“Am not asking for pitty or anything like that if the mods and whome else may feel offensive am sorry.
But this is a off topic thing I believe I should have the right to express myself do am doing so.

The point is having someone sit there and they want to know more about me and then turn around sit there judge me for what I believe in or not is very crude.
What does religion have to do with this site? And why must they sit there and say un christian to not go to a church? And expect the person to be shaped to there standards?

It's like being told your to skinny or to big or your to clean or to dirty etc. The point being way to many crude and people with very poor attitudes on these sites they make the site look bad .
Am just disgusted in it I turn around told this person out straight with a firm letter said a true Christian don't sit there and judge others without judging them selfs and then I blocked her.
Am just laying it out to anyone who contacts me if your looking for perfection and want to shape your man then sorry Lady's this is not fantasy am not going to change for no one am happy who I am .
Am one of the most friendly and fun guys around with a good sense of humor.
Asl l I ask is respect and if anyone has a issue with my beliefs or who I am then you don't need to talk to me.

Now that I got it of my chest I feel better .Am here to make a few friends if something happens in the future so be it am in no rush in anything sorry for the long post just disgusted how people treat others.”

pretty much, I agree.
Opinions are like azzholes - everyones got one.
Some people have lost the art of conversation and feel the need to opine their views to everyone else with the hope to change a view..
Welcome to the forums and have fun.

hmmm ...belong to more than one forum and I have seen this happen time and time again

especially in religious or political threads..

you voice your opinion and get hammered for it
not only does someone attack your stance but
they also attack you as a human being or accuse you of not being intelligent
and then...if this person has been on forum for quite awhile
and is considered one of the gang? well then lots of his hommies
jump on the band wagon and start slamming ya too


this is done for their own twisted sense of amusment

Good on you for standing up for yourself.
You know how you are and what you like.
I say go for it.

Be happy and don't worry about simple minded people who have nothing else better to do

On the positive side at lest you found out about them now not wake up one morning hen pecked

Mike feels like you meet lot of real gals because scammers are very nice and respectful in their msgs and mails (ofcourse until you confront them ). So feel good about it and be happy dude that you are lucky and keep searching cheers

Yeah, it is rude to point out another person's birth defect.



















Oh, wait. You meant that from a Human's perspective. Never mind.

Bitter? Party of one, your table is ready.

Short answer is you have to just write off the people who ask questions to set up their own agenda to step up on a soap box. That happens a lot in certain threads and is probably why I tend to avoid some of them. A good reason to read peoples posts and see how they interact with people at least in forums. Which many times is no different than in private emails.

I like an intellectual conversation as much as the next person and I have had several with people that had very different beliefs than I do. And no it did not often change my core beliefs. And as long as they had a live and let live relationship with me I might even have a dating relationship with them.

But I am LONG past the point in my life where I think you change anyone and if I don't particularly agree with their doctrines I agree with you OP just shut off the "conversion mode" and pass to the next profile.

However I have found you are just wasting your breath even replying to people who don't have the common decency/manners to NOT take the dating scenario and abuse it. Better just to shake it off and if you have to block those that won't give up on converting you.

Just laying it out there on the table..
Wow.. I'm so glad this is not another topic ..of a dude with his penis laying on the table..lol...WHAT!!. like that hasn't happened before..lol..

Yea if this was later at night when the Moderators are dozing I would have wondered myself. lol

Yup..lol.wink.wink

God I love that movie. And that's a fact Jack!

LOL that pic is to funny

Going to these sites like opening a crack a jack box you neverknow what you get for a surprise

Except that this site is the Internet wing of Calmwood.

I found the world of people to be very confusing when I was a child. Everyone always TALKED as though everything were based on logical reasoning, and on the existence of mutually respected rule sets, but absolutely none of their actual behavior towards me, bore that out.

I eventually learned little random things. Such as that regardless of what makes a human into a bully, once they are one, they seek out smaller victims the same way that cats go after mice, and not dogs.

And when I started participating in forums, I learned that there are forum bullies, every bit as mindless, every bit as cliquish, and every bit as vicious as the ones that infested the streets and schoolyards of my youth.

The up side here, is that once you recognize that someone IS a puerile beast, or a psychotic fool, you can ignore them, and they can't do much more than file complaints against your photos or whatever. They wont break into your locker and steal your watch.