Cuz it's all about me myself and I. It's almost getting to the point where I'm afraid to show kindness to anyone cuz it always comes back as being weak and taken advantage of. And come on that's all cheating is about is the me myself and I situation. what makes me feel good at the time not giving a **** the pain it will cause when they find out. If your not getting what you want leave , get a divorce so at least your partner can move on from your selfish ***!!!!!!

we cheat bcz we possess that skill, rather cheating is needed to find the right partner, at least that's why they cheat lol doesn't mean we, as a human being should. But it's upto our genes to search and find the exact match by searching and exploring more options. Yes it's 'inhumane' all the ways you look at it but that's how animal world is thriving but again we are human being. And by being superior we have the responsibility to make the environment better so cheating in that sense is harmful to u n society but you take that out, it's totally fine to do that.

In relationship, cheating is never the best option to avenge any form of your partner's wrong.
There are series of reasons people give for cheating, but whatsoever the reason may be, it is not reasonable enough to indulge in cheating.
Whatsoever your reason may be, I see the major reason why people cheat in a relationship as "Lack of Self Control".
If really you are content with the person whom you have chosen to be your partner, I see no reason for giving room for infidelity. That is why we are advised to be careful while make our choices in relationship. Do not choose for the inconsistent attribute of a person.

I find it's the only way I can win at chess.

Because they live without God, that's why they're in trouble all the time.

A key point in all this is that when a man cheats, there is a cheating woman involved with him. Or a single woman who doesnt care about her involvement with a married man. Otherwise it's not cheating its masturbation. So for all the man haters, hate on the woman too.

Do I meet my wife's lover from 2 years past we separated now but she still has not told me the truth it's been almost 2 years now and I can't forget the hurt and pain

Topic: why do people cheat



Because, I do not lose at Scrabble!

That you're bringing it on yourself.

My ex cheated on me. I never got a straight answer. She couldn't look me in the eye and deny it. After about a week, I decided that I wasn't going to dwell on it. I'd move on. About a month later, I realized how not cluttered my life had become. I could come and go as I liked. Do stuff that suited me. I didn't have to seek approval from anyone. Life got easy.

Then she tried to insert herself in a small way into my life. I wouldn't stand for it, mostly because she wasn't allowing me any information about what was going on in her life. She was just too guarded about it. I found out why, later. She managed to break up another marriage, and marry the husband.

That's cold. It told me she didn't give a hoot about me. Bye, have a nice life. If she died tomorrow, I wouldn't even make the effort to go over and take a leak on her headstone.

She's living rent free in your head. Time to kick her out. Don't even let her know you have. She doesn't deserve to know that.

For the greed of finding some one better.🥺

There are cases where women use denial of intimacy to get their way, as punishment or think that they're teaching their partner "a lesson in one-upmanship," until they get their own way. This is in itself, cheating on a relationship and putting it under undue strain.

Men placed in that position would in many cases not step outside their relationship but are often forced to

If you're single and have been for some time, ever needed a hug?
Ever wanted to have s cuddle?
Ever experienced loss and there be no refuge?
Ever wanted to play in the bedroom and your partner not be interested? Repeatedly?
Women pigeonhole men rather than admit they were the initial catalyst in some cases. and for many men a hug is worth more than sex far more than women can possibly imagine.
It releases stress, and helps cope with mental wellness.
An experienced perspective.

For years I was firm believer in commitment. I wouldn't even hang out with my female friends as often when I was in a relationship to avoid her feeling like there was something going on.

After just about all my girlfriends cheated on me, I simply don't care anymore. After all, it's just a matter of time before I get cheated on again, right? so screw it... I might as well not pass up some fun.

Many lack INTEGRITY, as some here know I'm a guy who often has 2 or 3 FWB but there's no lying and no drama.
My longest LTR's have been 8 years and 16 years with my daughters mother and we didn't cheat and that wasn't a factor in our breakups.................
Be honest with your FWB, gain integrity, lying is not needed.

It is not cheating if you have permission from your significant other.

Because for them, commitment is a crime. haaay.

People cheat because basically they can ... that's it !!!

totally agree with your points

According to my own opinion cheating is a choice and it happens in different reasons..e.g someone can choose to cheat for sexual fullfilment so #it is just choice

everyone is different for someone is enough for others, one is never enough

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