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Topic: why do people cheat
Richard Joined Thu 08/12/21 Posts: 562	Mon 08/23/21 10:30 AM
People cheat because when they don't get what they need from their partner but being patient with your partner brings faith and lost hope back communication, and honesty, would help prevent it from happening in the first place.

Keahi Joined Mon 08/23/21 Posts: 1	Mon 08/23/21 07:04 PM
variety of reasons. I personally think the number 1 is the lack of self control. The Number 2 ties to number 1, which is impatience. This goes for both the cheater and the one being cheated on. It is obvious why the cheater has no self control or patience, but I argue that in general the victim of cheating is equally responsible because he was attempting to go out with such a person.

James Joined Wed 08/25/21 Posts: 8	Wed 08/25/21 03:50 AM
Cuz they think they're slick, and can get away with it.

Unknow Joined Wed 07/22/20 Posts: 25	Wed 08/25/21 05:39 AM
If its a true love then the only person you see is the one you love. Men and women are different so I can't speak for a man. And maybe I'm old fashioned too.

Unknow Joined Wed 04/03/19 Posts: 2	Sat 08/28/21 09:01 PM
Maybe it’s because she is totally neglected because she found he used 12 bottles of Viagra in a yr Oh Let’s see husband wife hadn’t had sex 3 yrs his choice. Tho wife begged for a divorce. His money always came first. But please. Blame the wife. For needed attention after 12 yrs of neglect trying to make it work. Every man we out there that has neglected your partner. You be judge one jury. I’m sorry. The day he broke out marriage vow. I was no longer obligated to keep it either.

Libra Joined Sun 08/29/21 Posts: 2	Sun 08/29/21 04:42 PM
people cheat because they are not contented with what they have, or they can't resist the temptation/idea in that situation.

Apple of Your EYES Joined Mon 03/15/21 Posts: 5477	Sun 08/29/21 09:59 PM
I have always found cheaters to be of the insecure ilk. They must continually prove to themselves they are attractive by baiting that hook and throwing it out. I avoid. i love this Comment,it is also what i believe.

Shreya Joined Sun 08/29/21 Posts: 1	Mon 08/30/21 12:55 AM
that's just up to upbringing mostly, kids see their parents cheating or their peers n learn the same n do when they get mature

Raj Joined Thu 08/26/21 Posts: 6	Tue 09/07/21 07:08 PM
what exactly does cheating mean? is it that you start loving someone else and also stick on to your partner as partner unaware or is it you just had a ONS with someone due to circumstance and hid it from your partner?

Laska Paul Joined Sun 11/08/20 Posts: 22879	Wed 09/08/21 09:49 AM
that's just up to upbringing mostly, kids see their parents cheating or their peers n learn the same n do when they get mature 60% Right you are . but can be some other reason too. -Disconnection -Imbalance -Fear of Commitment -Issues related to self esteem -Sexually addictive behavior. -Other secret affairs .

Apple of Your EYES Joined Mon 03/15/21 Posts: 5477	Wed 09/08/21 07:22 PM
it is a matter of commitment to the relationship,It's a choice of the person who cheats.plus they found a partner in crime...others say , its an easier way out from a relationship...the bad thing is they blame the significant other why they cheated.i know the feeling,i was blamed too

Unknow Joined Thu 08/09/18 Posts: 7	Sat 09/11/21 02:09 AM
every relationship has it's own boundaries and expectations. when each one is not able to fulfill the requirements. cheating start

Jose Navcas Joined Mon 09/13/21 Posts: 1	Mon 09/13/21 07:45 PM
We men have the biological instinct of impregnating as many women in fertile age as possible in order to have abundant offspring and pass our genes to the next generation at the least cost. This is the reason by which we cheat. Women in serious relationships cheat on their partners with another man physically more attractive in order to get pregnant with genes of better quality. A woman gets the best of both worlds in this way: the financial security which her formal bf or husband provides her (beta provider) and the sexual excitement and higher quality genes that her lover (alpha chad) offers her.

Brian Joined Sat 09/11/21 Posts: 97	Tue 09/14/21 04:24 AM
I would never condone cheating, but I at least understand why people do to some sense. 1) Excitement. 2) To make up for something their current relationship is lacking. 3) Fear of Commitment.

LoverforOne Joined Sun 10/03/21 Posts: 11	Sun 10/03/21 11:57 AM
My opinion is that if a partner "cheats on you" it is because they have NO Respect for you, and just see you as an object for them to play with.

Unknow Joined Sat 07/10/21 Posts: 54502	Sun 10/03/21 12:15 PM
I'm still not in relationship, so till then i will cheat means, chewy the chewing gum.. rest people's carry on.... jzt kidding. all ready so many opinion are theirs. tc.

Raul Joined Sun 08/22/21 Posts: 42	Mon 11/01/21 02:04 AM
1) Unhappy in the relationship and not able to leave 2) Having a fetish that your own partner can’t help you with so you look for someone who can 3) Not enough sexual contact at home, so you decide to quiet your hunger elsewhere. 1 and 3 are very good

Apple of Your EYES Joined Mon 03/15/21 Posts: 5477	Mon 11/01/21 05:35 AM
just thinking....the cheater cheats because he also wants to be cheated on,wait for ur turn, cheater...ul get your karma .

Rod Joined Wed 08/18/21 Posts: 141	Mon 11/01/21 08:09 PM
Because it is fun and something different. You are only dancing on this earth for a short while, might as well have all the fun you can.

Milkah Joined Sun 12/12/21 Posts: 6	Wed 12/15/21 10:38 AM
because the devil is controlling them