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It is true...not everyone on here wants to date and
sometimes they believe that their pictures do not have to be posted. I myself am not here for dating, I did post pictures but I don't care what anyone thinks. Now if I was dating someone and he asked me to take them down, I would but I would not leave this site. I have to many friends here. 
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I need...
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I need my Insomnia to stop and let me sleep one good
night. I need a normal life but I doubt that will ever happen. I need I need, blah blah blah!!!!
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ladies
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Actually you need to say more about what you are looking for
in your profile. It does not say a lot to make me think hmm I would wonder who this man is. Plus the 2 pictures of the girl in the red dress, she is by no way your sister. GET RID OF THOSE OR DATE HER!!! |
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Take that time and see IF you still feel the way you
do. If he does leave his wife are you worried that he might cheat on you the way he did on her? I must say, it does not always go that way but it could. Do you trust him? If there is no trust in a relationship, then that relationship is not going to last. You have to do what your heart tells you to do. I really hope that you have NO contact with him and let him decide what he wants. I know it is hard on you and you might be depressed, but it will be worth it in the end. The truth will come out if he loves you or not! I only wish you the best I think you know this. Take this time to breath and IF he does get a hold of you...do NOT answer him. Good luck girly!!!! |
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I actually do not think race matters. I have taught my children that color is not important, what is important is how you feel about that person. It is true, racism still exist in America! We actually found that out with the Zimmerman case. A lot of people are totally against white people dating black people where I live. In my small town, it would never happen, you would have to move to a bigger place or you would be the talk of the town. Plus the Police Officer's would hassle you like crazy. Can love survive on the internet? If you only live a small distance, then I would say yes. If you live 9000 miles apart, then I would say NO. I tried it, it is not for me! I wish you luck in whatever you decide to do. Make sure that you are not holding these feelings because you can not have this person. Sometimes we hang on to feelings when we know that person is unreachable, I have done this. It is a heart breaker...something that you have to let go even when you don't want to. What was so funny about what I wrote JANNEHO? |
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complicated
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msharmony..it says she cheated.
I think if she cheated and has no interest in sex with you, something is wrong. I say move on and find someone that YOU can love and will love you the same way!!! |
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What causes chat to fizzle?
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I was chatting with a guy and he just ticked me off.
I actually told him and he would never answer me back about him being a smart a$$. I guess it is good to find out in the beginning of a chat that you can't stand someone instead of wasting time one them!!! |
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Hi friends. I had a relationship with a married person. We started it with sex relationship.On the way we fell in love.We had a good physical and emotional relationship. Later it is make us very difficult and hurt. I love him very much and he too.This is the best relationship and sex I ever had. I realized this would not working for me and I told him I cannot have this relationship anymore. This is his story. He has been married 25 years. His wife doesn't interest in sex. He has high sex drive. He is not happy with his marriage. He tried to help her asking what is wrong with her and how can help her. But she refusing talk about that and going doctor therapist and counselling.He is so frustrated with his marriage life. She is not a cuddle and romantic person. She is busy with her pets and friends. No time for her husband. His kids married live on their own. My problem is I have no any connection with him now. But he is asking time. He want to workout things with his wife. If she is not corporate with him, He wants to leave her. Life is too short. I want to enjoy my life. I would like to know,what should I do.I am heartbroken. I want to move on. I feel bad to hurt him even though it is hurt me. I loved him still do very madly. He is a great lover, he knows how to turn on women.Very kind respectful person. I cannot believe how is she (wife)refuse this wonderful husband. Please help me what should I do.Please don't criticize. I value your kind feedback.Good advise preffred. Thanks Walk away... I have heard female friends tell me this story.. and have also heard men use the same story... If you still want to try... Ask him to meet with some of his close friends.. (you must know some of their names, if you were that close).. See if he is willing to let you talk with his friends, without him in the room.. Ask them about "her" and what kind of person she is.. and about him.. Personally, though.. I think you already know it was a mistake and are settling for less than you want.., right..? Can you trust someone who cheated on their spouse, to not cheat on you..? I wouldn't.. I have to agree with him...if he is in a sexless marriage and they are not happy, you should ask him to meet some of his friends. If he says that he can't let you do that, then you know he is a liar. Do you know where he lives? Do you know his home number? If you were to call him and tell him that you needed him, would he come and be with you? Is everything on his terms? Do you only meet him when he is available? Do you ever get to spend the holidays with him? Sorry I am asking so many questions but I just wanted you to think. If most of your answers are NO, then you really need to stop and do a lot of thinking. |
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Trust
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Is a gut feeling that you get from talking to them?
If so, you need to trust that feeling. If it is just something from the past from where a guy lied and now you don't trust anyone...maybe you are not ready? Only you will know when the time is right and when the right one comes a long! I say go with the gut feeling because it never lets you down!! No you did not mess up again, maybe you just saved yourself a ton of trouble!! NEVER DOUBT YOURSELF!!!! |
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Actually I had a date once with a guy who said he was
newly divorced. He said that his wife would never have sex with him and he could not live that way, and why should he? Of course everything he told me was blamed on his ex-wife and I felt bad for him. We were our for dinner and his phone rang, he just hit the button where it would go to his voice mail. It kept ringing and I told him to take it, it might be an emergency. He did and I could hear everything this woman was screaming at him. When he got off of the phone, he said I need to tell you something. He said I am still married. That was my wife wanting to know where I was. I had already heard the conversation so I knew he had lied to me from the beginning. I said a few choice words and told him to lose my number and I got up and left. Any time someone is married, you do not want to get involved. I had no clue that guy was married still but I knew I was not staying there because I did not want the drama. Just make sure he is telling you the truth, I kind of doubt he is. I say walk away with your head held high and never look back. DO NOT WAIT FOR HIM, DO NOT GIVE HIM TIME. HE IS NOT GOING TO LEAVE HIS WIFE NO MATTER WHAT!! THEY ALWAYS SAY, ITS CHEAPER TO KEEP HER!!!! |
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I actually do not think race matters. I have
taught my children that color is not important, what is important is how you feel about that person. It is true, racism still exist in America! We actually found that out with the Zimmerman case. A lot of people are totally against white people dating black people where I live. In my small town, it would never happen, you would have to move to a bigger place or you would be the talk of the town. Plus the Police Officer's would hassle you like crazy. Can love survive on the internet? If you only live a small distance, then I would say yes. If you live 9000 miles apart, then I would say NO. I tried it, it is not for me! I wish you luck in whatever you decide to do. Make sure that you are not holding these feelings because you can not have this person. Sometimes we hang on to feelings when we know that person is unreachable, I have done this. It is a heart breaker...something that you have to let go even when you don't want to. |
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hello from amsterdam :)
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Hello and welcome Mr Mystery Man
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The first thing I notice on someone is the eyes.
I love someone who has a good personality, and who treat others well. They have to be honest, kind, loyal, trustworthy, caring. They must have a good heart, I go for the inside not the outside because looks fade..but the inside can always keep growing. |
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Do you have a great job?
Do you make a lot of money? Do you have someone reliable to keep the child? Do you have a nice hefty savings account? When you go in these are the kind of questions they will ask you. If you want a child, and you are single...then I say IF you can afford it, do it. There are so many children out there waiting for a loving family. Just remember, you can NOT return the child if you decide it is way to much for you to handle!!! So make sure you know what you are doing before you jump the gun! |
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I think those feelings won't leave IF you both work
on the relationship. Nothing is going to last forever unless you both want it to. IF you both put some effort in to keeping the relationship fresh and new, it will pay off in the end. |
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Topic:
a Question
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GOOGLE IT!!!!
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It depends on why are we not having sex if we are in a
relationship? If it is a religious reason or we both have agreed to wait until we are married, then yes I can wait and I would have no problem with it. Sex does not make a relationship, it just enhances it. I know that when I start dating someone, I give myself a certain amount of time before I even consider sleeping with them. To me, if you sleep with someone right away..you become confused. Sex boggles your mind and you are not sure if you like them for the sex or if you like them for other reasons. So I honestly hold off on the sex for awhile. If you hold off then you also find out IF that person likes you for you or were they just out for sex. IF they decide to wait and they keep coming around, then you know they must like you and it has nothing to do with sex. I am like everyone else, I like sex but I want to make sure that I am with the right person!
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Topic:
Opposite Sex Friends
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I have a lot of men friends and that is exactly what they
are..just friends!! If I am dating someone, I would want my boyfriend to be friends with them also. I would never try to hide any of my male friends from him, just like I would expect him to never hide any of his female friends from me. You can have friends of the opposite sex and nothing will happen. My male friends that I have, I have never had sex with and I never will. You have to trust your partner or you should not be with them!! |
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I am a people watcher, so I watch how they act around
their friends. If they act like an a$$ around them, I know that I would want nothing to do with them. If they treat a waitress bad and act like they are better, they are not my type. I want someone who respects everyone. BUT as far as the physical aspect goes, the first thing I notice on a man is his eyes. Eyes are the window to the soul, they tell you everything. 
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Topic:
Inferiority Complex?
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I was raised that I was as good as everybody else BUT I am
no better then anyone. I have never felt that anyone was better then me and if people thought they were, I usually let them know how I felt. Usually the ones that think they are better then everyone else are the ones with the low self esteem. I am confident in the person I am and how I treat others. |
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