I don't really think it's that hard. Yes we know what we want by now, and I for one won't settle for anything less. But there are still plenty men are age who also know what they want by now. Just the simple things it's as easy as that

the key word is SOME weman!! not all as i have met some great weman on here.I guess my commit is a respons to some one saying that ppl get together for statis or for money etc. i am with some one for love not money.

Me tooooooooo ....Older women rock! ...We know who we are, we know what we want (and don't want), and we know how to get it ...We have nothing to be pizzed off about...

now that's more like you

why is it so hard for an older woman.. uhmm well.. errr.. opps.. wrong thought for the title.. my bad. carry on

lol to funny, you are bad

Do woman over 50 still want sex?
Some answers were as following;
Decrease in hormones has nothing to do with a woman's sex drive, Also the age of a woman is not an indicator or sexual drive.
For some women hormonal changes do affect their sex drive.
Sure they do. They are just more picky.
If the sex is not satisfying for the woman, she will get bored..or feel used..
A woman gets turned on differently than a man...shes more mental..the man is more visual.
The old saying that mom said "A man marries for sex and a woman for love".
A man needs respect and a woman needs love... I want it more now than when I was a busy working mother and I'm 65. I don't think that age has much to do with it. I love sex; always have really. I was just too tired to take advantage of it as often back in my 30's. Once I retired from the stress of the working force, my sex drive accelerated.
I find sex to be one of the things in life that is comforting, especially when other things aren't going so well.

I can't speak for other women over 50, but my sex drive has never been stronger and I give the credit to living a healthy, stress free life...When I was working and raising a family, I wanted sleep more than I wanted sex...That is no longer the case...

morning sweet one, I'm totally with you on that they say women go through their prime around 30 not me I'm in my prime right now

Yeah, who knew?!!...Hawt sex, best thing since sliced bread! ...And soooo good for the complexion!!



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lol right, have a great weekend sweetie

Thank you(Length & pk)
I was swetting razorblades in trying to comment on that one in another forum! Figure i HUNG myself anyhow,but wondered the same as him.Wheeeeeeew!!

Fixed it for you!!...Morning Gray!!

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Sex and Seniors: The 70-Year Itch
By Loren Stein, M.A.
Summarized by me;
Sexual intimacy among older Americans is a subject that people don't talk about much. The silence, say experts, allows misconceptions to flourish -- including the widespread assumption that seniors lose interest in sex and are, or should be, asexual.
But armed with a spate of studies that help dispel the myth that older people don't have sex or enjoy it, experts say the negative stereotypes couldn't be farther from the truth.
"There is no age limit on sexuality and sexual activity," reports Stephanie A. Sanders, PhD, associate director of the sexual research group The Kinsey Institute. While the frequency or ability to perform sexually will generally decline modestly as seniors experience the normal physiological changes that accompany aging, reports show that the majority of men and women between the ages of 50 and 80 are still enthusiastic about sex and intimacy.
An expert says "If you stay interested, stay healthy, stay off medications, and have a good mate, then you can have good sex all the way to the end of life,". A Duke University study shows that some 20 percent of people over 65 have sex lives that are better than ever before, he adds.
And although not everyone wants or needs an active sex life, many people continue to be sexual all their lives. "There's strong data all over: It's a matter of survival," says Dr. Bortz. "People that have sex live longer. Married people live longer. People need people. The more intimate the connection, the more powerful the effects."
But older people may encounter an obstacle they hadn't expected: their adult children, who may be less than pleased to see their aging parents as sexual beings. Such judgmental attitudes prevent many older people from moving in with each other or even having their partner over, according to Dr. Jack Parlow, a retired clinical psychologist in Toronto.

I think & as gossipmpm said, it's only my opinion but I think it's hard for older women because they have standards. A lady, no matter how old she is, should always be treated like a woman.

You people should go and sit down jare!

Study after study shows that men's sex drives are not only stronger than women's, but much more straightforward. The sources of women's libidos, by contrast, are much harder to pin down.
It's common wisdom that women place more value on emotional connection as a spark of sexual desire. But women also appear to be heavily influenced by social and cultural factors as well.
The majority of adult men under 60 think about sex at least once a day, reports Laumann. Only about one-quarter of women say they think about it that frequently. As men and women age, each fantasize less, but men still fantasize about twice as often.
In a survey of studies comparing male and female sex drives, Roy Baumeister, a social psychologist at Florida State University, found that men reported more spontaneous sexual arousal and had more frequent and varied fantasies.

how old are you cause i;m looking for love to