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Sun 08/04/13 08:27 PM

What's up people I'm new to the whole online dating thing need some input negatives or positive I need to know

John,
I think I would add a picture or 2 plus what do you look for in a woman? You just talk about yourself...now tell us what you want?
Good Luck in your search!!

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Sun 08/04/13 08:25 PM
Edited by unsure on Sun 08/04/13 08:28 PM
Angelina, I think your profile is very nice. Now just jump in the community and start chatting away, this is how you really get to
know the people!!!
Good Luck in your search!!!

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Sun 08/04/13 08:10 PM
Edited by unsure on Sun 08/04/13 08:17 PM
I have to google it and see if we are just missing something so I won't dream!!!

UMMM I WISH I WOULD HAVE NEVER GOOGLED IT, IF I HAVE NIGHTMARES I WILL NOT BE HAPPY!!! :angry:

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Sat 08/03/13 09:30 PM
Congrats to your son.
I know as a mom, you are very proud...so
Congrats for pushing him through everything!!!
flowerforyou

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Sat 08/03/13 01:35 AM
Don't worry Edward, I buy them by the case!!! :wink:
Just teasing :tongue:

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Sat 08/03/13 01:29 AM
OMG I know I have done the right thing when I stopped
dating when someone mentions "dry humping." blushing

I just don't think this whole dating thing is for me
any more. Worrying about sex and do I leave the light
on or off? OMG I love the single life!!!!drinker

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Fri 08/02/13 09:45 PM


Let me ask you a question, would you be upset if
she signed up on here and asked for men to be her
friend? Are you going to be honest with her and
tell her you are here? If you answered NO to both
of these questions, I think you know what you need
to do!!!
Plus NO this is not just a dating site, I am not here
for dating..just friends!!! BUT I don't have a boyfriend
or a husband either!!!

But it is the first site that pops up on google when u type "dating site" and like the 20th if u type in friendship so I think it's more a dating site for "singles" then it is a friendship site.

You are right, it is a dating site but there are a lot of us
here for just friendship. This is a great place to make friends,
even though I am single, I am just not looking for a relationship.
But you are right Edward, this is the best dating site around!

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Fri 08/02/13 09:33 PM
Let me ask you a question, would you be upset if
she signed up on here and asked for men to be her
friend? Are you going to be honest with her and
tell her you are here? If you answered NO to both
of these questions, I think you know what you need
to do!!!
Plus NO this is not just a dating site, I am not here
for dating..just friends!!! BUT I don't have a boyfriend
or a husband either!!!

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Fri 08/02/13 08:18 PM
Happy Birthday Navygirl. I hope that migraine passed?
I have suffered from migraines for 13 years now and
once I had the cancer they went crazy. I feel for you
because they are horrible.
Have fun girly flowerforyou

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Fri 08/02/13 08:03 PM
I loved New Zealand!
The big clouds in New Zealand.
The accents in New Zealand.
I loved checking out all the different cultures in New Zealand.
I loved the attention I got in New Zealand because they loved
my accent. Do Indiana people have an accent?
What the hell am I doing in Indiana? I want to live in
New Zealand!!!!

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Fri 08/02/13 07:55 PM
I do know that in high school they get to watch a baby
being born. My son actually came out pale as a ghost and
told me that he was scarred for life. LOL he had to come
home and lay down because if made him sick watching all
of it.
I am sure that in health they don't tell them everything
but I am sure that when your daughter gets to that age,
you are going to be so close that she will feel fine
asking you anything. Communication is key, you just have
to be open with her and let her know that she can ask you
anything and you will never judge her.
If you have questions or need any help, you have a lot of
female friends her that will always be there for you...just
ask for our opinions. flowerforyou

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Fri 08/02/13 07:43 PM
I think you really never know someone ever. I think
you can live with someone for years and they can
still shock you after 5 years. I think sometimes
people hide their bad side until they think they
have you and then they get comfortable.
Yes I have been in a relationship like that!!

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Thu 08/01/13 01:06 AM

I find the thought of an older woman appealing. Not for money, maybe for the sex :) but mostly because I believe that most know what they want and how to get it and ain't going to change their mind halfway through. Also you could learn a lot about life from them with their past experiences. Don't know if I would spark a serious relationship with one though maybe just for some fun. I'm a very good learner and they older they are the better the teacher. But wouldn't go for someone that is over 50 though. Would hate for her to have a heartache lol

How do you know that you would not be the one with the
broken heart? LOL sorry just teasing!!
This is a BIG reason why I do not believe in the whole
"friends with benefits" thing. Sure some people might
think it is fun and maybe it is, BUT eventually someone
is going to get hurt.
You can not tell me that if you have a sexual relationship
with someone for a year or whatever, that there are no
feelings there. Some type of feelings have got to form.
How in the world do you have sex and not get close to that
person? I don't know, maybe I just don't understand the
whole concept of the friends with benefits thing. I myself,
like the feeling of being close to someone and sharing those
same feelings. I don't think I would like having sex and then
getting up and dressed and saying thanks and out the door I
go? WTH is that? I think I would feel terrible about myself.

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Thu 08/01/13 12:48 AM
If you are not looking for another relationship, then
maybe you should get off of a dating site and put more
effort into your lady that you already have? Everyone
always thinks the grass is always greener on the other
side...most of the time, its not.
If you have lost that spark, it means that you both have
stopped trying. Obviously you have stopped trying because
you my friend are on a dating site. Look how much effort
it took for you to sign up here...BUT yet you are not
looking for anyone else? I think you are kidding yourself!
If someone emailed you to meet up with you, you know you
would in a heart beat.
My advice to you is, get off of the computer and put some
effort into your mate. If you are IN love with her, actions
speak louder then words so go show her how much you love her.
You have to work on a relationship, it just does NOT grow
on its own!!!
Good luck flowerforyou

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Thu 08/01/13 12:34 AM
I would also add a few more pictures.
I am glad that you are honest about still being
married BUT a lot of women will not become involved
with you until you are divorced. That do not want
drug into any drama that you are about to go through.
I would put that you are here to make new friends,
then that way you might have a great friend that
helps you go through your divorce with you and then
you can have a new relationship.
I believe that you can not start a new relationship
until you finished the old one.
Join in the community rooms and that way people can
start knowing who you are. When you write in the threads
people learn to know you much better, so don't be a stranger.
Good luck!

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Wed 07/31/13 08:34 PM
You are in my thoughts and prayers...speedy recovery!!
flowerforyou

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Wed 07/31/13 08:30 PM
I honestly think they talk about all of that stuff
in health class. Plus there are books out there that
helps explain a lot of things. I am a single mom and
I bought books for my boys to read when it came time
for them to know about sex. LOL they laughed at me
and said we already learned this in health class mom.
Plus you will be shocked what they learn from the
other kids in school...you just can not protect your
innocent kids anymore!!!!

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Wed 07/31/13 12:42 AM
I think we all have made the wrong choice in men.
The big question is did we learn from it or are we
going to keep making the same mistakes? Some of us
keep picking the same type of men and we never stop
and realize what we are doing before it is to late.
There is a good book that I read, IN THE MEANTIME,
and it tells you why you pick the same type of men
and why you feel like you deserve to fail in relation-
ships. Great read IF this is what you are doing.

I think what I have done in my past when trying to meet
someone on line is believe everything anyone told me.
When I started this online stuff, I was pretty naive about
the whole dating thing.
Now when I am talking to someone, I am like OMG RED FLAG!
I have to laugh at myself because I find myself doing it
a lot. Usually when a guy sends me an email, I can find
at least 3 or 4 things wrong with him. I guess I look now
for the red flags!!!

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Wed 07/31/13 12:24 AM
Well George, I think you need to come and post more.
When ever you post, that is how people get to know
you and see how you really are.
On your profile, I think you need to add a little
bit more about yourself and a little bit more about
what you want in the person that you are looking for.
You have to be creative and make people want to talk
to you!
Good luck in your search!!! flowerforyou

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Wed 07/31/13 12:19 AM
WELCOME TO OUR NIGHTMARE...I HOPE YOU ENJOY!!!
flowerforyou