it just means that you want to have sex . mingle is NOT, a marriage site.
that's Match.com
people are here to hook up

You've met a great-looking and mature person. At your first face-to-face chat over coffee they state they're had a successful sex change. At this point would you continue to date and think romantically, possibly physically, about the person?

Yes I have some regrets , to do with my children .
For the last few months these regrets have been playing on my mind , more so than usual , so much and totally getting me down .
I do have an absolutely amazing relationship with all of my kids . They know they are my world and what they mean to me , and we are all very close .
These are regrets that are eating away at me personally and not at my kids .
I cry often thinking about it ,
I cannot change the past but I don’t know how to get past it and move forward from it and thinking about them just makes me so sad and such a failure as a mom for them times .

would you?why or why not?



people should'nt base their like by how sexy or how curvy a woman is.

As we're all neighbors, in the forums...
Some may occasionally contact others,
in regard to forums posts.
Be it, a pat on the back, or a proverbial whack
to the noggin.

It's generally done, without regard, to profile content.
It's called, "communicating", "networking", "being a neighbor".


If, on the offhand, the email is of a romantic nature,
and not from a bot, i politely decline, and wish the sender
luck in their search. If it is a bot, or an obvious scammer,
I simply block.


There is absolutely nothing on the internet, worth allowing
yourself to become upset about.

Flirting is very subjective .., it depends on interpretation , context and intent . Sometimes a smile or compliment is taken as flirting but that was not the intent

As for sex chat . The intent is usually clear . However , Sometimes the boundary between fantasy and reality is blurred ..

An affair generally assumes one or both are not single and implies a physical and/or emotional intimacy . There can be flirting and sex chat without it leading to an affair .

Even chat rooms vary ... some cater towards adult fun and others less so . Flirting behaviour is usually indicative of the type of chat room and environment . For instance... mingle forums have a Pg13 rating . Not sure they are considered a chat room .

Even if a man is looking for sex, this is not a big problem. Sex is a level of critical trust between partners. It's bad if a man is looking for a sex doll.

Love the One You're With - Stephen Stills

When in doubt if you can handle the dude that might be the smartest option. But I'd feel horribly guilty if something would then happen to my sister that I'd left behind.
Then again, if you don't get out there may not be hope for anyone.
Thank you!

You can't use my age on mingle!

Some women wear shorts with heels!

That's a bit much.

You like gorgeous men too?