hello dear

I am not looking for a younger women but I am a bit jaded due to cheating and lying women so I more leery of women

Not all men are looking for younger woman but I have kept myself in some form of health.I try and look younger not to get younger women but to get and attractive woman my age. But just guess if she is in good shape she is chasing my 30 year old son. Just saying I enjoy the complany of a woman my age she knows life. I have nothing in common with a younger woman in conversation

Ladies lighten up. Age is a number it is how you feel inside and how attractive you make yourself in whole not just the outside that will attract men. I'm 55 and I'm not looking for some young bimbo to walk around with and look silly. A woman my age or a few years either way is fine. But lighten up ladies. Example I had a 3rd date with a woman age 56. I said in a text later that night that I wanted to kiss your cheek good night but I had this feeling not to. She told me she don't kiss till after seeing me for a few months. REALLY! I was done with her. Time is shooting by us quickly and you want me to wait a few months. Lighten up and have some fun. This is our time so lets enjoy each and everyday with or without someone special.

awwwww Maybe you had bad breath?

I think we are just more secure in who we are, and know what we want out of life and a relationship. We won't put up with being messed around, as we know our own self worth. We're pretty great !

that is so weird..if a guy does not try to plant one on me by end of night I am gonna assume there is something wrong with him or he is just not that into me

You are so right!

well I love older women

Thanks for that message on the defense of men. I have been on a lot of first dates and have not found any woman I would like to spend the rest of my life with as of yet. I know there is one somewhere I am just not looking in the right places in south Louisiana.

hard for an older woman ? I say it is harder for an older man.

when you look at what a 60 and up woman wants it is a boy toy
in their 20's / 30's / 40's / and early 50's or someone RICH
most wouldn't know an honest / caring and very trustworthy
man. being lied to or miss treated or someone too demanding

in some of these sites older men have a line of ladies in their
20's / 30's / 40's and 50's for me what do I want with any of
them ? after 3 or 4 e-mails oh I need money send me so I can
see you / yea right hold your breath

so sad that people have to make a living off the elderly or
people in sorrow over a loss of their mate or down on their luck

hope that all in this site will find someone true ? real and
caring
but don't trust anyone for at least 1 yr till you get to know them

best of luck to all

I think a 50-year-old man is more attractive than a 30-year old man.

I've not read all the posts here, too many now. However, I get no responses, nor does anyone try to contact me. Now then..... truly how hard is it??????

TMommy...... they are either blind or dead is all I can suggest.

Depends on where you live I think. I'm not having much luck out here in the back of beyond.... I'm really just on Mingle2 for the company unless or until something a little more materialises.

I guess I should change my profile to here for the conversations. That is why I'm here now.

I will freely admit I have been on and off of this site for years. Maybe I am out of sorts but I never came on here expecting anything but a few good laughs, engage in friendly conversations etc...BTW.. I tried to email you over something you wrote on a post and couldn't your restrictions were to rigid..

I have found that when restrictions are rigid it cuts down on the fishing pond.. that could be one of the reasons you aren't getting bits.

What matter in every relationship, is love and commitment, old fashion don't count.

I like my woman more mature and well built, not some skinny doll, as I find more mature women are better at everything

Let love find you, it's less frustrating