How do you attract a good guy with good intentions? Im tired of being lied to. 7

the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. if that doesn't work, than i guarantee i guarantee a perfume that smells like bacon and beer will do the trick

(bulldog double guarantee - patent pending)

Ha....no wonder...I wear a perfume....called Rare Gold.

I'm just curious to see what all the horndogs on here will post

I don't know if such a guy exists anymore. Although I did meet one such guy, but he wasn't good in bed. So I'm gonna let another woman go for him....smh

I told someone my intentions. He said oh ya im a good guy. I im not looking anymore your here, then following week its like im sorry its not gonna work out. He did a real doushe bag move.

This thread is coming dangerously close to another nice guy thread.

I was pursued agressively by a guy once, so I asked him " Are you ready to be my man?" Of course he replied sure am. A week later I called him & he says I'm chilling with my fiance

yathink?

Not everyone is honest,many people change opinion really fast. You will find eventually someone who is real,honest and who knows what he wants in life .

Wow that's a douche too

You girls must understand many guys when see that woman have children's just make huge step back and run away lol,not everyone is prepared to be even with free woman not to mention single mom.

yep, a douche.

Have you tried dating a Melmacian?

Don't talk about sex, mention sex and avoid sex....and he continues to buy you gifts and such....then he is more than likely a good dude. That or you can run a background check on him.

That is funny Goof because I have actually ran a background check on someone before. I did tell him I was going to before I did it though. He actually gave me his SS number so I could do the check. This was years ago when I was actually going to move in with someone and I wanted to make sure that he was a good guy and had a clean record.
Plus it helps to have friends in high places!!!

I have NO clue how to attract a good guy with good intentions!!! The last few guys I have met on here were scammer's so that is why I put down that I am not interested in dating.
GOOD LUCK

Enrol on a course at night classes in college on something like engineering or computer studies, sure to meet some nice guys, and in the unlikely event you don't find the one you are looking for, you will at least improve your knowledge.

The underlying issue is trust. In order to build a trusting relationhip it is necessary to go slowly and not get caught up in lonliness, desperation,desire and a a need to please. It takes time to get to know a person and many men do not have that as a goal but prefer the attainment of sexual gratification. For a gal must proceeed cautiously and recognize that his behavior should be matched against what he says so that over time you observe that what is said in fact consistently matches his behavior. People rush into relations so quickly and the results are often painful and discouraging . While difficult to proceed slowly and build a foundation of trust jumping in without a basis in building a trusting relationbship is not a likly way to proceed. To determine honest behavior does not come fast and those in a hurry have a different agenda and if a woman sets limits and the man complies the beginnings of trust can be observed-it takes more than a couple of examples for a person to demonstrate genuine caring so its advisable to delay the process and spend more time just getting acquainted and preferably in venues where others are around at all times giving a chance to see what the other person is like. People expect instant gratification from one another and of course this often leads to being hurt and exploited but ultimately its up to each person to proceed at a pace that is comfortable so that a degree of trust has been shown to justify any time of intimacy, but its difficult to slow down our own needs when seeking happiness with another.

There's no right answer to this. I like to think that I'm a good guy with good intentions but things that would attract me would put off somebody else and vice versa. Don't always blame the guys. They might start out with good intentions but if you aren't right for them it won't work and they will move on to the next woman.

Being all whiney about how men have treated you though doesn't really help and neither does messing people around if you don't really know what you want and are all negative about getting involved with someone again.

Nice, Sybariticguy.
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