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Topic: Why is it so hard for a older women
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Mon 01/06/14 06:00 PM
Most of the men that approach me have children. I've had mine.. I don't want another ready made family.. if fact I don't want a man that has a young child. I state that in my profile, but they don't read. So I've shut off chat.... with hope more will read before messaging. I have seen zero people from my area online... no one... on occasion one will chat looking for sex.. that has been the only exception.... all they want is sex... that is not why I'm here... this is just my experience.

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Tue 01/07/14 03:37 AM
I love older women, they are sexy to me...:tongue:

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Tue 01/07/14 08:04 AM
Thinking back through life, the older women get, the better they get.

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Tue 01/07/14 07:21 PM
After being with a much younger woman I found out that she had no problem finding love. I was one of three who loved her. Now I am satisfied with an older woman and we both have our separate rooms. There is love. I think it is easier for an older woman to return love.

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Sun 01/26/14 11:31 AM
what if in my heart i feel much feeling of you and am sure i love you 99 %

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Tue 02/04/14 05:40 PM
:heart: flowerforyou Well ladies I am 57 soon to be 58 and I have always loved older women, I have great respect for the ladies of any age. But the older lady is shall we say more refined in many differt way's and not so jaded as some younger ones who only see the $$ signs or how he looks as opposed to how will he treat me? I treat all ladies with respect no matter how old or who they may be or look like . there are still gentlemen out there and I am proud to say I am a gentleman.

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Tue 02/04/14 07:58 PM
smokin
I think a positive attitude goes along way, Im 50 fell 40 and just got out of a relationship with a 36 year ol. He said is was my personality,my love for life,positive attitude and big ***! So there is hope for us Cougars,ACT LIKE ONE a cougar

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Fri 02/14/14 01:56 AM

to find LOVE?


Who was it that said : 'Love does not come to an End' ?

The older women I know all seem to be kind gentle people with lots of love. ( or did you mean secks?, that's always easy to find, at any age) ;)

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Sat 02/15/14 06:49 AM
I am finding at this age...50 something and older...the men are still into playing the games and lying. Why does this surprise me so much!?

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Wed 02/19/14 07:18 AM
The most sensual and gorgeous woman I know is over seventy.

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Fri 02/21/14 09:55 AM

Hard to find love!!??

Well. It wasn't hard for Me at all

please women don't get all shook up and mad and start blasting me with harsh words. The following is only my opinion

I repeat: ONLY MY OPINION!!!!! (ya might agree-ya might not)


I notice a lot of man bashing. Alot of bitterness because of past relationships

throw it away!!! Bashing? Why?? It doesnt make sense to me. One women does it and others flock like seagulls. The bitterness? It's unattractive and men are really turned off by it. They come out and say it but noone listens

love is found by people who love themselves and are happy and show it to the world. Men are attracted to women who they see are strong -threw their baggage away and march on with confidence-a sense of humor-and their feminitity in tact

this goes for men too!

I know I'm no authority on the subject but there really is love for everyone out there ya know

maybe stop wanting this and stop wanting that and giving every guy a fair chance?

Even the "nice" ones that are always getting a bad rap?:heart:

REMEMBER: this is just my most humble of opinions
WELL SAID and honest

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Fri 02/21/14 10:29 AM
I am looking for a woman my age. I am not Mr America jus a normal man looking for what is right for me.

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Fri 02/21/14 10:44 PM
I'm a 54 year old man and personally want nothing to do with the 30 year old woman I much prefer women my age who are much more comfortable in their own skin

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Sat 03/15/14 01:45 AM
Far to cotten pickey.

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Sun 03/16/14 08:36 PM
Exactly....especially online. Most just either look, or are here for wishful thinking I guess.

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Mon 03/17/14 08:13 AM
I'm old school and think love finds the Victim. :smile:

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Sat 04/05/14 10:14 AM
Edited by AthenaRose2 on Sat 04/05/14 10:15 AM
Initially, why do men and women of any age get together in the first place? I can think of five basic reasons:

1) To have children
2) To live more prosperously by combing incomes
3) To have a monogamous sex life
4) To have a helpmate
5) To gain social status

Well, if single women over 50 have already achieved their life goals to where they'�re content to some extent and enjoy their independence rather than continuing to be the support system for their significant others, as every realist knows is a woman'��s unspoken role, why are negative emotions like "��bitterness"��, and the inability to "��find love"�� considered to be de facto reasons why older women are alone?

I know lots of older women who don'��t have men simply because of the level of care that it takes to meet their needs and demands. And I'��m not men bashing by saying this. It'��s just the facts of life.

Most people are very lucky if they find true love when they'��re young enough to enjoy all the perks that go along with it. And if the first love passion eventually burns out and we move on, we know that finding that same kind of experience late in life is very rare.

By the time we reach the top of the hill and are headed down the other side we pretty much know what we want out of life and won'��t settle for anything else. If we have it, great! If we don'��t, it may just be too late.

As for older women being stereotyped at face value, well... I think not.

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Fri 04/25/14 02:52 PM

i never did ...or have had a barbi doll ...dont want ..a down to earth sensable women iv found ....all one of her ...is best most barbis are ok too look at ...........just the opinion of a 79 year old and i anit dead yet far from it ...theres a lota world ....life to see

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Fri 04/25/14 03:22 PM
wow wishful thinking? some older weman are just peeed off all the time.or think there gods gift to men.really? paleaseeee.who wants to date that.

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Wed 05/07/14 02:34 PM

wow wishful thinking? some older weman are just peeed off all the time.or think there gods gift to men.really? paleaseeee.who wants to date that.
I'm really surprised to hear you say that

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