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Okay if you were standing here I'd punch your arm for that one... silly! Seriously, I just looked at my nudges to see if I had been kicked.... I thought you wanted one Sea Even if I didn't I suspect I got it anyways, LMAO. That is okay I probably needed a good swift kick in the A$$ to keep me stright anyways, thanks. Romeo, Romeo, where for art thou Romeo???? My pleasure |
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Sounds like you are not in love, but in lust. Multiple times you have expressed how good he was. If he can't handle the FWB situation, don't get dragged into something else simply because the sex is great. There are people out there who are just as good with less issues.
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Sounds like you are not in love, but in lust. Multiple times you have expressed how good he was. If he can't handle the FWB situation, don't get dragged into something else simply because the sex is great. There are people out there who are just as good with less issues. You're right... I'm not in love. But I was really interested when we dated. He met my son. He is the only one to meet my son in two years. So it's more do I open the feelings side back up or not.... and how do I know if he wants me to? |
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Sounds like you are not in love, but in lust. Multiple times you have expressed how good he was. If he can't handle the FWB situation, don't get dragged into something else simply because the sex is great. There are people out there who are just as good with less issues. You're right... I'm not in love. But I was really interested when we dated. He met my son. He is the only one to meet my son in two years. So it's more do I open the feelings side back up or not.... and how do I know if he wants me to? If you want more, tell him. Is expression of love something you need his permission to express? If he doesn't want more, and you do, you may need to stop so you can have your heart open to someone else. It's a difficult challenge for any man to consider dating a woman who says, "Well, I'm single but I have this boy toy I keep around for entertainment purposes only". |
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Joe... um not ure what to say back. Did you read the thread?
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Lilith......the next FWB you get make sure he doesnt speak ANY english....preferrably deaf and mute as well.
The whole point to a FWB is to NOT have feelings for that person. If you do....youre screwed!!! |
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Lilith......the next FWB you get make sure he doesnt speak ANY english....preferrably deaf and mute as well. The whole point to a FWB is to NOT have feelings for that person. If you do....youre screwed!!! but that the purpose of having a FWB - to get screwed |
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Lilith......the next FWB you get make sure he doesnt speak ANY english....preferrably deaf and mute as well. The whole point to a FWB is to NOT have feelings for that person. If you do....youre screwed!!! I don't engage in this sort of behavior usually. I think it's the friend part that is throwing me off. So next time, if I do this, it needs to be MWB Man with Benefits... no friendship. No talking. You got a good idea there. |
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It's possible that the FWB relationship allowed him to develop his feelings at a slower pace without the any added pressures. Being that he's been hurt in the past, maybe this was the best thing for him.
And if he has developed feelings for you (which it sounds like he has), you've got to decide whether you want to move forward with this and let this develop into a relationship, or end it now before things get too complicated. |
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Lilith......the next FWB you get make sure he doesnt speak ANY english....preferrably deaf and mute as well. The whole point to a FWB is to NOT have feelings for that person. If you do....youre screwed!!! Isn't that what B.O.B.'s are for? |
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It's possible that the FWB relationship allowed him to develop his feelings at a slower pace without the any added pressures. Being that he's been hurt in the past, maybe this was the best thing for him. And if he has developed feelings for you (which it sounds like he has), you've got to decide whether you want to move forward with this and let this develop into a relationship, or end it now before things get too complicated. Sound advice... thank you very much. |
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Lilith......the next FWB you get make sure he doesnt speak ANY english....preferrably deaf and mute as well. The whole point to a FWB is to NOT have feelings for that person. If you do....youre screwed!!! but that the purpose of having a FWB - to get screwed |
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I think everyone should just have blind fold sex!!!!
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Lilith......the next FWB you get make sure he doesnt speak ANY english....preferrably deaf and mute as well. The whole point to a FWB is to NOT have feelings for that person. If you do....youre screwed!!! but that the purpose of having a FWB - to get screwed Been there , done that |
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I think everyone should just have blind fold sex!!!! Mmmmmmmmmmm , that can be fun |
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I think everyone should just have blind fold sex!!!! Mmmmmmmmmmm , that can be fun I just got a new one last Friday but have yet to use it. Hot damn!!! |
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I think everyone should just have blind fold sex!!!! Mmmmmmmmmmm , that can be fun |
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gaaaaaaaaaaaawd all this talk about sex is making me crazzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzy!!!
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I think everyone should just have blind fold sex!!!! Mmmmmmmmmmm , that can be fun I just got a new one last Friday but have yet to use it. Hot damn!!! Have fun when you do |
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