So the mentality of those who have posted is to let the child learn from its mistakes without teaching them ahead of time that it can be avoided. Instead just mention it is bad and good luck to you kid.

or one can say learn by experiencing on ones own instead of being educated on how to deal with the situation so it will never happen in the first place.

I don't believe this to be true

If one has the power to stop something that is bad then one should try to make it happen.

For example the situation to break up two children bashing their brains out because of a disagreement.

One can actually teach a different alternative instead ahead of time so such a instant doesn't happen in the first place.

Like walk away...

The bible actually teaches not to walk away from violence. It teaches a whole different concept on how to deal with situations that is the opposite of what we should be teaching. Stone children if they don't listen because "God whilst it".


So I can fully understand why the western world is alot more aggressive in many situations because of its teachings. I can understand if you don't see a different alternative then to fight and hit then I can fully understand why violence would be the only choice you know.

With greater powers grows greater responsiblities and it is our responsiblity to make sure to teach a different alternative to lifes lessons to children. A peaceful way even to misundertandings. Does it sound illogical to you? Will it work? Of course it will if you teach it!


There is no evil, there is only misunderstandings that can be corrected if educated. I tire when religous folks say evil when things are not done in the way their scriptures teach them.

so in otherwords, to raise a child without holding their hand is like saying well I told you so and now you suffer the consequences if you don't listen. Instead of trying a different alternative by teaching what would happen if you don't do it a certain way to avoid the uncomfortable. To be an example and rolemodel and give practice to situations so many cuts and bruises are avoided in the end.


That is why there are so many misunderstandings(evil for religious folks) because people don't hold hands when taught lessons.


It is in my opinion important so children can know how to react to situations that doesn't create such scrapes and bad results in the first place.

Teaching and Educating and (Caring) is the key to it all.

So when the child is alone and in a situation they know exactly the best alternative, because they were TRULY educated and not just "MENTIONED" and later told by the teacher "well I told you so".

I do agree we learn from mistakes, well at least most of us do, yet it doesn't answer the question why a god who has greater powers(greater responsiblity) to make sure we children don't do such acts of misunderstandings.

If god does exist who supposingly created life then he can certainly can avoid the creation of nonviolence, aggression, and negative emotions.

So in the end what everyone is saying is

God taught us in the bible on how to be

yet

he doesn't hold our hand in the lessons

because

he told us we have to do it on our own

and

good luck to you kid

instead of

holding our hand and showing us how it can be done

so we can do it right the first time if we are alone in the situation.

Wouldn't you think that would be a better teacher in the end?

I do

No "good" without "evil". Yeah, I get it. What I don't GET is WHY not just "good", and no "evil"???

CORRECT!!!

If people actually did research they would know Obama has made no mention of a plan to make things better. But he is not responsible. Nor is Bush.

You gotta dig deep to find our country's flaws. They all stem from our economic system that's nearly 100 years old!