To cheat or not to cheat that is the question.
I do believe I did mention that those who.cheat have no regrets. They fine it ammusing fun a sport .

I know people who are manic depressive and bipolar some of them can't hold a relationship.their very sexual and will do it behind their partners back .
So yes part had to be mental illness.

Their is no correct answer to answer why people cheat because everyone is different and has their own way expressing themselves and their ideas as so many here has already.

Point is if you can't stay faithful than you don't deserve a relationship .The person who cheats is the only one who can stop .

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I believe i have a answer , My relationship sense 2008 before it ended she has bipolar, manic depressive disorder. She was caught sending naked photos to a guy on Facebook mind you to a stranger older than her
I discovered it I thought her phone was mine. Same color case. I took her to therapy couples therapy. The second time was she lied said she was going to job center never returned apparently she went.back.to her x boyfriend well husband. As stupid idiotic as it sounds love is blind I took her back only to find out a couple years later she decided to take off while I was asleep meet this African American guy who was with FedEx and had woman on the side I filed a missing person report after 24 hours found out.
Apparently she never met h came back from Maryland back to Connecticut. Again as stupid idiotic I was took her back and back to therapy.
A couple years later she did it again went behind my back to her x husband again this time got all messed up. A day after Christmas. I was begged from her brother to get her he on New Hampshire so my brother in-law and I picked her up again. From Middletown CT BB ack toy city.
I finally realized not worth it and it's true one a cheater always a cheater. It's a sicknes that only they can fix only they can change .
Part is the mental illness as well.
Am almost 50 now I have no more time in my life to mess around I hope this teaches some of you this lesson.
A person only good for their word if they are truly worth their word a relationship shouldn't be toyed with or abused yes ladies this works both ways.
This is why people cheat it's a sicknes that only they can get help with just like a person who drinks dose not stop or someone who has a partner rather watch porn not make love to their partner.
Don't blame yourself for their stupidity only be thankful that you where the faithful one . Now I move on don't look back and now am much wiser than before.

Who can I speak to seriously everyday I get bots scams message me I keep blocking reporting and it continues... Some even go as far as sending sex sites am.me come on man
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I understand this is probably a issue for some or all but I feel.its my right to ask a simple question ain't it not? All am asking is is there anyone customer care someone can take care of these issues ?

Love is easy too fine but true love is rare but here's the thing once you find it don't let go because you never get that chance to find another .
Anyway back to the topic as stated I am looking for like others to find true love now if some of these people would stop judging insulting others which again I seen a lot off lately look beon it . Most off us ain't Ken or Barbie dolls and frankly non off us are perfect some think they are .
I believe the question would be to be or not to be or ad I would say it to find love or not too love . Basically looking for someone too be my best friend lover companion all in one someone to.live out your days with to cherish every moment together through thickness and thin but again we can only wish and believe one day we can find that person.

Now ask.yourself this how can one love the other without loving themselves?
There is love and theirs true Love. The difference is true love from the heart soul not from the looks or how much money you have .
The problem is to many take love for granted and mistreat it and don't realize what they have until it's gone..
So i believe that the answers your seeking in front of you..

Hard to say with all the fake profiles and daily blocking reporting hard too tell who is real and who is not.
Basically looking for someone to simple kind don't have too br a Barbie doll someone down too earth..

Just figure I ask I been on all types of sites through the years and through those years I found a few nice people but the rest down right nasty .
Here am looking for the right gal not asking for a Barbie doll just someone I can relate too talk and get to know .
I don't smoke or drink am a home person once in a relationship I stay loyal and am very honest .
I was raised that way was the only boy no brothers just sisters.
But as I try to get to know these people they take a look at my photos say ewww disrespect me don't these people have any feelings ?
Off course wintry not to let this bother me but come on its either their looking for free meals or they want to play head games some of them have something serious wrong to an app at men as we are the devil.
These type ate on dating sites looking for a man am.like ok wth.
Anyways am her like any body else not here to play head games or break any hearts just trying to make as effort to get to know someone someone possative not so negative.
If by god their is anyone out their I sure like to find that person am 46 years old not getting any younger .
I spoke to a few out There from this site again negative behavior or they complain well we live too far that's fine why not friends ? Well am not here for that well as I would say then.why are you here ? See my.point .Well.if any woman out There feels as I do.not me up no 20 year olds am.old enough to.be your father grandfather.

With all the fake profiles on these sites hard to know who is real who is not .
But regardless of that I really think most of us just trying to find someone that fit are own life's.
So I always end up getting the crazy bipolar ones lol.

your not getting the message or understanding the post.
First of all every time I view a females profiles not all but theirs a few its always the same thing the men blame I was hurt then it becomes a trust issue.
Then they say am.not here for sex ok I think we all get that .
But to over do it by showing off a bit more as expected such as breast and minor skirts show off the coche kinda not far that's how you get these men all around you .
I grew up in a family all church people also there was no judging or insults if their was we had the belt or soap on the mouth .
But to get to my topic point being is if a female wants to dress that way so be it but don't expect anything nice all your going to get in return is a bunch of hounds looking for a piece of meat .
Nothing wrong expressing my thoughts in a post I have a right too my amendments.
My spelling is not so good I.have very bad arthritis in.my hands.

I have to admit that reading a lot of women's post amuse me meaning (if your looking for SEX then walk away ) Am like ok what is wrong with this person? First and for most directing that one way ticket staying single for a very long time your scaring the good men away so you need to stop that attitude and understand not all men after SEX.
Second of all here's the main problem if the men asking for sex then probably means that your exposing yourself a bit to much either from the legs to the breast so if you don't want that type of negativity then don't post photos like that.
I very rare check this site out way to many fake profiles but if your truly looking for a good man stop the attitudes and neg photos simple as that .Am a man saying this .

I first met this gal on a site like this but it was my year book aka meetme now this is a true story it can get bad so be prepared.
After talking to this woman for a while I did not know her from Adam and eve all I knew was she was bipolar manic depression she was having a rough time being married and had abusive husband who wanted sex all the time.
He even wanted it while he had his 2 children in.that same room .
Now I decided to take action get this woman into a safe place away from him. Well 9 years past and in those 9 years she had cheated 3 times and caught flirting on social networking sites .
First cheat was she went back to her husband that didn't last long she came back the secon was a black man down in Maryland that never worked and the third back at her abusive husband.
She became very abusive caused me mentally and verbally abuse she was caught talking to her husband by me on the 26 Dec when I question her she said what if I am and her why she said I made up my mind and am.going this was all done behind my back .
So some say she used me for 9 years she kept egging me on after she done this on facebook told all her friends she wanted to stay with her ******* husband same man who abused her 9 years ago .
We took her provided shelter bed food cloths and help I got her on disability state medication and amongst other things .this man convince her to move out so she did as I said behind my back she hurt me bad I can't eat right I lost 5 lbs in one week .what kind of woman do this to a man and a woman to have sex with one jump on another same night?
I went to the court house I just filled the restraining orders against her waiting to drop the off this week .
I also stoped her EBT card back at the state office and reported her to social security .
And told the Dr s in town she moved back to middle town ct.
So as u can see not only am the victim am hurt and shocked .
I just can't understand why women do this they wonder why good men hard to find .

I have to say I been on this site for many years and not yet have I found a woman interested in me or want to get to know me .
Am not looking for a Barbie doll am not judgemental or hate full or do I drink or do drugs am just a simple man who lives day by day .
Am not a religious man or go to church am more as a country boy who lives nature and rather wear sweat pants jeans etc. Not the classy type far from it . So point is Why is it so hard to talk get to know anyone one here? No one talks like they posted there picture profile forgot its even there .
So if anyone it there can sit talk want to get to know me that's fine one thing I must say am not gay! No offense have not anything against them just not who I am .
And looking for someone my age group not interested in very young girls must be closer to my age down to earth .
Thanks for reading this take care all.

How I didnt see a report button on there profile

Can.I ask a simple question?
Why do they allowed to show nude photos in there profiles ? I just dont understand that logic at all .

Just wondering if this site has made any improvement on the scamers issue's.
I have not really been on this site much in fact I kind of forgotten about it.

So I should rate this site for children a lot on here act like children why are some of you offended ?I know what I want in life am sure not going to find it here or any other site .

I truly believe that some people really need to stop take a break and think before they do because your not just hurting yourself your hurting other people around you.

Games are for children teenage years are gone we all getting old for it don't you think?
Some of the women can sit there blame the men for the hurt and abuse they went through but in all reality why are they are these type of sites ? And why are they seeking a man ?So after speaking to a few women I discovered that they do this to find someone to take there pain away they want comfort love attention .
But in reality that's not a healthy lifestyle.
People jump into a relationship hoping to find happiness but they never give themselves time to heal .
Point to this is that before you decide to take that step wake the hell up and make sure this is what you really want before you destroy someone else life.
I had women who say they want me then turn around say they don't and then say they do they get pissy with me about it they get the man all excited about there interest then decides to say am sorry am interested in another .
Time to grow up act like adults and take responsibility for your own actions.
So if your on one of these sites before you decide to contact anyone think about what your doing make sure this is what you want

Going to these sites like opening a crack a jack box you neverknow what you get for a surprise

“Am not asking for pitty or anything like that if the mods and whome else may feel offensive am sorry.
But this is a off topic thing I believe I should have the right to express myself do am doing so.

The point is having someone sit there and they want to know more about me and then turn around sit there judge me for what I believe in or not is very crude.
What does religion have to do with this site? And why must they sit there and say un christian to not go to a church? And expect the person to be shaped to there standards?

It's like being told your to skinny or to big or your to clean or to dirty etc. The point being way to many crude and people with very poor attitudes on these sites they make the site look bad .
Am just disgusted in it I turn around told this person out straight with a firm letter said a true Christian don't sit there and judge others without judging them selfs and then I blocked her.
Am just laying it out to anyone who contacts me if your looking for perfection and want to shape your man then sorry Lady's this is not fantasy am not going to change for no one am happy who I am .
Am one of the most friendly and fun guys around with a good sense of humor.
Asl l I ask is respect and if anyone has a issue with my beliefs or who I am then you don't need to talk to me.

Now that I got it of my chest I feel better .Am here to make a few friends if something happens in the future so be it am in no rush in anything sorry for the long post just disgusted how people treat others.”

I know this has been brought up in many topics but Jesus I really think there a really bad issues with these scammers.
Posing as women or men automatic asking for your email and then once they get get your email all hellbreaks loose .

Am not sure if you people are really aware how much damage this can cause you or some of you even care but maybe after what I have to say may make you more aware of it.

See I been studying scammers for a very long time and I seem to know all the red flags .First is the grammar its very poor and most start and say hello beautiful or hello handsome.
Some even go to the point pretending there from are Gov and military personnel
So you have to be very careful who you speak to .
Most of this you already know well should know but let's get to the email as some already know all your personal information in your email everything goes there from bank accounts to other things .

Now you can have doubts say am full of crap when I say this but once these scammers get your email if there that smart they can get in and steal everything .

Also they will ask for your Cell or local now I put this to the test I used a prepaid phone I question the scammer can you call me they say my phone is broken I can only send pictures and texting this is a signe and once they have your number they will continue to be a really pain in the ***. And yes they can also if smart enough steal information of your phone as well. They can get your mailing address so they can steal your mail and yes this has happened to others you just don't hear about it.
The point is you have to be aware of all details and all signs .So far all I seen on this site is scammers and its getting worse .I only hope these sites can boost the security and privacy to help protect people from it.