/08 01:40 AM




that ______________?


Uses drugs or alcohol.

Has kids.

Is dumber than an amoeba.

Has no sense of humor.

Has no communications skills.

Wants to "domesticate" me.







I don't see a problem with drinking every once in awhile when it's an every weekend or weekday activity well that's a completely different story...

Why must people be smart to be considered a lover? I mean I don't know you, but I'm sure to a rocket scientist you aren't smart. How do you judge smarts? Street smarts or like book smarts? Business smarts?

I'm not into dating girls with a kid already.

has tattoos in spots that I feel is wrong, or covers a lot of their body.

Earrings in places they shouldn't be.

is 1 and a half times my weight and up!

Isn't physically active at least in walking. If they aren't willing to walk yep not for me.




okay...what exactly is the wrong spot for a tattoo or piercing??? And what is wrong with a fat girl??? Seriously...I used to weigh 400lbs and guys wouldn't talk to me (other than a friend). Now I'm 150 and the SAME guys are all into me...and they can SHOVE IT!!! I'm the same person now as I was then...I just weigh less...and if you can't see someone for WHO they are on the inside, then you don't deserve them anyhow...


For me a wrong spot for a tattoo exists in a bunch of places like the kitty spot, on the face, on the breast, on the ass, or just a nasty tattoo to begin with especially if sexual in nature.

Piercings wrong spots, clit, hood, nose, eyebrow, forehead, nipple, the thing on the inside of the ear, too many on the ear is really annoying unless they take them out, and I'm not really a fan of tongue piercings either.

I'll tell you why I don't like women who weigh more than me. It hurts, I can't pick them up, I don't like big boobs, I don't find pancakes attractive, I'm athletic I like to run 5-6 minute mile, my dog digs exercise, I like to swim, I like to walk for like 10 hours in a row per day on my days off, I don't always walk on pavement and physical activity is required, I like to dance, my car isn't suitable for a big woman, she wouldn't fit, the car wouldn't go nearly as fast, it wouldn't drift right, *I know this my mom drives in my car and yikes*, I dig horseback riding, laying down together on the couch, sitting together in a chair but her on me not me on her.

By the way, 150 is too much to me. I'm sure that there are many men out there who like you for that weight and I'm sure they find you very attractive at that weight. Me personally I am small, I prefer to be around other small people like me. I have more fun that way based on experience.

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Tue 12/23/08 01:26 AM

that the more we can't have something/one, the more we want it/them? frustrated


uhm no.

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Tue 12/23/08 01:24 AM
Ah well if you called there's not much else you can do.

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Tue 12/23/08 01:23 AM

:heart: If you love someone but can't be with them, what should you do?:heart:


in a physical state or both a physical and an emotional state? I don't believe distance is the reason for it not to work out, but if there's no way for an emotional state to be there, I just move on. I can't make others feel the way I do.

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Tue 12/23/08 01:22 AM

spock How often do you get yelled at or told off?spock


on the internet, daily... On the street not since I was like 19.

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Tue 12/23/08 01:19 AM

well this site is pretty much dead, so whoever is still awake come and talk about whatever, cause im bored lol


only boring people become bored. Get to know yourself better, what you truly love to do in life and then go do that so you aren't bored anymore. Don't depend on others for entertainment, it's not going to get you anywhere in life.

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Tue 12/23/08 01:18 AM

:smile: Would you go out with someone who reminds you of your Dad or Mother?:smile:



hahahaha NO!

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Tue 12/23/08 01:17 AM
This is actually a test I often pull as a guy. I am falling for someone pretty hard, we've talking for quite awhile but I always feel that I am always the chaser. So my feelings are known and then I sit back and go ok now it's her turn to prove if she wants us to go further. You know what I've noticed... They don't call, don't show up, and the first couple of days truly suck but when it goes past a week it's like are you ****ing kidding me?

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Tue 12/23/08 01:09 AM
Maybe the main cause is the fact that it's not an appealling activity.

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Tue 12/23/08 01:07 AM

No!!! Im more of the writer outer!!!noway laugh

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Mon 12/22/08 07:29 AM


that ______________?


Uses drugs or alcohol.

Has kids.

Is dumber than an amoeba.

Has no sense of humor.

Has no communications skills.

Wants to "domesticate" me.







I don't see a problem with drinking every once in awhile when it's an every weekend or weekday activity well that's a completely different story...

Why must people be smart to be considered a lover? I mean I don't know you, but I'm sure to a rocket scientist you aren't smart. How do you judge smarts? Street smarts or like book smarts? Business smarts?

I'm not into dating girls with a kid already.

has tattoos in spots that I feel is wrong, or covers a lot of their body.

Earrings in places they shouldn't be.

is 1 and a half times my weight and up!

Isn't physically active at least in walking. If they aren't willing to walk yep not for me.


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Mon 12/22/08 07:20 AM
I put new photos up on the site I listed.

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Mon 12/22/08 07:18 AM

flowerforyou Can you disagree with your partner/spouse/significant other and not have a big fight?flowerforyou


Yep.

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Mon 12/22/08 07:15 AM


You can discuss anything you want herewaving


Thanks, sweethearts. It's nice to talk and not about broken or lousy relationships, new dates, old dates, jerks, saints.
I like the fact that the moderators state quite clearly that everyone has to stay in line and not issue a personal attack. That's fine. Sometimes you want to seek and given evidence and base it on your education, political evidence, discoveries of interest..etc.
Thank you, :heart:


It's hard to find a good site that has people on it that are mature and don't treat everything as spam or has enough posters to make it worthwhile.

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Mon 12/22/08 07:14 AM
You shouldn't be going to AA to find people to date and people in AA aren't always there for help. Sometimes the free coffee and food entices them or to make fun of others or they are in trouble with the law and must attend.

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Mon 12/22/08 07:12 AM

laugh laugh


They need something like that for us womens.bigsmile


When a girl is wearing a really sweet smelling scent like fruity smells, my sensations buzz. I love the way women smell but seriously that's only noticeable if done with perfume. To be honest I just love good smells eminating from their hair. I don't understand it but their hair is just like yum yum!


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Sun 12/21/08 05:38 PM
nope.

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Sun 12/21/08 04:50 PM


what's a date?
:laughing:


I'm serious...

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