Do women mess with married men? Im married and looking for a fling, with no success. What am I doing wrong?

Um. Is this a trick question?

what you are doing wrong is that you are married

go pay for it

First you are disrespecting yourself, your marriage & your husband. Why not address what issues you have in your marriage first before betraying yourself, your husband and your marriage. If you want permission dont expect it from me as i would simply call you cowardly in the absence of more data. You might consider a therapist and ascertain what is going on with you in your marriage before you cause such pain and disruption.,..

feels like it

The moral thing would try to get divorced first.
If you truly love your husband, you won't cheat on
him.


If you don't love him, then try to contain yourself
until after you're divorced.

are there special websites for married and dating? I see ads all the time, however I am a faithful partner. Perhaps you should talk to your wife about becoming a swinger and see how she responds. It's not very fair to her nor yourself. Put pride aside, and be honest with her. If it's the thrill you seek then try shark cage diving or bungee jumping, don't get high by getting away with an affair. It's prideful and disrespectful to your whole whole family. I am not judging you, but you should go to the websites that support this stuff and you will find other people who look for married men.... I AM NOT ONE OF THEM * Disclaimer*

Just for the records; the poster is a guy; however I think that if he doesn't love his wife enough to respect her then divorce her.

Also for the record he has only one post a month ago when he started this thread....

There are women who will do things for the right price. You work two jobs, so obviously there are issues going on in your marriage. I'm guessing that one of you if not both of you have gotten bored with the intimacy portion of the relationship. You either owe alot if back child support, or have extremely high debts that require you to take on a second job. Either way the more you present yourself to women, the less attractive you become. Find a new way to spark the fire in your marriage, or get out of it. More importantly forget about us single ladies. We're not interested.

At least he's being honest with us, LMAO,

Then again we aren't married to him.

In the profile it says you work two jobs and when you come home she's gone. Is she working to help support your family?

no.. you may get the success...

YES...they are called hookers
lol

I have a question for you! What would you do IF you caught your wife on a dating site asking men to date her? How would this make you feel? I am sure you would feel betrayed and very hurt!
Now my suggestion is that maybe you should deactivate your account and spend some time with your wife! IF you are still IN love with your wife then maybe you need to show her and spend some quality time. Instead of logging on here, go hug your wife and try to make your marriage work. Does she even know that your marriage is in trouble?
Seriously you had to take time out of your life to make a profile, I am assuming you wrote something on your profile because I did not look? You could have taken that 15 minutes and talked to her about what you didn't like in your relationship.
The way I feel about married men is this: IF THEY CHEATED ON THEIR WIFE TO BE WITH ME, HOW COULD I TRUST THEM THAT THEY WOULD NOT CHEAT ON ME TO BE WITH SOMEONE ELSE? I don't think very many women mess with married men UNLESS the man lies.
I will say it is nice that you are being honest and telling that you are married BUT I honestly don't think you have a chance in hell to find a girlfriend here. SORRY JUST MY OPINION!!

{Standing ovation !}

YOU ARE TO SWEET...BLUSHES!!!