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| Topic: Why is it so hard for a older women | |
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i am in your age group and have always prefered older more mature ladies. lots of them respect the attention of a man.
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I think the men in our age group are more interested in dating women 10-20 years younger than themselves, making them fool themselves that they are that young also. Unfortunately I would rather date someone closer to my age, but only get interest mostly from men 10-15 years my senior. That bums me out, i would just like to be around someone who we have the same frame of reference. When I was younger, wasn't interested in dating someone that much older than me and still aren't. Oh well...their loss .  Sadly not all women try to maintain their appearance or have an active libido(men too) but sexual chemsitry is strong and as some women age they lose their allure and men seek out a more alluring sexual partner as its a biological aspect of men programmed thousands of years ago and all the denial to the contrary wont stop men from other women much as people want to deny this sexual reality.. Life is not fair and we all need to get over it and have a more realistic view of human sexuality...
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Gossipm hit it on the head when she said to give the "nice" guys a chance. Alot of women, especially middle aged go for looks or money or hold out for some "storybook" guy that isn't out there. Give us regular guys a chance. Sure, I like to look at women, younger and older, but I would rather go out with one my age or a few years older. Good Luck to Ya'll in your searches, maybe you'll have better luck than me....lol I agree, Guy! I know there are nice guys out there & we have to give all guys a chance to find the good ones. I'm no man basher or man hater. Heck, if I was I wouldn't be here! I haven't found any decent guy yet & I'm not looking for a fairy tale type Prince Charming but I feel like I'm hitting my head against a brick wall in searching for a good guy. All I'm running into are the jerks! 
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i'm 65 and I find even older women desirable and sexy. younger women and mean a lot younger don't interest me. I see a lot of older women on this site I would have dated when I was young. they look great.
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Older women should be honest if they would like a no strings sex when I call you relationship. lots of Women are just as horny as men, they just wont admit it..!! If any are near Bristol uk. Im me, we'll have fun.! I just think most older women want more than sex; they want an actual loving relationship; not to be used for sex. |
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That was good
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Maybe old but certainly not jaded, not unless you suffer with Dementia...Many a fine tune played on an old fiddle , didn't you know that?
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i'm 65 and I find even older women desirable and sexy. Younger women, and I mean a lot younger, don't interest me. I see a lot of older women on this site I would have dated when I was young. they look great.
When you remove the word even from the first sentence, this becomes a perfect post!
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Age to me dont matter. I would love a woman at 75 as long as she loved me back. Women younger then 50 are too choosey.
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Age to me dont matter. I would love a woman at 75 as long as she loved me back. Women younger then 50 are too choosey.
I am not sure how to answer this. However, I do agree that some of the women younger than me that I come across are very choosey. I also have seen where they are very needy, clingy and sort of controlling. Once again, this is what I have experienced. Women who are older tend to be more deep in their thinking and want the happiness they deserve. I can not see a problem with that!!! |
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I think there is too much generalization going on here. All women are not the same and their wants and needs vary greatly! Some want sex without strings and some want caring and affection with little need for sex. Some want a full loving relationship with all that goes with it and some want a beer and someone to talk to once a month.
The problem isn't what you (or they) want, it's hooking up with someone who wants the same as you. That problem gets harder with time. |
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I think there is too much generalization going on here. All women are not the same and their wants and needs vary greatly! Some want sex without strings and some want caring and affection with little need for sex. Some want a full loving relationship with all that goes with it and some want a beer and someone to talk to once a month. The problem isn't what you (or they) want, it's hooking up with someone who wants the same as you. That problem gets harder with time. Well stated, but I believe it applies to both men and women. We are not all the same and our wants and needs vary. |
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I think there is too much generalization going on here. All women are not the same and their wants and needs vary greatly! Some want sex without strings and some want caring and affection with little need for sex. Some want a full loving relationship with all that goes with it and some want a beer and someone to talk to once a month. The problem isn't what you (or they) want, it's hooking up with someone who wants the same as you. That problem gets harder with time. well said ! |
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I think there is too much generalization going on here. All women are not the same and their wants and needs vary greatly! Some want sex without strings and some want caring and affection with little need for sex. Some want a full loving relationship with all that goes with it and some want a beer and someone to talk to once a month. The problem isn't what you (or they) want, it's hooking up with someone who wants the same as you. That problem gets harder with time. well said ! What they BOTH said. |
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I think there is too much generalization going on here. All women are not the same and their wants and needs vary greatly! Some want sex without strings and some want caring and affection with little need for sex. Some want a full loving relationship with all that goes with it and some want a beer and someone to talk to once a month. The problem isn't what you (or they) want, it's hooking up with someone who wants the same as you. That problem gets harder with time. well said ! What they BOTH said. 
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Finding a man is easy but it's harder for older women to find love, because it's about finding a partner whom we can truly love that is difficult, not just any man will do, many of us are more realistic in our expectations, we are looking for respect and understanding when it comes to getting involved. We know what we want and are not willing to settle for less, finding someone is not a priority and some of us are actually content living alone, we do not need someone to make us happy. I expect a man to be willing to give back as much as I give, I'm not willing to take care of or wait on a man. A man's history reveals a lot about his character which means he needs to be able to support himself and if he has a family he should have provided/supported them.
I just have not found that special guy yet but it's not a priority in my life, |
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Middlescence is a second adolescence occurring in the middle of our lives. It's a transition period similar to adolescence. Not necessarily a crisis, it is a time to break away from traditional adulthood the way teenagers break away from childhood. At our age it is normal to have periods of anxiety and to reevaluate everything. Recall the words of Janis Joplin, "Freedom's just another word for nothing left to lose." Experiment with your freedom.
Be a middlescent!!!
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No one is too old to fall in love
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Edited by
cuddlebunny00
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Fri 11/08/13 05:43 PM
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I had to think long and hard about this question again. I am going to be perfectly honest here and explain why I think women think its harder, based on my own experiences.
I thought about all my previous relationships and realized that love had stared me in the face many times but I think I had become so picky that I was blind. I didn't want to settle but rather than work to make what I had even better, I threw it away.. 
BECAUSE.. 
I knew that [ya right] the perfect one would come along and I would not need to work on a thing. Well I was in La La land and Lazy I think when I was young and did not have internet, I was willing to work on a relationship with a guy I liked and fell in love with him eventually. Lets face it..todays world is very different with online dating. We think we can afford and are entitled to be picky. Love  is out there [even for us old fogies]  and its not hard to find at all.
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No one is too old to fall in love I am. |
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