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Wed 08/21/13 05:31 PM


Now do you understand why women get so confused by men???


Don't blame us for being so confused. I mean....God told Eve NOT to eat the forbidden fruit and yet she didn't listen. She bites that fruit and then all of a sudden has issues with Adam's nakedness? Yeah right. We all know the truth. He didn't have "adequate equipment" and she pointed at it and scoffed. Talk about mixed signals. One minute she wants him, then the next she eats some fruit and laughs at his pee pee. See how confusing women are. laugh

Oh Goof you are so funny laugh

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Wed 08/21/13 02:51 AM



ok people lets be honest here ... sometimes when it comes to age we all take it a little far dont we.

i am not talking like a 45 year old woman dating a 19 year old man or vica versa, but is there a reason people often pull the "oh your to young for me card" when there is a 3-5 year difference?

i find men (as per the stereotype) are much more willing to drift in age range, why is it that woman are so harsh on the age range?

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Older women in the forty-ish set are particularly harsh in their regards toward a man near their age dating a woman twenty years his junior. It intimidates them because they know that there could be true love there, not simply a gold-digging twenty-year-old dating an older man simply to lay siege to his credit cards. And the man in the equation may simply be intent only upon having a baby with her so any children may have a young, more energetic mom who can keep up with them. He may not be interested in having a young wife simply as a trophy to show off to his friends. This intimidates older women to no end. They try to brand him a pedophile, and the girl a gold-digging slut-puppy.
In some countries, young girls much prefer much older men...and it's not merely for financial gain. Boys their age are often just that-boys, and have no sense of responsibility. And they are often only intent upon offering one thing to the relationship.


Oh my; where do you get your facts from? What is in intimidating about older men dating a younger woman? I know men go through their mid-life crisis; some buy sports cars, motorcycles, and some feel the need to have another child. I wouldn't want a child at 50 as being close to retirement; I would have to raise a child on a pension/fixed income and that simply would not be fair to a child to go without but that is just me. Myself; I could care less if men dated a 14 year old as its simply none of my business. As for keeping up; I am training to ride a 100 km bike ride in one day. Now unless men in their 50s have all suddenly become pregnant; I am going to go out on a limb and say those pot bellies are not an indication of men who are in very good shape and could keep up with me as most almost have a heart attack at the 1 kilometre mark. Again; what am I supposed to be intimidated by? I am in good shape, own my own home, do my own renovations, pay all my own bills, and don't need a man for anything. Now, I am the one that is intimidating to men as I can't be controlled and I not dependent. So; if an older man desires a younger woman; why the heck would I care? Seriously buddy; get over yourself. laugh

VERY WELL PUT...YOU GO GIRL!!!

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Wed 08/21/13 02:41 AM
Honestly I think this thread is getting annoying because anything we say, you do not agree with. You keep making excuses for everything. Look here is the deal, you want to have sex because you think she is hot but annoying.
I hope when you have sex, and yes you will have sex, I hope she bugs the hell out of you and then you will get it all out of your system.

I honestly hope that not all men are like this. Do men think like this?
OMG SHE IS ANNOYING BUT I THINK I CAN HANDLE HER ANNOYING WAYS UNTIL I CAN GET OFF. SO IF SHE JUST KEEPS HER MOUTH SHUT FOR ABOUT 5 MINUTES UNTIL I AM DONE, THEN I WON'T HAVE TO SEE HER AGAIN.
Honestly, if I thought men felt this way...I would NEVER date again. I would hope that if a man found me annoying he would not take advantage of using me for sex. I just think that is terrible but hey that is my opinion..who am I???? grumble

OK I FEEL BETTER NOW...HAVE A GOOD DAY!! laugh

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Wed 08/21/13 01:15 AM


I have a question for you! What would you do IF you caught your wife on a dating site asking men to date her? How would this make you feel? I am sure you would feel betrayed and very hurt!
Now my suggestion is that maybe you should deactivate your account and spend some time with your wife! IF you are still IN love with your wife then maybe you need to show her and spend some quality time. Instead of logging on here, go hug your wife and try to make your marriage work. Does she even know that your marriage is in trouble?
Seriously you had to take time out of your life to make a profile, I am assuming you wrote something on your profile because I did not look? You could have taken that 15 minutes and talked to her about what you didn't like in your relationship.
The way I feel about married men is this: IF THEY CHEATED ON THEIR WIFE TO BE WITH ME, HOW COULD I TRUST THEM THAT THEY WOULD NOT CHEAT ON ME TO BE WITH SOMEONE ELSE? I don't think very many women mess with married men UNLESS the man lies.
I will say it is nice that you are being honest and telling that you are married BUT I honestly don't think you have a chance in hell to find a girlfriend here. SORRY JUST MY OPINION!!


{Standing ovation !}

flowerforyou

YOU ARE TO SWEET...BLUSHES!!!

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Wed 08/21/13 01:12 AM

Gee i sure wish my kids felt like that about me....



You know what, the sad thing is they might not realize how much they care until it is to late!!! I always tell my boys to keep in touch with their dad because they never know how long they will have him here. I actually keep pushing and pushing them into calling him all the time. My boys might be 25 and 18 but I think having a loving relationship with their Dad is very important.
After I lost my Dad it just did something to me. IF I see people disrespect their parents or grandparents I just go insane. I guess they just take them for granted and they don't realize how fast they can be gone.
I am sorry KIK that your kids don't feel about you like I feel about my Dad, want me to sit them down and have a talk with them? Trust me, they will never forget me or my talk!!

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Tue 08/20/13 11:42 PM
I have a question for you! What would you do IF you caught your wife on a dating site asking men to date her? How would this make you feel? I am sure you would feel betrayed and very hurt!
Now my suggestion is that maybe you should deactivate your account and spend some time with your wife! IF you are still IN love with your wife then maybe you need to show her and spend some quality time. Instead of logging on here, go hug your wife and try to make your marriage work. Does she even know that your marriage is in trouble?
Seriously you had to take time out of your life to make a profile, I am assuming you wrote something on your profile because I did not look? You could have taken that 15 minutes and talked to her about what you didn't like in your relationship.
The way I feel about married men is this: IF THEY CHEATED ON THEIR WIFE TO BE WITH ME, HOW COULD I TRUST THEM THAT THEY WOULD NOT CHEAT ON ME TO BE WITH SOMEONE ELSE? I don't think very many women mess with married men UNLESS the man lies.
I will say it is nice that you are being honest and telling that you are married BUT I honestly don't think you have a chance in hell to find a girlfriend here. SORRY JUST MY OPINION!!

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Tue 08/20/13 11:32 PM

Hope you can settle up wiyh your Dad soon, Ms Unsure.

Thank you willing...I am sure when I get to Heaven my Dad will ask me why I was dreaming those crazy dreams. It is funny how we have dreams that make no sense at all.
I know one day that I will be sitting with my Dad by the lake fishing and laughing again.
The nice dreams are when you have the dreams of them hugging you and you can actually smell them. The problem is that you NEVER want to wake up so the dream won't end.

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Tue 08/20/13 01:33 AM
flowers

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Mon 08/19/13 10:52 PM
I think a lot of people feel this way. It seems like everyone likes the bad apples when there are so many people to choose from. Never give up and never settle. There is someone out there for everyone! You just have to be patient and don't rush into things and when you least expect it...that is when it happens!!
Good Luck in your search and I hope you find the right lady for you!!

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Mon 08/19/13 10:45 PM
Every since my Dad passed away in 08 I have been dreaming about him. It always turns out the same, we always end up fighting and I end up telling him that he will never see me again.
I mean these dreams are very upsetting to me but the only thing I can figure out is because I can't see him right now? We never fought when he was still with us so I can not figure out why I keep dreaming this.
The only good thing is that I get to see him BUT I wake up feeling terrible.
I love you Dad...until we meet again, ANGEL KISSES!!! flowers

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Mon 08/19/13 07:01 PM
Now do you understand why women get so confused by men???

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Mon 08/19/13 06:48 PM
On the flip side of this, I had an 18 year old girl yelling at her Mom and screaming the F bomb in front of all kinds of elderly people and a bunch of kids. What would you do? Here is what I did:
I admit, when it comes to kids and elderly people I lose my temper. I yelled at this girl HEY HEY WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE SCREAMING LIKE THAT IN FRONT OF KIDS AND ELDERLY PEOPLE. She was like, stay out of my business *****, that is my mom. I looked at her Mom and said, ARE YOU REALLY GOING TO TAKE THAT FROM YOUR DAUGHTER AND LET HER TREAT YOU LIKE A DOG? SHE SAID PLEASE YOU ARE JUST MAKING IT WORSE BUT THANKS..SHE WAS CRYING AND OMG I REALLY LOST IT.
I SAID HEY YOU JUST MOVED IN HERE AND IF YOU TAKE A LOOK AROUND, RIGHT THERE IS AN 89 YEAR OLD LADY AND YOU WILL NOT BE TALKING THAT WAY AROUND HERE. PLUS SEE THOSE 2 LITTLE KIDS, THEY ARE 2 AND 5, WATCH YOUR MOUTH OR I WILL BE FEEDING YOU SOME SOAP LITTLE GIRL.
She was like, get out of my face before I hurt you. Mind your business, you will regret messing with me.
Every since this happened we have hated each other but guess who moved out yesterday because she got evicted!!! NOT ME!!!!


I think if people would stick up for others this world might be a little bit better! As far as the guy telling his son in front of people...NO it could have waited. He was putting fear into his son trying to make him act better...that is no way to raise a child!!! AND yes I would have said something to him because I care about kids!

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Mon 08/19/13 06:22 PM
I don't drink at all, I am allergic to alcohol. I don't mind if someone drinks but I do mind if they get sloppy drunk and get sick in my car. I can't handle someone that has to drink every single day, I want to be able to go out and be with someone that does not feel like they have to drink to have a good time.
If someone won't date me because I don't drink...I think THEY have a problem, not me!!

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Mon 08/19/13 05:20 PM
All I can say is that you said something that kind of caught my attention....you said she is a bit annoying but she can get me off? That is like saying, she is ugly but I put a bag over her head so I didn't have to look at her and yep I got off. Sorry but you make men sound like pigs here!
The one thing that we notice about someone in the beginning, like she is annoying, is the one thing in the end that we end up breaking up with them for. BUT you know it from the beginning that she is annoying so why would you even want to pursue her? Oh yes because of the sexual tension. noway

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Mon 08/19/13 12:34 AM


The brain circuit is same
the aim is same ie sexual gratification then why people adopt perverted sexual habits and tendencies??


it can take many years to be ready to take your sexuality to the next level, try new things, and to find a partner who is on the same page as you are


there is a difference between consenual experimentation and being a pervert ask torgo and goof. they are perverts ...loltongue2 :laughing:

I ACTUALLY THINK THEY ARE PROVERTS????

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Mon 08/19/13 12:17 AM
I bet a lot of women will jump on this one!! noway

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Sun 08/18/13 11:30 PM
That is funny Goof because I have actually ran a background check on someone before. I did tell him I was going to before I did it though. He actually gave me his SS number so I could do the check. This was years ago when I was actually going to move in with someone and I wanted to make sure that he was a good guy and had a clean record.
Plus it helps to have friends in high places!!! flowerforyou

I have NO clue how to attract a good guy with good intentions!!! The last few guys I have met on here were scammer's so that is why I put down that I am not interested in dating.
GOOD LUCK flowerforyou

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Sun 08/18/13 06:42 PM
At least finish filling out your profile. You do not have anything that you are interested in and what you are looking for in a woman.
If you do not want to take the time to fill it out, why would women take their time to ask???

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Sun 08/18/13 06:38 PM
No Way...I am selfish and do not share well with other people!!

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Sun 08/18/13 06:28 PM
I don't think I would change anything...I have 2 wonderful young men that I have raised and now one is gone and the other one is starting college tomorrow. I had a lot of great friends in my life and had great times with them.
I might have changed the getting married part and just living together, it would have been cheaper to keep him. LOL I am just glad it is over and all finished.
I guess we are who we are by what we have been through flowerforyou