Ok... I think I offically have lexy syndrome. I honestly believe now that I will not find the type of person that I am looking for online. Maybe my list is too long, maybe I am asking for too much but personally I think that I am not asking for that much. Anyways, just thought that i would share.

It's very frustrating.

for me, not frustrating.

I guess what I LIKE about this is that I can safely come here KNOWING I'm not going to find that "someone." There's a certain freedom in that, thank ya very much.

I think finding love on a greyhound bus is more fathomable!!!

i love you .....

i'm just not "in love" with you

oh that's so new and fresh! you should patent that phrase!

Chances are that you wont find what you are looking for online, but since you are here anyway you might as well try to keep positive as there is always a chance. Nobody should use the internet as their sole means of meeting someone but its a good addition on top of other things.

dan, get your fingers out of your nose! for pete's sakes!

positive.... oh i'm just full of positive crap.... you know rainbows and butterflies etc

I cant! I scratched my bum and now im addicted to the smell!

rainbows and butterflies arent positive. At least they arent going to help you find a man, unless you want a gay man maybe..

well I am not looking that's the whole point of lexy syndrome or at least not looking online


eeeewwwwwww about butt fingers!

T -- If nothing else, I'm honored to have a new medical condition named after me! (How many people can say THAT, other than Asperger and Crohn and St. Vitus and Lou Gehrig and....oh, never mind).

I think the real point here is the honest realization that some of us simply aren't willing to "settle for less" -- "less," of course, meaning different things to different people. For me, it means a mainstream relationship with a mainstream person -- and I suppose I base my perception of "mainstream" (albeit the very lowest end of the scale) on my ex-wife.

I just don't want to live through anything like that again.

And it IS frustrating, at times -- because simple law of averages would seem to dictate that, out of the thousands of people on this, or any, site, that there would be one who would be thematically as far outside the box as I am....

But no.

I've come to understand that, despite the apparent colorful natures and personae of many of the diverse people on dating sites, most of them are, at the root, pretty damned conventional. (And that is probably just about the worst insult I can use on anybody.) And that's OK, as far as it goes -- but for those of us who see "conventional" as somewhere between poison ivy and curare, it just ain't good enough.

I've been called a snob, an elitist, too picky, too demanding, unrealistic, you name it.

I don't ever intend to be called "stuck in a relationship with a boring person" again....

I'm here to tell you, girlfriend......it's NOT impossible.

BTW.....what is lexy syndrome?

I know babycakes. I am not jaded, I don't rule out anything, however, what I am looking for is probably not on here. Its not like I am disappearing but just not looking for my soul mate online.

Its better not to look anyway, i wasnt looking and things just worked out nicely.

really? then why are you fingers stuck up your nose!

never being able to find the right one from online.

It affects 6 in 10 online dating site users. Its a devastating disease where your standards, wants and needs will never be fulfilled by another individual that you met or interact with from online.




sound professional enough?

I alerady told you about my crack addiction!