Community > Posts By > iceprincess
Edited by
iceprincess
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Tue 10/28/08 08:23 PM
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My opinion on child support (being a single parent) is that it should be treated just like SSI the parent receiving should have to account for every penny, deliniating out what portion goes for housing, food, clothing, "play", transportation, ect and provide documentation supporting this.........and reports should be supplied to the non-custodial parent and state child-support office quartely.....the Gov't has a right to know where there money is being spent and so should parents who have to pay.
I did this on my own for my ex when he paid and there was never any issuehe could raise about where "his' money went......to me the money is the childrens our marriage ended he was in no way obligated to support me any longer. |
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I've always felt whomever was in the better finacial position paid. If you both have it then it's up for grabs.
I feel I'll get it back eventually in one form or another. Me paying every so often also doesn't make it feel so much like I'm being bought...It's a big hangup of mine..I owe no man anything on any level. |
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Ladies, your feelings
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I figure if your so lacking in verbal skills that the worst thing you can think to say to me is to call me a c*nt or b*tch i've already won the argument. Why bother upstaging your lack of intelligence further by continuing to argue with you. This for me holds true be it man or woman, if your so lacking in intellectual skills that you must resort to names you should quit while your ahead.
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2months and not eating
Edited by
iceprincess
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Wed 10/22/08 04:58 PM
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sorry double post.......:)
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2months and not eating
Edited by
iceprincess
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Wed 10/22/08 04:59 PM
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Applesauce has a lot of acid in it............not a good thing to be giving a two month old. If your really worried give him hypoallergenic formula and check with the dr about maybe giving some baby rice or oatmeal but definitly not table food. 14lbs at 2 months is a really good weight. But if your worried try a pediatric specialist.
Sounds like he may be colicy my daughter was for the first 3 months of life and she was 6 weeks premature. we used to have to hold her and do squats for about 2.5hrs everynight to get her to calm down and go to sleep............I had an awesome ass....LOL may want to try it colicy babies love "white noise" and smooth constant motion. |
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Adult meds given to kids
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My daughter had some of the same issues from birth i couldn't even breast feed.Had to be placed on hypoallergenic formula and fed approx every hour and was on zantac. We had feeding issues till she was about 4 months old and could never take reg or soy formula.
It took two specialist to come to figure it out. I'd seek one out. |
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Pro Life?....
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IT'S WRONG !!!!...you know it and I know it... Judge not lest yee be judged. Used to be pro-life no matter what the reason....come on what could be so damn bad that you'd have to have an abortion. GOD made me eat my spoken and unspoken words.......till you've been there you can't make an educated choice nor can you judge another for thiers. |
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I don't like either!!!!!! But McCain spent over 5 year's as a POW so he know's about getting screwed by our government!!!!!! And he knew sure knew how to screw over his first wife. From what I've read, she was taking care of the children. Question i have is who are we to judge? His wife had a choice and she chose to overlook his infidelity....her choice. Do some research on PTSD and issues most pow's have after coming and reacclimating to regular society. His actions are far from uncommon. Irregardless it has no bearing on whether he is better suited to running this country. |
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545 PEOPLE
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hence why we have elections...........obviously we as the "American" public aren't pissed off enough about any of it, we keep relecting the governing body. That or half of us abstain from voting and sit back and complain that the half of us that did weren't enough to get them out of office.
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How many actually
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I vote just so I have a right to complain......LOL
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Why
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Three things popped into my head: A snausages commercial, a lucky dog commercial, and a screenplay starring Eddie Murphy........ Ok I'm confused...........but hey whatever works for you........LOL |
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Why
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Why the hell do i do this
To me Why the hell do i try Anymore I know your using me I allow you too I give you what you ask To keep you coming back What do I get out of it? What am I gaining? More heartache More questions I can't answer? Do I really think you'll ever love me? Do I belive you'll ever change? Am I deluding myself that you care? Do I allow myself to be used Because in doing so i control you? I have it You want it So who is using who |
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Women Who Dont Shut Up
Edited by
iceprincess
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Thu 09/25/08 10:17 AM
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Strength A strong woman works out every day to keep her body in shape ... but a woman of strength kneels in prayer to keep her soul in shape... A strong woman isn't afraid of anything ... but a woman of strength shows courage in the midst of her fear... A strong woman won't let anyone get the best of her ... but a woman of strength gives the best of her to everyone... A strong woman makes mistakes and avoids the same in the future... a woman of strength realizes life's mistakes can also be God's blessings and capitalizes on them... A strong woman walks sure footedly ... but a woman of strength knows God will catch her when she falls... A strong woman wears the look of confidence on her face ... but a woman of strength wears grace... A strong woman has faith that she is strong enough for the journey ... but a woman of strength has faith that it is in the journey that she will become strong... This was my grandmother and one of the strongest women i knew. This is my mother. And i hope to god in some semblence me. I have my opinions and i voice them in a manner which has them actually heard not forced on others or at least i try. Of all the things i want on my resume a "*****" isn't one of them. Nobody likes a "*****" we may let you have your way to a point and we may let you"make" your point to ignore it later all in hopes you'll shut the hell up or at minumum leave the rest of the world in peace for a short while. *****es are not who we want as influences in our childrens lives or as confidiants. *****es have no room for growth as they are already rigid in their opinions and actions and choose to force them on the rest of the unsuspecting population |
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Do you Click or Clique?
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I don't really remember much in regards to Highschool other than i was the "smart girl" and I was the Ice Princess. As for my work world I do my job expect you to do yours and keep your personal life at home. If I wanted to know what was going on in your personal world I'd ask. As for online I figure ignore all you like after all what is done or not done in cyber world is not gonna affect whether i feed my kids today or have a job tomorrow. So what cliques does that make me? LOL I just call it living in reality. Goal: survival of you and yours......... |
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Do you Click or Clique?
Edited by
iceprincess
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Thu 09/25/08 09:55 AM
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I don't really remember much in regards to Highschool other than i was the "smart girl" and I was the Ice Princess.
As for my work world I do my job expect you to do yours and keep your personal life at home. If I wanted to know what was going on in your personal world I'd ask. As for online I figure ignore all you like after all what is done or not done in cyber world is not gonna affect whether i feed my kids today or have a job tomorrow. So what cliques does that make me? |
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Lexy Syndrome
Edited by
iceprincess
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Thu 09/25/08 09:41 AM
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providing the object of your affection doesn't chop off your head hold it up for the world to see and then start eating parts of you...........:)
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VIEWS
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your welcome.........
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Dear God
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Thanks' ive gotten through it and decided to share they byproducts' so to speak of my journey.
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VIEWS
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I know i could be that person as I have been that person.
I have stayed in a relationship for the security of it all the while knowing i was lying and just waiting for my chance to get out. I controlled every aspect of because he allowed me too............i gave him just enough to keep him "blind" i did this knowingly and with forthought. Telling myself "No one can be that blind" telling myself he knew what i was doing and obviously he didn't care enough. He loved me and still does. I used that against him. Do i regret it yes..........it was a life lesson for me I realized what i am capable of, and what given the right set of circumstances i will do if not kept in check It's not so much to fulfill a need as much as it is an inate sense to dominate and control.which in and of itself is a basic human flaw |
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VIEWS
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I suppose in some sense it's a self defense mechanism. I'm a very dominant personality and if allowed free rein I will take over everything I touch. I have a tendency to over analyze any situation and skew it to my best advantage.
Ever heard the analogy it's just as easy to fall in love with a rich man as a poor one? If i didn't have a strongly instilled moral compass due to how i was raised......I could be a gold digger......LOL I recognize these faults within myself and never get involved with anyone in a worse situation than myself as i won't allow myself to be used. But neither do I get myself involved in any relationship where "he" has a weaker personality than I do as I know if i did I would be what i have described. I view myself as perfectly flawed............ |
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