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| Topic: Why is it so hard for a older women | |
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 Hey Grizzly :-)...It's the thread that never stop giving....and giving.....and giving....
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Hard to "Find" Love or Hard to "Give" love?
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Old an when I was young always found it hard to find love myself.
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I think as we get older we know what we want and what we don't want. So we aren't as eager to just date anyone. We want something that is going to last. Or some of us do. I guess it is easier if you are just looking to have a casual relationship. JMO.
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Us know,being a nice guy like my self find just d hard. I've got a great out look on life. Help all i can. But for some reason as i hear outta... When is the bad going to come out?really. Next please. I've always paid for women's past relationship. Guess it's the way the cookie crumbles
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Good lord, but I'm tired of women whining and complaining. You aren't interested in younger men, fine. Set your filters. You don't like men older? Fine set your filters. You're insecure because you aren't young anymore, don't be on a dating site.
I have no issue being called a MILF or cougar. I enjoy younger men. Does that mean I'm going to marry them? I don't know but I doubt it. Do I approach them? No. I enjoy men of all ages, I've dated 30 yrs younger than myself. I've had fun. I'm a gym nut, I enjoy working out and staying fit. I like men who are fit and in shape. A guy has a gut on himself, I don't care what his age is, I'm not attracted. That's it for me. Is he mature? Does he have a good sense of humor? Can he carry on a conversation? Then I might be interested. |
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no kiddin' that is a good description of the process
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It is very hard for older men too.
I am really choosy, I like short and slim, used to be known as petite, I met a lady once, no pic in her profile, claimed to be "petite" in truth, short and fat, I nearly had heart attack lol another thing, big boobs/clevage, yuk, does nothing for me, OH, I don't drink and I don't like football. I keep myself in reasonable shape, and expect the same :) |
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Hey Grizzly :-)...It's the thread that never stop giving....and giving.....and giving....
I hear ya darlin 
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Hey (((mikey))). I found another one!
Let's see 928 posts and 18661 views against 483 posts and 10460 views for the under 30 crowd. This thread is outright winning for sure. |
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Hey (((mikey))). I found another one!
Let's see 928 posts and 18661 views against 483 posts and 10460 views for the under 30 crowd. This thread is outright winning for sure.  ...they are like searching for Easter eggs.....you'll stumble across one when you least expect it...
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Edited by
jmfoxman
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Wed 04/08/15 10:47 AM
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Edited by
jmfoxman
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Wed 04/08/15 10:48 AM
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Hard to find love!!?? Well. It wasn't hard for Me at all please women don't get all shook up and mad and start blasting me with harsh words. The following is only my opinion I repeat: ONLY MY OPINION!!!!! (ya might agree-ya might not) I notice a lot of man bashing. Alot of bitterness because of past relationships throw it away!!! Bashing? Why?? It doesnt make sense to me. One women does it and others flock like seagulls. The bitterness? It's unattractive and men are really turned off by it. They come out and say it but noone listens love is found by people who love themselves and are happy and show it to the world. Men are attracted to women who they see are strong -threw their baggage away and march on with confidence-a sense of humor-and their feminitity in tact this goes for men too! I know I'm no authority on the subject but there really is love for everyone out there ya know maybe stop wanting this and stop wanting that and giving every guy a fair chance? Even the "nice" ones that are always getting a bad rap? 
REMEMBER: this is just my most humble of opinions Very good reply! No one likes to dwell in your negative past. |
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Ladies. I agree. There are some really great guys around who R interested in our age group. I am so very proud of my age and don't really give much though to it. My posted picture is 5 weeks old. I have no problem with the slightest notion that younger women are more attractive than me. I believe that I AM INDEED AS GOOD AS IT GETS. NOW... Don't blast me,,, these are just my feelings
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Simple: many lie on the profile whether by picture interest, etc. Second, ego gone wild, many want only a guy 6ft +; or 10 years their younger, etc. WAKE UP. What about WHO the PERSON is?!?
OR this happens= Once we meet the truth comes out so all was a BIG waste of time. One lady was 10 yrs older than picture or 35 pounds lighter. One time on meeting a first time date, I didn't recognize her in any way...pictures had long hair and trim figure. Here stood a crew cut Beluga OR they are simply looking for a free meal - example: as a courtesy, I say " You pick a time/place" so they say "6:30 at "X"; I look it up and it is about $50 /plate (before drinks, etc); then I say "let's split the first date" , then he say "starbucks"- parasites. |
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no idea but it hard going for me.no luck whatsoever
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For me, every age is difficult to date. 25, 45? Doesn't matter.
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Actually this time around was so much easier than let's say 10 years ago. Sure I dated more back then, and I was spending time with a lot of toads..
Then I had to stop and look at myself at what I was doing wrong..since newsflash I was doing the picking... I fixed my picker and have found a wonderful man. We are both on this site and well it just keeps getting better each day. In my opinion if you want something bad enough then it is out there for ours to find and pick... Instead of ranting about it do something about it. |
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Ladies. I agree. There are some really great guys around who R interested in our age group. I am so very proud of my age and don't really give much though to it. My posted picture is 5 weeks old. I have no problem with the slightest notion that younger women are more attractive than me. I believe that I AM INDEED AS GOOD AS IT GETS. NOW... Don't blast me,,, these are just my feelings * 
Props to you & the other women, who look & sound, GREAT-after 50! You send, A Beautiful & Powerful Message in being yourselves! |
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hello
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