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Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Mon 05/07/12 04:41 PM
In Generally Speaking Do you think age really matters a lot? My self i don't think it matters that much , i think as long as a person is Legal age and the 2 people are in love and care for each other, i think its ok ,but i am being optimistic of a favorable outcome in the relationship or friendship , see some have a negative or pessimistic view on the age thing it will never work they say,cause it comes with a pessimistic way of thinking instead of positive way of thinking :) whats your opinion on the age thing?

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Mon 05/07/12 04:45 PM
In Generally Speaking Do you think age really matters a lot? My self i don't think it matters that much , i think as long as a person is Legal age and the 2 people are in love and care for each other, i think its ok ,but i am being optimistic of a favorable outcome in the relationship or friendship , see some have a negative or pessimistic view on the age thing it will never work they say,cause it comes with a pessimistic way of thinking instead of positive way of thinking :) whats your opinion on the age thing? I think its not the AGE , its the maturity, which most often does correlate to AGE some 23 year olds, for instance, may have obtained their degree and helped raise their siblings their whole lives and support themself completely financially other 23 year olds may still live with mom, depend on her for their laundry and meals, not know how to properly fill an application, or how to be professional on a job,,,,, the former type of 23 year old might be a match to a 33 year old single parent, because of matching maturity the latter 23 year old would probably not be a good match unless the 33 year old single parent was similarly 'immature' I think most 23 year olds are more like the first example though,,,personally heck, these days, most thirty year olds are more like the first example,,,,

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Mon 05/07/12 04:52 PM
In Generally Speaking Do you think age really matters a lot? My self i don't think it matters that much , i think as long as a person is Legal age and the 2 people are in love and care for each other, i think its ok ,but i am being optimistic of a favorable outcome in the relationship or friendship , see some have a negative or pessimistic view on the age thing it will never work they say,cause it comes with a pessimistic way of thinking instead of positive way of thinking :) whats your opinion on the age thing? Generally speaking, I think it depends on the people.

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Mon 05/07/12 04:56 PM
For me it matters. But for others (as long as they are legal) then it's none of my concern. I have a 21 y/o son and can't see myself dating anyone near that age. I prefer, at least, 5 years difference (give or take)

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Mon 05/07/12 05:02 PM
In Generally Speaking Do you think age really matters a lot? My self i don't think it matters that much , i think as long as a person is Legal age and the 2 people are in love and care for each other, i think its ok ,but i am being optimistic of a favorable outcome in the relationship or friendship , see some have a negative or pessimistic view on the age thing it will never work they say,cause it comes with a pessimistic way of thinking instead of positive way of thinking :) whats your opinion on the age thing? I think its not the AGE , its the maturity, which most often does correlate to AGE some 23 year olds, for instance, may have obtained their degree and helped raise their siblings their whole lives and support themself completely financially other 23 year olds may still live with mom, depend on her for their laundry and meals, not know how to properly fill an application, or how to be professional on a job,,,,, the former type of 23 year old might be a match to a 33 year old single parent, because of matching maturity the latter 23 year old would probably not be a good match unless the 33 year old single parent was similarly 'immature' I think most 23 year olds are more like the first example though,,,personally heck, these days, most thirty year olds are more like the first example,,,, That is a Awesome answer my friend ....but also some could be living with their Mom looking after their Mom too and doing all that stuff for her out of love cause some moms may need help too and the 23 year olds living with their moms don't mean they not mature cause they can still be working and taking care of her cause shes needs the help so it really depends on a lot:)

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Mon 05/07/12 05:03 PM
In Generally Speaking Do you think age really matters a lot? My self i don't think it matters that much , i think as long as a person is Legal age and the 2 people are in love and care for each other, i think its ok ,but i am being optimistic of a favorable outcome in the relationship or friendship , see some have a negative or pessimistic view on the age thing it will never work they say,cause it comes with a pessimistic way of thinking instead of positive way of thinking :) whats your opinion on the age thing? Generally speaking, I think it depends on the people. Right on bro! i like your answer cheers

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Mon 05/07/12 05:15 PM
Age does not matter to me. Maturity does.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Mon 05/07/12 05:40 PM
In Generally Speaking Do you think age really matters a lot? My self i don't think it matters that much , i think as long as a person is Legal age and the 2 people are in love and care for each other, i think its ok ,but i am being optimistic of a favorable outcome in the relationship or friendship , see some have a negative or pessimistic view on the age thing it will never work they say,cause it comes with a pessimistic way of thinking instead of positive way of thinking :) whats your opinion on the age thing? I think its not the AGE , its the maturity, which most often does correlate to AGE some 23 year olds, for instance, may have obtained their degree and helped raise their siblings their whole lives and support themself completely financially other 23 year olds may still live with mom, depend on her for their laundry and meals, not know how to properly fill an application, or how to be professional on a job,,,,, the former type of 23 year old might be a match to a 33 year old single parent, because of matching maturity the latter 23 year old would probably not be a good match unless the 33 year old single parent was similarly 'immature' I think most 23 year olds are more like the first example though,,,personally heck, these days, most thirty year olds are more like the first example,,,, That is a Awesome answer my friend ....but also some could be living with their Mom looking after their Mom too and doing all that stuff for her out of love cause some moms may need help too and the 23 year olds living with their moms don't mean they not mature cause they can still be working and taking care of her cause shes needs the help so it really depends on a lot:) absolutely, living with a parent alone doesnt signify immaturity,, living with a parent that one is still DEPENDENT upon for simple things like eating and doing laundry,,,,,signifies a delayed development,,,, IMHO,,,lol

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Mon 05/07/12 05:40 PM
As far as me and my woman....age doesn't matter cause she is the part of my soul that I never thought I would have. As far as me and the rest of the herd....I don't wanna young chick cause it is like training a puppy....they don't know what the hell they want...and they ain't that good at sex. MOST older gals come with too much baggage....mainly thier freak show families...but....they are freaking awesome in the sheets. I ain't saying this in a bad way cause think about how screwed up I am....seriously....I am pretty sure that we can all agree that it would take a special woman of really bad taste to chose me. But, the sun shines on every dog's @$$ some day. And I got a woman who completes me as a man. I don't care how old she is. I don't ask.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 05/07/12 06:12 PM
Age does matter to me. The bigger the age gap, the less likely we'll have much in common and the more likely we'll be at different places in life. I find that for dating, late 20s to mid 30s works well for me.

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Mon 05/07/12 07:24 PM
Age does not matter to me. Maturity does. well i think that is really awesome but does it matter how far of a age gap? or from what age to what age with Maturity?:)

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Mon 05/07/12 07:40 PM
In Generally Speaking Do you think age really matters a lot? My self i don't think it matters that much , i think as long as a person is Legal age and the 2 people are in love and care for each other, i think its ok ,but i am being optimistic of a favorable outcome in the relationship or friendship , see some have a negative or pessimistic view on the age thing it will never work they say,cause it comes with a pessimistic way of thinking instead of positive way of thinking :) whats your opinion on the age thing? I think its not the AGE , its the maturity, which most often does correlate to AGE some 23 year olds, for instance, may have obtained their degree and helped raise their siblings their whole lives and support themself completely financially other 23 year olds may still live with mom, depend on her for their laundry and meals, not know how to properly fill an application, or how to be professional on a job,,,,, the former type of 23 year old might be a match to a 33 year old single parent, because of matching maturity the latter 23 year old would probably not be a good match unless the 33 year old single parent was similarly 'immature' I think most 23 year olds are more like the first example though,,,personally heck, these days, most thirty year olds are more like the first example,,,, That is a Awesome answer my friend ....but also some could be living with their Mom looking after their Mom too and doing all that stuff for her out of love cause some moms may need help too and the 23 year olds living with their moms don't mean they not mature cause they can still be working and taking care of her cause shes needs the help so it really depends on a lot:) absolutely, living with a parent alone doesnt signify immaturity,, living with a parent that one is still DEPENDENT upon for simple things like eating and doing laundry,,,,,signifies a delayed development,,,, IMHO,,,lol well your 100% wrong cause i know a buddy of mine who takes care of his mom works and does the cooking and laundry and pays the bills and has no delayed development in fact does everything for his mom cause she has health problems , and does not want her in a old age home ,see you need to think of the facts before a statement but sometimes that is due to a delayed thinking ability or limited knowledge of a subject :)

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Mon 05/07/12 07:44 PM
For me it matters. But for others (as long as they are legal) then it's none of my concern. I have a 21 y/o son and can't see myself dating anyone near that age. I prefer, at least, 5 years difference (give or take) see thats ok my friend i understand if a person is young like your son you would feel strange :)i don't blame you feeling that way :) but say you didn't have a son would the age bother you as much? :)

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Mon 05/07/12 07:54 PM
As far as me and my woman....age doesn't matter cause she is the part of my soul that I never thought I would have. As far as me and the rest of the herd....I don't wanna young chick cause it is like training a puppy....they don't know what the hell they want...and they ain't that good at sex. MOST older gals come with too much baggage....mainly thier freak show families...but....they are freaking awesome in the sheets. I ain't saying this in a bad way cause think about how screwed up I am....seriously....I am pretty sure that we can all agree that it would take a special woman of really bad taste to chose me. But, the sun shines on every dog's @$$ some day. And I got a woman who completes me as a man. I don't care how old she is. I don't ask. Thanks for your input bro ,and yes once the 2 people are in love the age thing don't Exist or it just don't matter :) cheers

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Mon 05/07/12 09:06 PM
Age does not matter to me. Maturity does. well i think that is really awesome but does it matter how far of a age gap? or from what age to what age with Maturity?:) Nope..as long as they are mature enough for my taste.

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Mon 05/07/12 10:12 PM
Age does not matter to me. Maturity does. well i think that is really awesome but does it matter how far of a age gap? or from what age to what age with Maturity?:) Nope..as long as they are mature enough for my taste. well i think that is soooooooo awesome my friend i wish there was more that was like you on that way of thinking :) that age is not that important

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Mon 05/07/12 10:22 PM
Age does matter to me. The bigger the age gap, the less likely we'll have much in common and the more likely we'll be at different places in life. I find that for dating, late 20s to mid 30s works well for me. well everyone is different my friend some don't judge a person cause of a age before they even know them ,you may be surprised how in common people can be with different ages ,if you opened your horizon on different ages and gave them a chance , but its your choice ,its just a suggestion :)

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 05/08/12 02:17 AM
Age does matter to me. The bigger the age gap, the less likely we'll have much in common and the more likely we'll be at different places in life. I find that for dating, late 20s to mid 30s works well for me. well everyone is different my friend some don't judge a person cause of a age before they even know them ,you may be surprised how in common people can be with different ages ,if you opened your horizon on different ages and gave them a chance , but its your choice ,its just a suggestion :) You asked a question about whether age matters. I answered for myself. I wasn't looking for advice, though. I've found what works well for me. What works for you may be different.

mg1959 Joined Thu 04/05/07 Posts: 7872	Tue 05/08/12 02:32 AM
An often asked question so maybe it deserves often answers. No limits in my book. The universe is so full of possibilities I would hate to be the one who shut the door only to miss out on an experience of love and companionship that might be brilliantly designed by the heavens. We build our own walls, unfortunately sometimes we forget to put in windows.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Tue 05/08/12 10:50 AM
Age does matter to me. The bigger the age gap, the less likely we'll have much in common and the more likely we'll be at different places in life. I find that for dating, late 20s to mid 30s works well for me. well everyone is different my friend some don't judge a person cause of a age before they even know them ,you may be surprised how in common people can be with different ages ,if you opened your horizon on different ages and gave them a chance , but its your choice ,its just a suggestion :) I don't think she was so much judging them for their age as much as the different places in life at different times. Most people do go in stages in their life at different ages. She just wants somebody on the same as herself. Whats wrong with that?