Topic: Nice Guys
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Sun 07/03/11 09:25 PM
I am with Krupa on this one. Also...
Some of us nice guys get snatched up p.d.q as well.laugh

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Sun 07/03/11 09:26 PM




I think you're trying too hard to make yourself sound like a nice guy.

Because growing up I always was the nice guy. But apparently if you admit to being a nice guy you get the 3rd degree. Thus I will just start saying I am a jerk. I was never a nice guy so now maybe people will leave me alone. smokin


huh

True nice guys don't need to talk people into believing they're nice. If you have to convince people you are nice, perhaps you're not so nice? Just my opinion.

This is a forum not real life. I don't tell people how I am a nice guy in real life lol. Sorry for talking about it in a nice guy thread. I learned my lesson.


So you're a different person here than you are in real life?

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Sun 07/03/11 09:39 PM





I think you're trying too hard to make yourself sound like a nice guy.

Because growing up I always was the nice guy. But apparently if you admit to being a nice guy you get the 3rd degree. Thus I will just start saying I am a jerk. I was never a nice guy so now maybe people will leave me alone. smokin


huh

True nice guys don't need to talk people into believing they're nice. If you have to convince people you are nice, perhaps you're not so nice? Just my opinion.

This is a forum not real life. I don't tell people how I am a nice guy in real life lol. Sorry for talking about it in a nice guy thread. I learned my lesson.



aww,, I wasnt asking anyone to 'convince' anyone they are nice

I was just asking nice guys to speak up about themself, the way one might ask the christian guys, or the musicians, or the poets, to speak up and identify themself


,,,,,I wish more 'nice' guys had contributed,,but thanx anyway


Well, like singmesweet said...
the nice guys don't have to come here talking about it..
they just are.

I wouldn't want to be with a man who wasn't nice..
A man shows his true character in the way he treats a stranger.

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Sun 07/03/11 09:50 PM


Well, like singmesweet said...
the nice guys don't have to come here talking about it..
they just are.

I wouldn't want to be with a man who wasn't nice..
A man shows his true character in the way he treats a stranger.


Well said. I agree with this.

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Sun 07/03/11 10:01 PM


I wouldn't want to be with a man who wasn't nice..
A man shows his true character in the way he treats a stranger.


Absolutely.

Totage's photo
Sun 07/03/11 10:10 PM

A man shows his true character in the way he treats a stranger.


IDK about that. I keep myself pretty shielded and distanced from strangers.

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Mon 07/04/11 12:24 AM






I think you're trying too hard to make yourself sound like a nice guy.

Because growing up I always was the nice guy. But apparently if you admit to being a nice guy you get the 3rd degree. Thus I will just start saying I am a jerk. I was never a nice guy so now maybe people will leave me alone. smokin


huh

True nice guys don't need to talk people into believing they're nice. If you have to convince people you are nice, perhaps you're not so nice? Just my opinion.

This is a forum not real life. I don't tell people how I am a nice guy in real life lol. Sorry for talking about it in a nice guy thread. I learned my lesson.



aww,, I wasnt asking anyone to 'convince' anyone they are nice

I was just asking nice guys to speak up about themself, the way one might ask the christian guys, or the musicians, or the poets, to speak up and identify themself


,,,,,I wish more 'nice' guys had contributed,,but thanx anyway


Well, like singmesweet said...
the nice guys don't have to come here talking about it..
they just are.

I wouldn't want to be with a man who wasn't nice..
A man shows his true character in the way he treats a stranger.



of course, nice guys dont have to come here

but it would have been nice if they had accepted the INVITATION to do so,,,,

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Mon 07/04/11 12:29 AM





I think you're trying too hard to make yourself sound like a nice guy.

Because growing up I always was the nice guy. But apparently if you admit to being a nice guy you get the 3rd degree. Thus I will just start saying I am a jerk. I was never a nice guy so now maybe people will leave me alone. smokin


huh

True nice guys don't need to talk people into believing they're nice. If you have to convince people you are nice, perhaps you're not so nice? Just my opinion.

This is a forum not real life. I don't tell people how I am a nice guy in real life lol. Sorry for talking about it in a nice guy thread. I learned my lesson.


So you're a different person here than you are in real life?

I say thing here that I don't say in real life. Its not necessarily obvious because its only a forum. Like when you are being sarcastic. Do you have to say that you are in real life? No but sometimes you do on forums. Saying different things and being different isn't the same. Are you always so rude in real life? Can people not give an on topic anecdote without you badgering them for everything they say?

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Mon 07/04/11 01:47 AM
blah blah blah. I don't know about all this jibber-jabber, but I do know one thing...

Chazster, Krupa and Totage have all been nice to me, even when I am being crappy.

I'll vouch for them.

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Mon 07/04/11 01:55 AM
Edited by Up2Us on Mon 07/04/11 02:00 AM
I've noticed a number of women are attracted to bad boys.
They know their bad, and eventually get burned.
Many women become their emotional, mental, and physical puppets.
Eventually the strings are cut, and their left crying the blues.


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Mon 07/04/11 02:11 AM

I've noticed a number of women are attracted to bad boys.
They know their bad, and eventually get burned.
Many women become their emotional, mental, and physical puppets.
Eventually the strings are cut, and their left crying the blues.




too true my dear. Many of them believe that 'the love of a good woman will change them'. People don't change unless they want too. Love isn't gonna change a bad boy without a restraining order and a can of Raid.

Totage's photo
Mon 07/04/11 02:19 AM


I've noticed a number of women are attracted to bad boys.
They know their bad, and eventually get burned.
Many women become their emotional, mental, and physical puppets.
Eventually the strings are cut, and their left crying the blues.




too true my dear. Many of them believe that 'the love of a good woman will change them'. People don't change unless they want too. Love isn't gonna change a bad boy without a restraining order and a can of Raid.


And if that doesn't say I love, I don't know what does.

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Mon 07/04/11 02:24 AM
Edited by Up2Us on Mon 07/04/11 02:31 AM


I've noticed a number of women are attracted to bad boys.
They know their bad, and eventually get burned.
Many women become their emotional, mental, and physical puppets.
Eventually the strings are cut, and their left crying the blues.




too true my dear. Many of them believe that 'the love of a good woman will change them'. People don't change unless they want too. Love isn't gonna change a bad boy without a restraining order and a can of Raid.

That doesn't change them.... they only find a more easy, and willing victims. Although, there are also a number of bad girls....laugh
There are also a lot of women with emotional baggage, because of bad boys. When they meet a nice guy they don't know how to treat him.
Nice guys normally do finish last either way.....smokin

Shayna1978's photo
Mon 07/04/11 02:30 AM



I've noticed a number of women are attracted to bad boys.
They know their bad, and eventually get burned.
Many women become their emotional, mental, and physical puppets.
Eventually the strings are cut, and their left crying the blues.




too true my dear. Many of them believe that 'the love of a good woman will change them'. People don't change unless they want too. Love isn't gonna change a bad boy without a restraining order and a can of Raid.

That doesn't change them.... they only find more easy, and willing victims. Although, there are also a number of bad girls....laugh
There are also a lot of women with emotional baggage, because of bad boys. When they meet a nice guy they don't know how to treat him.
Nice guys normally do finish last either way.....smokin



This is an equal opportunity issue. Nice guys are too busy looking for hot girls instead of utilizing the supply of non-insanity inducing women out there.

Nice girls are stuck hoping Bad boys will wise up.

vicious circle of stupid

Jess642's photo
Mon 07/04/11 02:33 AM

blah blah blah. I don't know about all this jibber-jabber, but I do know one thing...

Chazster, Krupa and Totage have all been nice to me, even when I am being crappy.

I'll vouch for them.


I'll gladly second that motion...have spoken to Krups realtime by phone...Luis, (Romeo), also...and a few others....and Totage has been a gentleman for the past 3 years, so he gets my nod...and Chaz...he rocks...

all genuine REAL guys...I can't stand the word nice...too insipid for me.

Totage's photo
Mon 07/04/11 02:40 AM
You ladies are f**kin awesome. flowers

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Mon 07/04/11 02:46 AM
Edited by Up2Us on Mon 07/04/11 03:07 AM




I've noticed a number of women are attracted to bad boys.
They know their bad, and eventually get burned.
Many women become their emotional, mental, and physical puppets.
Eventually the strings are cut, and their left crying the blues.




too true my dear. Many of them believe that 'the love of a good woman will change them'. People don't change unless they want too. Love isn't gonna change a bad boy without a restraining order and a can of Raid.

That doesn't change them.... they only find more easy, and willing victims. Although, there are also a number of bad girls....laugh
There are also a lot of women with emotional baggage, because of bad boys. When they meet a nice guy they don't know how to treat him.
Nice guys normally do finish last either way.....smokin



This is an equal opportunity issue. Nice guys are too busy looking for hot girls instead of utilizing the supply of non-insanity inducing women out there.

Nice girls are stuck hoping Bad boys will wise up.

vicious circle of stupid
The majority of non-insanity girls,and hot girls aren't interested in generally nice guys. They want the bad boys.... Hot girls normally just go find another bad boy without all the tears, or drama. Nice guys are left picking of the pieces of broken hearts...flowerforyou

Here are two songs dedicated to Bad Boys
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ef9xsVdXTas

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DwBirf4BWew

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Mon 07/04/11 05:43 AM


Well, like singmesweet said...
the nice guys don't have to come here talking about it..
they just are.

I wouldn't want to be with a man who wasn't nice..
A man shows his true character in the way he treats a stranger.


I don't agree. My family, mask their true character, when talking to strangers.

When the doors are closed, you get to see their really vile side.

You'd be fooled into thinking they were nice people.

Me? I treat every stranger differently. I do mask my true emotions most of the time. (runs in the family) :)

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Mon 07/04/11 08:02 AM






I think you're trying too hard to make yourself sound like a nice guy.

Because growing up I always was the nice guy. But apparently if you admit to being a nice guy you get the 3rd degree. Thus I will just start saying I am a jerk. I was never a nice guy so now maybe people will leave me alone. smokin


huh

True nice guys don't need to talk people into believing they're nice. If you have to convince people you are nice, perhaps you're not so nice? Just my opinion.

This is a forum not real life. I don't tell people how I am a nice guy in real life lol. Sorry for talking about it in a nice guy thread. I learned my lesson.


So you're a different person here than you are in real life?

I say thing here that I don't say in real life. Its not necessarily obvious because its only a forum. Like when you are being sarcastic. Do you have to say that you are in real life? No but sometimes you do on forums. Saying different things and being different isn't the same. Are you always so rude in real life? Can people not give an on topic anecdote without you badgering them for everything they say?


Anything I say here I would say in real life as well. I don't see the point in being different here.

Sorry you didn't like me giving my opinion on what you said here in a public forum. I don't know you other than what you write here, so all I can do is have an opinion on that.

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Mon 07/04/11 09:29 AM
I say things here that I say in real life ... except I might not say them EXACTLY like I'd say them in real life. Oh wait, have I called anyone a dumbazz yet? tongue2