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Mon 03/02/26 04:42 PM
Mind




@Merry.... good to know !

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Mon 03/02/26 01:53 PM


Feel kinda disappointed.
Was talking to a match on here , for a week or so . The conversation was getting hot and heavy. I decided to take the leap of faith and ask for a meet and greet over a coffee. She suggested we meet half way, as we were two hour drive apart.. Great . Then she wanted a latest picture of me and I naturally suggested the same. Pictures exchanged.
Met up at the Cafe ..
Absolutely NO spark or Chemistry... like her whole persona did not match the banter we had on messaging....
live and learn ....next !!!

I hope she's not going to be upset that you talk about your date openly in the forums... surprised
Not very gentlemanly to do that...

And a good thing you met up to find out :)
Also, maybe next time don't get into hot conversation, no matter how difficult this may be for a guy.
More important to find out if you click and connect when talking about normal things.
In any case, good luck with the next one, hihi.


She actually deleted her account after she started talking to me and her picture disappeared to ..and I just feel that people should take accountability for their actions.
The heavy conversation was started by her . Me just carried it on .... otherwise I think the conversation would have died a natural death..
Live and learning ...thats me ... all the way...

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Mon 03/02/26 01:45 PM
Thinking why the heck did I just get a large double double coffee from Timmy"s..... oh yeah ! more chances to Roll up the Rim to win another free donut or to be told to Play again.....

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Mon 03/02/26 01:39 PM
Edited by Slim gym on Mon 03/02/26 01:41 PM


Oh wow so this is where all the lurkers come to check crazy stuff out ...

Thanks for the warm welcome Zee and TxsGal... now why cant I find ladies like you nearby..???

Mondays really get me down and more so after having a disappointing weekend... a totally bland meet and greet!!


ya mean where they come ta check out the crazy lady?? drool
speaking solely for myself of course laugh

well.. TG is obviously in Texas.. however I'm only like a 6 hr drive away in Quebec rofl okay so.. not that "nearby" huh laugh

Yes this past weekend was a real eye opener.... dang ! I am still recovering from it .
But yeah upwards and onward sounds right !
Next up is a 49 year old who is in my inbox...Hoping she is an empty nester like me .....cant handle kids at my age !


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Mon 03/02/26 01:31 PM
for a match who can keep up.....in more ways than one !!

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Mon 03/02/26 11:00 AM
Oh wow so this is where all the lurkers come to check crazy stuff out ...

Thanks for the warm welcome Zee and TxsGal... now why cant I find ladies like you nearby..???

Mondays really get me down and more so after having a disappointing weekend... a totally bland meet and greet!!

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Sun 03/01/26 04:02 PM
frustrated frustrated

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Sun 03/01/26 04:02 PM
Deactivated

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Sun 03/01/26 03:59 PM
a rock and a hard place....

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Sun 03/01/26 03:57 PM


I think that being in the army without specifying which branch, is misleading. Many scammers and con artists, use this description as a ploy. There is also the Salvation army... Perhaps this is a red flag to many, including me.
Good luck in your search!!
So you do not consider the Army a branch?...lol The shirt she has on looks like the old BDU they had when I was still in, so they look like military shirt (not salvation army shirt)...just relaxed on the regulations. I hear they can walk around with hands in their pockets and boots not shined with the new regs so who knows...lol So that part is not the red flag part for me...just the rest of the profile...lol

I always thought the army was divided into Marines, Infantry, Corp of Engineers etc etc .... I may be wrong....but I never was in the Army so what the heck do I know????



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Sun 03/01/26 03:43 PM
the rarest birthday in the world has gotta be Feb 29th...

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Sun 03/01/26 03:35 PM
Feel kinda disappointed.
Was talking to a match on here , for a week or so . The conversation was getting hot and heavy. I decided to take the leap of faith and ask for a meet and greet over a coffee. She suggested we meet half way, as we were two hour drive apart.. Great . Then she wanted a latest picture of me and I naturally suggested the same. Pictures exchanged.
Met up at the Cafe ..
Absolutely NO spark or Chemistry... like her whole persona did not match the banter we had on messaging....
live and learn ....next !!!

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Sun 03/01/26 12:19 PM

And where did you get your PHD in relationships?


Same place most get them from ... a cracker box.

To believe that love does' nt cost a thing is retarded, if I may say so...
It means you have never experienced love and the aftermath....
Women are like hurricanes....when they come, its wet and wild and when they leave they take your house and car !!!!

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Sun 03/01/26 12:09 PM
I have met and dated a couple of gals of this site.. One actually lasted a few years.
Yes chatting here is good for the soul and it does not take long to figure out if they are for real or scammers....Love at first Chat happens exactly after Lust at first Sight....just saying !!!

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Sun 03/01/26 12:03 PM
@ Motowndowntown.

I am thinking Oscar....
Lewis and Max have enough... but the rivalry is great for the sport.... Also I am rooting for Cadillac the newbie team to make some noise ... as they have experienced drivers. in Bottas and Sergio !!

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Sun 03/01/26 07:01 AM
Good Sunday morning me hearties... hope y'all all done with Church and now ready for that big breakfast....just like me .....as soon as I get out of my Sunday's best ... oh yeah its still my tradition and put on the old track suit.....
Have Zee best day !!!!!

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Sat 02/28/26 03:13 PM
@TxsGal333


Tell me about it.

Best part is when and if that LTA relationship fails there are no Lawyers involved to grab your money , and you actually end up keeping that 50% you had from the first marriage , if you had one ..
But finding a similar one gets harded by the day ha ha !!!

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Sat 02/28/26 06:04 AM
@ GravelRidgeBoy


Plus minus 5 years is about all I can handle at my age . ...the pool does shrink , but you will be surprised how vast it still is . I find the younger women (60 plus) still bring chaos and issues to the relationship, whereas the older , God bless their souls, add to your peace and comfort.. I have tried both groups and I have chosen well , just saying ..

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Sat 02/28/26 05:54 AM
@ Dirty Dancer


LTA means Living Together Apart... its an old concept shared by many older people and is catching on pretty fast .
Think of it as being on a perpetual first date. And you know how those dates panned out. Its an exclusive commitment to sharing and caring with that one person who sets your heart on fire .....but without the legal hassles in case of relationship break down.

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Fri 02/27/26 02:40 PM
At my age its only about FWB OR LTA..... take it or leave it ....

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