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Sweet Caroline.....Neil Diamond
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Topic:
Zee's Pub! - part 9
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Seems to me there is a very subtle message being sent out .....especially when there is not even a sniff of that elaborate brunch we were enjoying awhile back...
Hmmm!!! Grabs a vodka and OJ and heads out ...... |
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Topic:
Zee's Pub! - part 9
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Been awhile since I have woken up Sunday morning , alone ....so an opportunity to visit the pub and enjoy that delish breakfast brunch....which hopefully will be here soon ..
So just grabbing the usual VODKA and OJ and heading out to lay out some bets on the football games for the day !!! |
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Not skin colour itself, I can actually appreciate that. But different skin colour also means different cultural background and that is a reason for concern.
And not because it means having something against that culture but because it can mean it isn't congruent with yours. Been there, done that, and we both were Caucasian but from different countries and thus cultural background. Was not easy while both were Western cultures let alone how difficult it can be with another one. This to me sounds like you are trying your best not to offend in the best way you can. Identifying people by race is done obviously by visual identification and using this as a reason to dislike what you see and make a broad judgement casting your opinion on all that look that way is racist as we all know. Using your vision to identify culture by colour is 1. a super power or 2. racist. I am happy you chose to enter this discussion, it shows the willingness to change. I hope. I think we all have our preconceived ideas of beauty or our taste. Think about the music I enjoy and how a song can move you in every way. Now imagine listening to one of those songs (heavy metal is my go to) on a day you need the comfort, support, bravery etc and someone walks in the room and insists it's nothing but noise and turns it off. Then asks if I'm a Satanist and hate everything. That person just showed me that to them everything fits into a box with a label. Heavy metal goes into a box that is hate and satanic and this is probably how the rest of his idea of how life can be judged. Don't fall into this and if this is how you were taught to think, do yourself a favour and stop yourself from this way interaction with people. Being African does not mean you a Brown or black person anymore. I'm African and white.Been a White person does not mean you American or European or pure evil. You also seem to think that no two cultures are compatible. This might cause you to have a few discussions about things that will enrich this relationship or find out your culture sucks and adopt or adapt a new one. I'm going on a lot so to close my point. YES colour does matter it's foolish to say otherwise. Should it??? NO. because judgement by colour is stupid and it's a stupidity that we have been taught by our in my case racist white people and I choose not to teach that crap to my kids. We can choose change and it starts with blue eyes. Everyone with blue eyes should be thrown in jail because dumb reasons. The last bit is a joke but now you can see how using colour to judge is F.. ING stupid. Love not hate exceptance of difference is our strength. Love you all and have a great day. First of all, she is allowed her preference. If you ain't into fat people - you ain't "fatphobic", if you ain't into transgender people - that doesn't make you "transphobic", and if you ain't into a certain culture - that doesn't make you racist. Everybody is discriminatory. It's how we as a species conduct ourself. Discrimination is not a bad word - it's the distinction for a person to make this decision or go with the other. We weigh the 2 decisions and discriminate which would be best for yourself. Has nothing to do with anything else. When it comes to culture, it makes a huge difference. You were correct when you say the color won't definitively let you know their culture - but she admitted to trying it out with another culture that was white. A white atheist may not be compatible with a white Catholic. Perhaps that's why it is a metric that is used on a profile. With color, you can make an assumption that is not needed as a marker on a profile. The person themselves may not identify with their assumed culture - but there may be a good chance that their family or community may be, and to make the decision not to risk immersing yourself into that culture is the same discrimination one makes whether that person should cross that busy road now, later or not at all. To suggest that people can convince each other to come to their culture is nanners. You have more chance of success with common ground. Can a pro-lifer be with an abortionist? Maybe, but highly unlikely. Values and morals are a part of the attraction between people. Looks only go so far. I think its really all about background and culture, but yes , visual attractiveness comes first.... Skin colour is only misleading if the cultural background is different....if the two cultures are not compatible then its nearly impossible to match!!! ... |
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four strong winds ...neil young .....Alberta referandrum coming up in two days ..
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looking for someone to cuddle with in bed.....but please just lets cuddle so that I can fall asleep, dont ask how I got into your bed or any other stupid questions .....
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thinking which is worse ...the ads or the pop up from M2 requesting to disable the blocker....hmmmm!!!
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female guest ?
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thinking there are way to many ads on this site now, even after adding a ad blocker.....gonna have to find a better one soon !!
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grateful Dead
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Nope!!
I am gonna guess Grumpy Witch ....next |
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The whole month is dedicated to horror and scary movies, as Halloween is coming up month end .
Just watched "Christine" A beautiful car possessed by some evil spirit.....the movie has a love story entwined .....yeah !! some guys do prefer their cars to pretty women .....in the end love prevails and the car is destroyed......but now I wonder if there is a part Two......possibilty was left on the table ... |
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Topic:
Conspiracies & Coverups...
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Just came across a conspiracy with regard to the Lindsay Clancy trial. The woman murdered her three young kids , herself and her lawyer admitted the guilt part of it, and now as a whole bunch of feminists are trying to put the blame on her husband... Awaiting to see what happens now , as the first trial was ruled a mis-trial.......
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Eagles, the
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Congratulations...Cliff Richards
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CCR
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guest services
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Animals, the
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goofy friend
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bull horns
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