So, I know this girl and she's really pretty and she seems to fancy me but I doubt that we have much in common and I find her a bit annoying.

Now, don't get me wrong; I get on alright with her and I find most people annoying, so my question is this: Am I onto a good thing here, or should I look for someone that I've got more in common with, given that that's never worked out too well in the past?

Temptation is always there, my friend. It's the
decision you make with your heart that's the
most important.

She's pretty. Well, a good bonus if you have
some chemistry and some things in common. :-)

Remember also, sexual gratification is
brief, just like masturbation. A relation-
ship filled with love will beat out a
toxic, anger filled relationship anyday.
And in the latter instance, eventually,
they won't even want to even look at
each other after a while.

Doesn't sound like you're really into her, so I'd suggest looking for someone you don't find annoying.

I agree. How can you fancy someone and yet find them annoying at the same time?

if you are going to base all your future potential relationships on past relationships, than just stop looking and get yourself a blowup doll. any girl that gives you the time of day is worth looking at. i guarantee i guarantee that when you are older, the only women you will regret will be the ones you past up on (as in when you reminisce you will think more about the ones you never had)

(bulldog double guarantee - patent pending)

Looks are nice...But,they ain't every thing.

Kind of like if women were cars.

Would you prefer a Ferrari that is a total wreck? (Emotionally)

Would you prefer a minivan that never lets you down?

Quite easily. I'm prepared to put up with quite a lot from women and I only said that I find this one a bit annoying. If her friends tell me that they agree with me about her but that they still like her why wouldn't I if I'm going to get more than friendship out of it?

This is hypothetical anyway because she's only someone that I know and was considering asking out. If she was my girlfriend I would just tell her how she was being annoying and hopefully she would stop doing it.

Last sentence - That means that you would try to change her. That doesn't work. That would hurt her too. Either accept the way she is or move on.

Right, trying to force someone to change doesn't really work out well.

Ha, I was just waiting for someone to say that. If she's just being ignorant and isn't aware that she's doing something annoying why shouldn't I be honest with her and say what it is?

This is the problem with people. They put up with all sorts of crap from their friends because they don't want to fall out with them or upset them. Nobody works at relationships anymore and as soon as there's a problem they just dump them and move on to the next one, or stay and put up with it instead of trying to sort the problem out.

It's called communication. You should try it.

get her sauced and see if you can get her to strip

I literally don't bother with those who don't seem to have common interests,, no matter how 'attractive' someone is

and it would be unfair to them to feign interest,,,

jmo

You seem to get annoyed very easily. What if the thing she's doing only annoys you and not others? Do you still think she's ignorant for not thinking she's being annoying?

You say no one works at relationships, however, you're also assuming that you're right in the fact that she is annoying, and assuming she is the one who needs to change....why don't you 'work' first and 'get over' whatever it is that annoys you hypothetically if she was your girlfriend

I love it when people start threads asking for advice, then when they get answers they don't agree with they get pissy.

Guess the girl annoyed him while he was posting.

Well, that's another hypothetical but I think that I stated above that her friends agree with me about what she is like. Maybe her friends are a bit two faced about it because she's pretty or because she has other qualities that they do like. Like I said, I get on alright with her and I only find her a bit annoying.

Sometimes there are those whom I fancy for a long time.....which is probably not quite reciprocated even "in feign".

No, I was definetely a bit annoyed. I remember it quite clearly.

But hey, I'm working on it. Might even keep putting up with it if I get off with her. I've taken worse crap from other women that weren't as attractive.