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Topic: FWB Question
DTHRomeo's photo
Tue 02/10/09 10:30 AM




Okay if you were standing here I'd punch your arm for that one... silly!laugh

Seriously, I just looked at my nudges to see if I had been kicked....laugh


I thought you wanted one Sea :tongue: laugh

Even if I didn't I suspect I got it anyways, LMAO. That is okay I probably needed a good swift kick in the A$$ to keep me stright anyways, thanks.
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Romeo, Romeo, where for art thou Romeo????
laugh rofl


My pleasure :wink: laugh flowerforyou

Peccy's photo
Tue 02/10/09 10:50 AM
Sounds like you are not in love, but in lust. Multiple times you have expressed how good he was. If he can't handle the FWB situation, don't get dragged into something else simply because the sex is great. There are people out there who are just as good with less issues.

lilith401's photo
Tue 02/10/09 10:54 AM

Sounds like you are not in love, but in lust. Multiple times you have expressed how good he was. If he can't handle the FWB situation, don't get dragged into something else simply because the sex is great. There are people out there who are just as good with less issues.


You're right... I'm not in love.

But I was really interested when we dated. He met my son. He is the only one to meet my son in two years. So it's more do I open the feelings side back up or not.... and how do I know if he wants me to?

Citizen_Joe's photo
Tue 02/10/09 11:54 AM


Sounds like you are not in love, but in lust. Multiple times you have expressed how good he was. If he can't handle the FWB situation, don't get dragged into something else simply because the sex is great. There are people out there who are just as good with less issues.


You're right... I'm not in love.

But I was really interested when we dated. He met my son. He is the only one to meet my son in two years. So it's more do I open the feelings side back up or not.... and how do I know if he wants me to?


If you want more, tell him. Is expression of love something you need his permission to express? If he doesn't want more, and you do, you may need to stop so you can have your heart open to someone else. It's a difficult challenge for any man to consider dating a woman who says, "Well, I'm single but I have this boy toy I keep around for entertainment purposes only".

lilith401's photo
Tue 02/10/09 12:00 PM
Joe... um not ure what to say back. Did you read the thread?

no photo
Tue 02/10/09 12:02 PM
Lilith......the next FWB you get make sure he doesnt speak ANY english....preferrably deaf and mute as well.

The whole point to a FWB is to NOT have feelings for that person. If you do....youre screwed!!!noway

franshade's photo
Tue 02/10/09 12:07 PM

Lilith......the next FWB you get make sure he doesnt speak ANY english....preferrably deaf and mute as well.

The whole point to a FWB is to NOT have feelings for that person. If you do....youre screwed!!!noway


but that the purpose of having a FWB - to get screwed laugh

lilith401's photo
Tue 02/10/09 12:07 PM

Lilith......the next FWB you get make sure he doesnt speak ANY english....preferrably deaf and mute as well.

The whole point to a FWB is to NOT have feelings for that person. If you do....youre screwed!!!noway


I don't engage in this sort of behavior usually. I think it's the friend part that is throwing me off. So next time, if I do this, it needs to be MWB Man with Benefits... no friendship. No talking.

You got a good idea there.

MsCarmen's photo
Tue 02/10/09 12:08 PM
It's possible that the FWB relationship allowed him to develop his feelings at a slower pace without the any added pressures. Being that he's been hurt in the past, maybe this was the best thing for him.

And if he has developed feelings for you (which it sounds like he has), you've got to decide whether you want to move forward with this and let this develop into a relationship, or end it now before things get too complicated.

DTHRomeo's photo
Tue 02/10/09 12:09 PM

Lilith......the next FWB you get make sure he doesnt speak ANY english....preferrably deaf and mute as well.

The whole point to a FWB is to NOT have feelings for that person. If you do....youre screwed!!!noway


Isn't that what B.O.B.'s are for?spock

lilith401's photo
Tue 02/10/09 12:10 PM

It's possible that the FWB relationship allowed him to develop his feelings at a slower pace without the any added pressures. Being that he's been hurt in the past, maybe this was the best thing for him.

And if he has developed feelings for you (which it sounds like he has), you've got to decide whether you want to move forward with this and let this develop into a relationship, or end it now before things get too complicated.


Sound advice... thank you very much.

no photo
Tue 02/10/09 12:10 PM


Lilith......the next FWB you get make sure he doesnt speak ANY english....preferrably deaf and mute as well.

The whole point to a FWB is to NOT have feelings for that person. If you do....youre screwed!!!noway


but that the purpose of having a FWB - to get screwed laugh
Screwing is good but if and when someone develops feelings then.....its no longer a FWB but a big mess!!! Such is the case in point!

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 02/10/09 12:11 PM

no photo
Tue 02/10/09 12:12 PM
I think everyone should just have blind fold sex!!!!devil glasses

DTHRomeo's photo
Tue 02/10/09 12:13 PM



Lilith......the next FWB you get make sure he doesnt speak ANY english....preferrably deaf and mute as well.

The whole point to a FWB is to NOT have feelings for that person. If you do....youre screwed!!!noway


but that the purpose of having a FWB - to get screwed laugh
Screwing is good but if and when someone develops feelings then.....its no longer a FWB but a big mess!!! Such is the case in point!


Been there , done that ohwell

DTHRomeo's photo
Tue 02/10/09 12:13 PM

I think everyone should just have blind fold sex!!!!devil glasses


Mmmmmmmmmmm , that can be fun devil

lilith401's photo
Tue 02/10/09 12:14 PM


I think everyone should just have blind fold sex!!!!devil glasses


Mmmmmmmmmmm , that can be fun devil


I just got a new one last Friday but have yet to use it. Hot damn!!!

no photo
Tue 02/10/09 12:15 PM


I think everyone should just have blind fold sex!!!!devil glasses


Mmmmmmmmmmm , that can be fun devil
ya Im getting a lil rangy tangy right now.....devil laugh laugh :banana:

no photo
Tue 02/10/09 12:15 PM
gaaaaaaaaaaaawd all this talk about sex is making me crazzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzy!!!devil explode laugh

DTHRomeo's photo
Tue 02/10/09 12:16 PM



I think everyone should just have blind fold sex!!!!devil glasses


Mmmmmmmmmmm , that can be fun devil


I just got a new one last Friday but have yet to use it. Hot damn!!!


Have fun when you do

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