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It's no more challenging for 'us' than anyone else.... This. |
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it might only be your opinion....but I think you have it spot on! on a personal level im not interested in someone 10 or 20 years younger than me, I would much prefer a wiser woman nearer my own age (54) because i think she would be more comfortable with who she is, what she wants etc and hopefully wouldnt be afraid to share those thoughts with me. After all how can I help those dreams or desires come true if you dont talk to me, except to slate me in with the ones that have hurt you in the past. Some of us guys have been badly hurt too you know.
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Edited by
damfa
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Wed 06/25/14 11:13 AM
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Women my age scare me.
Just look at this thread and you will notice most don't have a pic and if they do its all blurred up. Ladies you can claim to be horny and all but if you don't get the guys attention it all goes to waste or to your favorite toy. How many of you have cats? |
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I'm allergic to cats.
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We all look at the young that is as it should be but that is all it should a man in his 50s who goes for younger women has not matured enough to date a women of his own age a women his own age would not be inpesst by him so younger women is what he goes for. Sad but ture
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I love older women.
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Have you considered turn-offs for women? Or do you tend to instantly like or dislike a man without knowing why? There was a time when women were predominately concerned with making themselves more appealing to the opposite sex. But now that many women prefer to choose instead of being chosen, their preferences demand attention. Here are 10 turn-offs for women of all ages and stages of their relationships.
1. Being Ignored Being ignored is one of the main things that turn women off. From the first day of a relationship until death, most women expect their partners to be attentive. Most women judge how important they are to their partner, by how much attention they receive when expressing their concerns and opinions or when asking for advice. When men act as though other things are more important or more interesting, or when they casually dismiss something that is important to a woman, they are setting the tone for a rocky, if not short, relationship. And when men engage in the common ploy of showing interest during the beginning stages of a relationship and allowing it to dwindle as the relationship progresses, they usually find that the woman’s attraction for him takes a similar dive. 2. The Wannabe Big Shot Women are appalled by men who talk a big game knowing they do not have the means to follow through. Almost every woman has encountered the guy standing at the bar, bragging intentionally-loud so that everyone can hear him. Or even worse, the guy who picks you up in a rented BMW, pretending he is the owner. Men often convince themselves that all women are after the guys with the biggest and the best of everything. This becomes a motive for those men to paint colorful and fictitious pictures of themselves. But in reality, women find this behavior disgusting, so instead of making themselves attractive, these guys become female turn-offs. 3. Self-Admiration Some women get dinner and a movie. Other women get dinner and an earful of self-admiration when they go out on a date with a guy. Men who waste women’s time by inviting them on dates so they can spend the evening glorifying themselves are truly a bore. A woman sitting across the table listening to her date gab about his university GPA, his honors, the sports he played, his stellar performance at work, and his new investment ideas is usually not impressed. She is probably bored to death and hoping never to be sentenced to another date with him. 4. Preoccupation with Sex Whether it is a first date or a 10-year marriage, women do not want to feel as though sex is all that men want from them. During the beginning of relationships, most women do not want to hear sexually explicit stories or comments and they do not care to discuss their past performances. This proves true even when women are dressed seductively and, ironically, even if they have had or are willing to have a one-night stand. In long-term relationships, women don’t want men’s interest to be switched on when they are sexually aroused and switched off after intimacy occurs. Most women want to be caressed, fondled, complimented and otherwise shown affection and intimacy, even when their partners are not seeking sexual gratification. 5. Chauvinism Despite what women accomplish and contribute to society, there are still men who act as if they are the superior sex. These men have many ways of displaying their attitude. Some, for example, have a belittling title for every woman. The cashier is little lady. The waitress is darling. And the bartender is sweet cheeks. Other men belittle women’s efforts to perform what they believe to be male tasks. For example, a man may say “this little lady cop pulled me over and had the nerve to write me a ticket.” Whatever the chauvinist behavior, it never fails to be a turn-off for women. 6. Expecting the Woman to Take Care of the Kids Some men have the misconception that motherhood is something that comes naturally and that women want to devote their lives to child-rearing. On the contrary, many women are as focused on their goals, careers, and social lives as men and they prefer to share family responsibilities. These women do not want to be left home feeding babies and changing diapers while their partners maintain their normal business and social lives. This is one of the female turn-offs that takes a serious toll on a relationship. 7. Paying too Much Attention to Other Women Men who look at other women, who talk about the physical attributes of other women, or who are too flirtatious are not likely to appeal to women. It does not matter whether the woman is on TV or lying on a beach virtually naked. Women like men who are respectful enough to pretend they do not notice. Furthermore, when a man and woman go out and they can barely make their way through a bar or club without the man getting hugs, rubs, waves, and winks, the man is not likely to score points with his date. 8. The Not-So-Courteous Approach Whistling, using slang, or grabbing a woman’s elbow to get her attention are a few of the many things that turn women off when they are approached by a man. Descent women expect men who are interested in them to approach them thoughtfully and respectfully. Women always prefer a gentleman. 9. Poor Grooming Habits The appeal of sweaty athletes or grungy musicians proves the magic of television and glossy magazines. In real life, women are not generally attracted to wet bodies or the odors that accompany them. A jogger who runs into the convenience store for a sports drink and expects to get your phone number will probably get disappointed instead. Beyond basic hygiene, many women are calling for more. Recently a radio talk show’s topic was the double standard of appearance. Most women who called in expressed displeasure and frustration at the fact that men want sleek, gorgeous women, yet they do not take care of themselves. Generally, men with pot bellies, dirty fingernails, and disheveled hair are turn-offs for women. 10. Bad Pick-Up Lines A sense of humor can be a great thing— when a guy is actually funny. A good pickup line will leave a woman with a lasting impression. But more often, women are exposed to guys who try so hard that they are female turn-offs. With many women, it is a one-shot deal. Lame pickup lines or bad jokes will erase any opportunity a man may have of getting a date. Other women may let a few bad jokes slide, but when men continue, a woman’s interest tends to diminish. If your relationship is suffering and you don’t know why, consider these female turn-offs. If your partner is guilty of any of the above-mentioned turn-offs for women and you don’t know how to confront him, perhaps you should leave this article where he will see it. Are You Just Not That Into Him? You've likely heard of the book titled * He's Just Not That Into You, but how are you feeling? * Are you not that into him either? Many people stay in relationships because they are convenient or comfortable. Others don't even realize that they aren't all that into each other. Some men are just meant to be friends. Do you know the difference? |
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from what i have observed its because your trying to find what you think is the perfect man rather than accepting a man for who he is. the perfect man does not exist no more than the perfect woman exists. it has been my observance that most people are just to damned picky and they end up eliminated all the ones who would actually be good choices. the more limits you put in place the less likely you are to find someone who will truly love you.
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Perfectly stated intersite! The thing is women have this constant pressure to look good and the majority of men dont really care about how they look. Once a woman is over 50 she kind of becomes invisible to men.
Yes I want a man still at my age and even a sexual relationship but I wont have one night stands or take second best so I stay single.All I ask for is a man who cares about personal hygiene,dresses neatly and has a sense of humour and great manners but there arent many 50 plus men around who fit the bill so I guess I will stay single! |
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Perfectly stated intersite! The thing is women have this constant pressure to look good and the majority of men dont really care about how they look. Once a woman is over 50 she kind of becomes invisible to men.
Yes I want a man still at my age and even a sexual relationship but I wont have one night stands or take second best so I stay single.All I ask for is a man who cares about personal hygiene,dresses neatly and has a sense of humour and great manners but there arent many 50 plus men around who fit the bill so I ehguess I will stay single! |
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Once you get used to wearing scrubs other clothes just seem so foreign. Scrub tops with big pockets are even more comfortable to wear than jeans or fatigues for me. One advantage to being with women your own age is it can help you get by the midlife crisis. Sure being with the woman half my age was a rush at first. She did get me past the jaded feeling. But what really was a good feeling was when a fellow co-worker my own age told me that I was a good aide. I have learned to be more assertive because of her and she is finding from me how to be more mellow. So I have went from one extreme from the younger ones to the older ones. But seriously I have found it really depends on the person themselves. I have had the pleasure to work with some guys who are fun to work with. This new guy really cracks me up. He is my son's age and he calls men who are older than me young men. He does the same thing with older women. He is such a charmer. As usual you can teach an old dog new tricks just by example. The new data will be assimilated into my bed side manner. I am always trying to improve on it.
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there still older men that are gentlemen and just want companionship im 1
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my self i ratter date a older woman .to me thay are sexy and truly know what thay want and know how to have fun on a higher level .to me thay are more of a womam .and are very affectonate on a higher level and dont play games .a older woman that feels shes sexy and good about her self stands out in a crowed room ill be the first to notice her and i like a older woman .and a older woman is much more of a ture freind lover and life time compaion .and you men need to read more and lean a woman 50 + and older are are going in to there sexural peek .and its true read more olderweman are better lovers .and are very hot blooded and will truly make a great compaion hands down .the skinny ones and the curvy ones and the bbw so you men out there keep looking over the older weman promise you this youll pass over the best kind of woman .and ill keep looking for my olderwoman thats out there .......
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Have you considered turn-offs for women? Or do you tend to instantly like or dislike a man without knowing why? There was a time when women were predominately concerned with making themselves more appealing to the opposite sex. But now that many women prefer to choose instead of being chosen, their preferences demand attention. Here are 10 turn-offs for women of all ages and stages of their relationships. 1. Being Ignored Being ignored is one of the main things that turn women off. From the first day of a relationship until death, most women expect their partners to be attentive. Most women judge how important they are to their partner, by how much attention they receive when expressing their concerns and opinions or when asking for advice. When men act as though other things are more important or more interesting, or when they casually dismiss something that is important to a woman, they are setting the tone for a rocky, if not short, relationship. And when men engage in the common ploy of showing interest during the beginning stages of a relationship and allowing it to dwindle as the relationship progresses, they usually find that the woman’s attraction for him takes a similar dive. 2. The Wannabe Big Shot Women are appalled by men who talk a big game knowing they do not have the means to follow through. Almost every woman has encountered the guy standing at the bar, bragging intentionally-loud so that everyone can hear him. Or even worse, the guy who picks you up in a rented BMW, pretending he is the owner. Men often convince themselves that all women are after the guys with the biggest and the best of everything. This becomes a motive for those men to paint colorful and fictitious pictures of themselves. But in reality, women find this behavior disgusting, so instead of making themselves attractive, these guys become female turn-offs. 3. Self-Admiration Some women get dinner and a movie. Other women get dinner and an earful of self-admiration when they go out on a date with a guy. Men who waste women’s time by inviting them on dates so they can spend the evening glorifying themselves are truly a bore. A woman sitting across the table listening to her date gab about his university GPA, his honors, the sports he played, his stellar performance at work, and his new investment ideas is usually not impressed. She is probably bored to death and hoping never to be sentenced to another date with him. 4. Preoccupation with Sex Whether it is a first date or a 10-year marriage, women do not want to feel as though sex is all that men want from them. During the beginning of relationships, most women do not want to hear sexually explicit stories or comments and they do not care to discuss their past performances. This proves true even when women are dressed seductively and, ironically, even if they have had or are willing to have a one-night stand. In long-term relationships, women don’t want men’s interest to be switched on when they are sexually aroused and switched off after intimacy occurs. Most women want to be caressed, fondled, complimented and otherwise shown affection and intimacy, even when their partners are not seeking sexual gratification. 5. Chauvinism Despite what women accomplish and contribute to society, there are still men who act as if they are the superior sex. These men have many ways of displaying their attitude. Some, for example, have a belittling title for every woman. The cashier is little lady. The waitress is darling. And the bartender is sweet cheeks. Other men belittle women’s efforts to perform what they believe to be male tasks. For example, a man may say “this little lady cop pulled me over and had the nerve to write me a ticket.” Whatever the chauvinist behavior, it never fails to be a turn-off for women. 6. Expecting the Woman to Take Care of the Kids Some men have the misconception that motherhood is something that comes naturally and that women want to devote their lives to child-rearing. On the contrary, many women are as focused on their goals, careers, and social lives as men and they prefer to share family responsibilities. These women do not want to be left home feeding babies and changing diapers while their partners maintain their normal business and social lives. This is one of the female turn-offs that takes a serious toll on a relationship. 7. Paying too Much Attention to Other Women Men who look at other women, who talk about the physical attributes of other women, or who are too flirtatious are not likely to appeal to women. It does not matter whether the woman is on TV or lying on a beach virtually naked. Women like men who are respectful enough to pretend they do not notice. Furthermore, when a man and woman go out and they can barely make their way through a bar or club without the man getting hugs, rubs, waves, and winks, the man is not likely to score points with his date. 8. The Not-So-Courteous Approach Whistling, using slang, or grabbing a woman’s elbow to get her attention are a few of the many things that turn women off when they are approached by a man. Descent women expect men who are interested in them to approach them thoughtfully and respectfully. Women always prefer a gentleman. 9. Poor Grooming Habits The appeal of sweaty athletes or grungy musicians proves the magic of television and glossy magazines. In real life, women are not generally attracted to wet bodies or the odors that accompany them. A jogger who runs into the convenience store for a sports drink and expects to get your phone number will probably get disappointed instead. Beyond basic hygiene, many women are calling for more. Recently a radio talk show’s topic was the double standard of appearance. Most women who called in expressed displeasure and frustration at the fact that men want sleek, gorgeous women, yet they do not take care of themselves. Generally, men with pot bellies, dirty fingernails, and disheveled hair are turn-offs for women. 10. Bad Pick-Up Lines A sense of humor can be a great thing— when a guy is actually funny. A good pickup line will leave a woman with a lasting impression. But more often, women are exposed to guys who try so hard that they are female turn-offs. With many women, it is a one-shot deal. Lame pickup lines or bad jokes will erase any opportunity a man may have of getting a date. Other women may let a few bad jokes slide, but when men continue, a woman’s interest tends to diminish. If your relationship is suffering and you don’t know why, consider these female turn-offs. If your partner is guilty of any of the above-mentioned turn-offs for women and you don’t know how to confront him, perhaps you should leave this article where he will see it. Are You Just Not That Into Him? You've likely heard of the book titled * He's Just Not That Into You, but how are you feeling? * Are you not that into him either? Many people stay in relationships because they are convenient or comfortable. Others don't even realize that they aren't all that into each other. Some men are just meant to be friends. Do you know the difference? How very true!! Excellent discussion of what works. Sadly, there are a lot of really great guys out there who just don't know what to do and when to do it. They get caught in the trap of leaving a bad first impression when, if they had done better, the lady could have met a wonderful person. |
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Some women over 50 complain that it's too hard and then they turn around and complain to men over 50 that it isn't hard enough!!!!!!!
And they can't understand why men are confused!!!!!!! LOL |
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Well, I personally like the younger ones. What age are you seeking? Not that age really matters.
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Well I am not a women but believe me it is just as hard for men. I have not been with many women in my life and have always been loyal. I have never been a player and don't play games when it comes to matters of the heart. I don't know why it is so difficult to find a soul mate. Maybe its because times have changed morals are not what they were.
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Many people are not content with what they are getting because they sort of start on the wrong foot.
One has to first learn to be comfortable with ones own company, then one won't enter a relationship out of desperation or loneliness. Being comfortable with yourself gives you a lot more time to choose. Being comfortable with your own company also means that past relationships are where they belong, firmly in the past, and you don't live there anymore, so the approach to a new relationship is not biased by what has happened before. |
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Everyone is looking to get laid. Whether one time or on a regular basis. If your body has lost its desire for sensual, sexual pleasure, you're just looking for a companion for company.
Sec and the pleasures derived from it are a basic part of a new and nurturing relationship. At our age, it's nice to know that the compatibility exists before getting too involved and then being stuck in a relationship where both are looking for different outcomes, which never ends nice. I'm still very, very virile and have an awesome sex drive and I just spent ten years in a sexless relationship. That really sucked. This time I'm looking for one who still wants passionate lustful adventure more than once a month, even more than once a week. (note. I really like it daily but have not found any woman my age that can even fathom the idea of daily sex with their partner) What a shame. The older ones always gripe that we want a young Barbie doll. Hell no. I want a vibrant, experienced and loving adult around my age. But since they hardly exist, most go for the ones that can handle a couple of hours a night. I'm not into training a young thing. I want a woman that knows what pleasure is, giving and receiving and wants to enjoy each day. Barbie dolls suck. Eye candy is just that. I want candy I can taste and enjoy daily... just one man's opinion.. Texas is huge, and I still can't find someone over 50 that can handle the idea... |
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Everyone is looking to get laid. Whether one time or on a regular basis. If your body has lost its desire for sensual, sexual pleasure, you're just looking for a companion for company.
Sec and the pleasures derived from it are a basic part of a new and nurturing relationship. At our age, it's nice to know that the compatibility exists before getting too involved and then being stuck in a relationship where both are looking for different outcomes, which never ends nice. I'm still very, very virile and have an awesome sex drive and I just spent ten years in a sexless relationship. That really sucked. This time I'm looking for one who still wants passionate lustful adventure more than once a month, even more than once a week. (note. I really like it daily but have not found any woman my age that can even fathom the idea of daily sex with their partner) What a shame. The older ones always gripe that we want a young Barbie doll. Hell no. I want a vibrant, experienced and loving adult around my age. But since they hardly exist, most go for the ones that can handle a couple of hours a night. I'm not into training a young thing. I want a woman that knows what pleasure is, giving and receiving and wants to enjoy each day. Barbie dolls suck. Eye candy is just that. I want candy I can taste and enjoy daily... just one man's opinion.. Texas is huge, and I still can't find someone over 50 that can handle the idea... |
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