Topic: FWB Question
DTHRomeo's photo
Tue 02/10/09 12:16 PM



I think everyone should just have blind fold sex!!!!devil glasses


Mmmmmmmmmmm , that can be fun devil
ya Im getting a lil rangy tangy right now.....devil laugh laugh :banana:


Oh oh laugh laugh laugh

Sorry offtopic

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 02/10/09 12:17 PM

I think everyone should just have blind fold sex!!!!devil glasses



Hmm, the feeling would almost be the same, but no visual, this could work!!



Now get out there & start fvckingbigsmile

DTHRomeo's photo
Tue 02/10/09 12:18 PM
laugh laugh laugh

lilith401's photo
Tue 02/10/09 12:18 PM
But I'm not scheduled 'til Friday....tears :banana: :laughing:

DTHRomeo's photo
Tue 02/10/09 12:19 PM

But I'm not scheduled 'til Friday....tears :banana: :laughing:


It's just a couple of days :wink: laugh

lilith401's photo
Tue 02/10/09 12:21 PM
Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday!!frustrated

drool

I'll try...

no photo
Tue 02/10/09 12:22 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KBq5Qo2QhTI

Riding_Dubz's photo
Tue 02/10/09 12:34 PM
Edited by Riding_Dubz on Tue 02/10/09 12:36 PM
can you pencil me in for thursday?! smitten smitten


lilith401's photo
Wed 02/11/09 05:54 AM
I got this in an e-mail...

10- FWB commandments...

I. Thou shalt get out before the sun rises

II. Thou shouldest never ask "can we see each other from now on?"

III. Thou shalt refrain from referring to our
activities as "love making."

IV. Thou shalt not request advanced plans

V. Thou shalt kiss anything except my mouth.

VI. Thou shalt scream my name often

VII. If someone cometh over whilst thou art here, thou art my cousin from out of town.


VIII. Thou shalt not ask me to walk thee to thy car. Don't thou knoweth what it looketh like?


IX. There shall be no "pillow talk."


X. There shall be no cuddling -- ever!


On a regular basis, we break the following rules....
1.
4.
5.
9.
10.

Dan99's photo
Wed 02/11/09 06:01 AM
This cracked me up. Its a British comic picking on a couple in the audience that turned out to be Fk buddies.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YXLbuR9GS0A&feature=PlayList&p=496377F7871721CA&playnext=1&index=2

74Drew's photo
Wed 02/11/09 06:03 AM
how's your schedule look for saturday?:wink:

lilith401's photo
Wed 02/11/09 06:03 AM
I can't view that due to my web browser....frustrated

74Drew's photo
Wed 02/11/09 06:28 AM

I can't view that due to my web browser....frustrated

what's that, your schedule or something else?

lilith401's photo
Wed 02/11/09 06:29 AM

how's your schedule look for saturday?:wink:


What Dan posted...

Sorry, I did not see your post Drew. bigsmile

My schedule for Saturday.... I have my son.

Care to respond to all that you missed when you went to bed the other day? I was really appreciating all your insight.

74Drew's photo
Wed 02/11/09 06:45 AM


Care to respond to all that you missed when you went to bed the other day? I was really appreciating all your insight.


i'll see what i can muster up.

74Drew's photo
Wed 02/11/09 06:57 AM


Yeah sounds like he has moved beyond FWB. Your in the driver seat now. You get to choose where this goes.

First off you need to ask him straight up if he thinks he is getting feeling for you. Remind him that your only in it for FWB. After you remind him and he seems hurt...hes definently moved passed the friends stage.


So now you get to choose what happens. If you dont want anything more then FWB....you need to break it off...even if the sex is good. If you keep it up...hes gonna think he has a chance and maybe you will change. And as stated in a previous post, things wont end nicely.

Ive been there, done that, wasnt fun.


definitely.

i've been in a similar scenario and it really was bad for me.

74Drew's photo
Wed 02/11/09 07:03 AM
Edited by 74Drew on Wed 02/11/09 07:03 AM


Lilith......the next FWB you get make sure he doesnt speak ANY english....preferrably deaf and mute as well.

The whole point to a FWB is to NOT have feelings for that person. If you do....youre screwed!!!noway


I don't engage in this sort of behavior usually. I think it's the friend part that is throwing me off. So next time, if I do this, it needs to be MWB Man with Benefits... no friendship. No talking.

You got a good idea there.


i don't want to be your friend then.
can i be your man?

LOL

lilith401's photo
Wed 02/11/09 07:12 AM
Drew... I think I decided I simply must say something. I cannot let it go. And since I cannot seem to let it go, this implies I have some sort of feelings.

Right?

74Drew's photo
Wed 02/11/09 07:21 AM
i think it was obvious that you had feelings. you had them from before the split. even though you said you pushed them down, they're still there. i think you should say something. have a sit down and clear the air. i wouldn't give him any ultimatums, but i would be thinking that if you tell him your feelings and he backs off then you should cut it off altogether. unless you want him to back off. i think it's a difficult situation and i feel for you.




lilith401's photo
Wed 02/11/09 07:26 AM
Well the funny thing is I have feelings but I'm not really sure what they are. Sort of where he was before.

I'm thinking he might deny he said it, or say he does not remember saying it.... and that would be a stalemate, right?