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In my experience the guys that claim to be "nice guys" were the most abusive I have ever met. Now when a guy keeps on insisting he is a nice guy; I wonder what he is really hiding. I have found this to be true lots of times, although I won't say all. I was once married to an alcoholic who died of it. I went to al-anon and there I learned how NOT to be treated like a doormat. I'll be forever grateful because people who aren't treated like one usually say, "So stop being one." but they never tell you how. I've made a lot of changes in my life and I'm much happier now. I've been holding out for five years - and I'll KEEP waiting until I find someone who not only accepts me for who I am, but treats me with respect. But you know what? It's STILL not easy being a nice person in this world. |
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In my experience the guys that claim to be "nice guys" were the most abusive I have ever met. Now when a guy keeps on insisting he is a nice guy; I wonder what he is really hiding. I have found this to be true lots of times, although I won't say all. I was once married to an alcoholic who died of it. I went to al-anon and there I learned how NOT to be treated like a doormat. I'll be forever grateful because people who aren't treated like one usually say, "So stop being one." but they never tell you how. I've made a lot of changes in my life and I'm much happier now. I've been holding out for five years - and I'll KEEP waiting until I find someone who not only accepts me for who I am, but treats me with respect. But you know what? It's STILL not easy being a nice person in this world. Wow, it seems we have something in common. My ex was an alcoholic and proclaimed he was a nice guy. I beleived it until he hit me from behind. My experience with al-anon was not good. I sat with women who cried about how crummy their lives were with their partners. I had decided then and there that the relationship was done but was waiting for him to move out. However; when he hit me, the police sealed the deal for me. |
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In my experience the guys that claim to be "nice guys" were the most abusive I have ever met. Now when a guy keeps on insisting he is a nice guy; I wonder what he is really hiding. I have found this to be true lots of times, although I won't say all. I was once married to an alcoholic who died of it. I went to al-anon and there I learned how NOT to be treated like a doormat. I'll be forever grateful because people who aren't treated like one usually say, "So stop being one." but they never tell you how. I've made a lot of changes in my life and I'm much happier now. I've been holding out for five years - and I'll KEEP waiting until I find someone who not only accepts me for who I am, but treats me with respect. But you know what? It's STILL not easy being a nice person in this world. Wow, it seems we have something in common. My ex was an alcoholic and proclaimed he was a nice guy. I beleived it until he hit me from behind. My experience with al-anon was not good. I sat with women who cried about how crummy their lives were with their partners. I had decided then and there that the relationship was done but was waiting for him to move out. However; when he hit me, the police sealed the deal for me. So all of us nice guys are all fake I guess. |
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IM NOT A NICE GUY,,,I'M A BAS AZZZ DUDE,,,
I'm a slayer of poor ladies who they call DA'PLAYER. I ain't your bestfriend, I'm INTO MY TREND,, ITS ALL ABOUT ME--------------------BA-BY! Just throw me your heart and I'll rip it apart, I ain't got no-class, you can kiss-my-azzzz SO HOW DO YOU LIKE ME NOW JUST OPEN YOUR MOUTH AND SAY "WOW" ok,,that was my best bad boy,,, see words can address, and words can undress. I think I've been on here to long, and everyone gets tird of my same old song. But really,,I feel sorry for that, because this is me,and I CAN'T change THAT. If you people don't know ME by now,,you never will. You have five years of me talking this same. My life is this, and this is me, its not a game. its just a SHAME,,, I TALK who I really am,,no act, no play,,everyday. yet you don't like this man I am..here today. Other-wise,I would be with you, in a loving, caring way... |
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In my experience the guys that claim to be "nice guys" were the most abusive I have ever met. Now when a guy keeps on insisting he is a nice guy; I wonder what he is really hiding. I have found this to be true lots of times, although I won't say all. I was once married to an alcoholic who died of it. I went to al-anon and there I learned how NOT to be treated like a doormat. I'll be forever grateful because people who aren't treated like one usually say, "So stop being one." but they never tell you how. I've made a lot of changes in my life and I'm much happier now. I've been holding out for five years - and I'll KEEP waiting until I find someone who not only accepts me for who I am, but treats me with respect. But you know what? It's STILL not easy being a nice person in this world. Wow, it seems we have something in common. My ex was an alcoholic and proclaimed he was a nice guy. I beleived it until he hit me from behind. My experience with al-anon was not good. I sat with women who cried about how crummy their lives were with their partners. I had decided then and there that the relationship was done but was waiting for him to move out. However; when he hit me, the police sealed the deal for me. Mine used to disappear for days, then walk back in and act as if nothing happened. I got tired of supporting him, tired of him following me around, trying to start an argument, tired of his crap in general and made him leave. He stayed away for 3 days and when he came back, I was sitting on the front steps with a can of lighter fluid - which I was squirting on the box of his clothes on the lawn. He must have gotten the idea because he didn't try to return after that. |
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IM NOT A NICE GUY,,,I'M A BAS AZZZ DUDE,,, I'm a slayer of poor ladies who they call DA'PLAYER. I ain't your bestfriend, I'm INTO MY TREND,, ITS ALL ABOUT ME--------------------BA-BY! Just throw me your heart and I'll rip it apart, I ain't got no-class, you can kiss-my-azzzz SO HOW DO YOU LIKE ME NOW JUST OPEN YOUR MOUTH AND SAY "WOW" ok,,that was my best bad boy,,, see words can address, and words can undress. I think I've been on here to long, and everyone gets tird of my same old song. But really,,I feel sorry for that, because this is me,and I CAN'T change THAT. If you people don't know ME by now,,you never will. You have five years of me talking this same. My life is this, and this is me, its not a game. its just a SHAME,,, I TALK who I really am,,no act, no play,,everyday. yet you don't like this man I am..here today. Other-wise,I would be with you, in a loving, caring way... Honestly Terry, I don't know why someone hasn't tried to sink their claws into you yet. I think some of these ladies need to open their eyes, and really read what you type. No offense ladies, just that it boggles my mind that he can pour his heart out again and again without having someone melt for him. |
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COME TO THE BAD BOY DARKSIDE......... 
I don't know.... I'm thinking of becoming a bad boy. I'm a little tired of being constantly dogged out..... 
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Honestly Terry, I don't know why someone hasn't tried to sink their claws into you yet. I think some of these ladies need to open their eyes, and really read what you type. No offense ladies, just that it boggles my mind that he can pour his heart out again and again without having someone melt for him. I have to agree, Terry, is honestly a great guy....... 
Then again, seems like most ladies want the bad boys....
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women want a legit Maurice Boucher kind of man
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Edited by
Up2Us
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Fri 07/08/11 07:48 AM
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women want a legit Maurice Boucher kind of man
Do you mean: Maurice "Mom" Boucher - murderer, reputed drug trafficker, and outlaw biker—the former President of the Hells Angels' Oh my... 
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Then again, seems like most ladies want the bad boys....
Guys seem to say this a lot, but I don't know many women who actually go for the bad boys. |
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Really?
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No, I do not know many women who actually go for bad boys. Maybe people have different definitions of bad boys?
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Well, there is the classic definition, which dates back to the 1950s: motorcycles and tattoos.
Just to use that as an example, I have read a lot more women's profiles that are looking for a guy who rides motorcycles or has tattoos than profiles that aren't. It's kind of discouraging since I'm into neither. When it comes to tattoos on a women, they can either be a turn-on or a turn off. It depends on location, artwork, meaning, etc. If they have spectacular artwork, I can appreciate that, but I'm also not going to run right out and inject my skin with ink. It's not who I am. |
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Then again, seems like most ladies want the bad boys....
Guys seem to say this a lot, but I don't know many women who actually go for the bad boys. That may be because "girls" seem to go for bad boys. You know as in pre college graduation. Teen- early 20s. That is typically the dating around stage for girls. |
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Well, there is the classic definition, which dates back to the 1950s: motorcycles and tattoos. Just to use that as an example, I have read a lot more women's profiles that are looking for a guy who rides motorcycles or has tattoos than profiles that aren't. It's kind of discouraging since I'm into neither. When it comes to tattoos on a women, they can either be a turn-on or a turn off. It depends on location, artwork, meaning, etc. If they have spectacular artwork, I can appreciate that, but I'm also not going to run right out and inject my skin with ink. It's not who I am. Ah, well that explains some of it, I guess. And by your logic, I am into bad boys, since I absolutely find tattoos attractive. But, that also means you also assume any guy with a tattoo is a "bad boy." |
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Well, there is the classic definition, which dates back to the 1950s: motorcycles and tattoos. Just to use that as an example, I have read a lot more women's profiles that are looking for a guy who rides motorcycles or has tattoos than profiles that aren't. It's kind of discouraging since I'm into neither. When it comes to tattoos on a women, they can either be a turn-on or a turn off. It depends on location, artwork, meaning, etc. If they have spectacular artwork, I can appreciate that, but I'm also not going to run right out and inject my skin with ink. It's not who I am. Ah, well that explains some of it, I guess. And by your logic, I am into bad boys, since I absolutely find tattoos attractive. But, that also means you also assume any guy with a tattoo is a "bad boy." Maybe in the 50s if you had a tattoo you are a bad boy but in todays society lots of people have tattoos. I don't think its a sign of being bad or not. Look at my picture. Does my gf look like a bad girl? She has a softball sized butterfly tattoo that she designed herself on the top of her back near her neck. |
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Edited by
2KidsMom
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JMO.....
I have tats. I love ink..in fact just got a few more lastweek..working on sleeves. I smoke ciggs
I curse 
I drink 
spit,belch,fight..ha ha..but not all at once... I think everybody is an azzhole..until proven otherwise. I like eating bugs 
I love my home and my 2 boys. Just be yourself..Be true to yourself   
I think people should learn to love from the inside out. |
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JMO..... I have tats. I love ink..in fact just got a few more lastweek..working on sleeves. I smoke ciggs
I curse
I drink
spit,belch,fight..ha ha..but not all at once... I think everybody is an azzhole..until proven otherwise. I like eating bugs
I love my home and my 2 boys. Just be yourself..Be true to yourself
Yes but you are probably a bad girl. Or at least an evil clown. I mean look at those fire red eyes. I feel they are after my soul. 
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JMO..... I have tats. I love ink..in fact just got a few more lastweek..working on sleeves. I smoke ciggs
I curse
I drink
spit,belch,fight..ha ha..but not all at once... I think everybody is an azzhole..until proven otherwise. I like eating bugs
I love my home and my 2 boys. Just be yourself..Be true to yourself
I think people should learn to love from the inside out. I completely agree 
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