I'm not saying that ever jerk is getting action but you tell me who gets more women the idiots from the Jersey Shore or Jared from subway?

Well, I can give you some examples IRL. My ex is a pretty nice guy and he's pretty popular because he respects women and doesn't expect them to serve him.

My son is 30 and lives with his longtime gf. They both work; he's a welder and she's a student nurse. He has changed diapers and fed the babies from day one; he knows how to clean up after himself, he's a pretty fair cook and can even sew on a button or two when needed. His momma taught him to be self-sufficient. And since they have two kids, I imagine he's gotten laid at one time or another.

I think nice guys are interesting. I don't want someone who lives off of me, cheats on me, lays his hands on me or treats me like dirt. What self-respecting woman would? Actually, I was married to one of those when I was younger and I gave him the boot. Good riddance.

They don't exist aside from to manipulate the system in their favor and eventually disappoint you with their lack of manliness.

well, perhaps its something to do with having a goal of 'getting laid'

It comes down to this. You always hear women talking about how they need to meet a nice guy when in fact the world is full of them.

In this forum alone all the girls are saying how they love nice guys while all the guys are saying hey I'm a nice guy.

Women don't want a nice guy. They want a guy that will put up with there sh*it. To listen to them go on about nothing. We are expected to jump through hoops. You take a good man as a right until he either decides you are not worth the effort and becomes a jerk or you cheat on him with a jerk because he offers you something different.

in three pages, I only noticed MAYBE two or three posts with any guy claiming to be 'nice'


I am aware nice guys are out there, or I would not have asked that they come forward in this thread

its disturbing to see how few of the posts are actually 'nice' guys posting as opposed to people posting about how they are no 'nice' guys or how women are responsible

Let's see:

Two of the guys who said they're nice are 30, the age of my son.
One is 20.
The last one is taken.

So far I've met two nice guys from my state that live within a reasonable distance and I'm chatting with them both. I plan to meet them both in the future. Right now, I'm just looking for friends to hang out with, as I stated in my profile.

I hope more nice guys will post here.

I would think I was a nice guy. I mean how many guys would turn down sex from their ex just because they like a girl who they are not even dating yet but thinks he would be betraying her if he slept with his ex. Hmmm. Sounds like a nice guy to me XD.

There he is ladies now go get him!!!!!

I have a gf. lol That was a past event I was referring to and fyi I didn't get that girl that I didn't sleep with my ex for.

My response to this topic is already posted in another thread.

I am not a nice guy.

I am honourable, but that doesn't make me nice.

I don't play nice

http://youtu.be/7vmknnXoOJk

watch from the 1:40 mark until about 2:10

thats the problem,

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Yeah, I think that statement is silly too. If a guy is overly nice; he can be a doormat, if he is a jerk; no intelligent woman wants that extreme either. Guys need to find that balance and of course that depends on the woman they date. I dated a nice guy and yes he was whiny, insecure, jealous, smothering, and this drove me crazy. There is such a thing as too much of a good thing for me. I am extremely independent and I personally can't stand a guy that is attached to my hip which is usually a "nice" guy. When I believed in dating, I just wanted a guy to treat me with respect without having to kiss my butt to proclaim he is a nice guy. JMO

"I thought you were a nice guy."

"I am a nice guy, just a different kind of nice guy."

A lot of nice guys/gals get treated badly and become jaded. This makes those people not want to be nice anymore if all that awaits them is scorn and heartache. Jmo.

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Well, I'm a nice guy: (My story)

I wanted to meet this one nice young lady from Vegas.
She use to be a singer & in a group.
Was married at one time, but it didn't work out.
He developed issues later in their relationship, and they separated.
She's highly intelligent, which I really find attractive.
She is also gorgeous.....
I would wait a life time for her.
I would honor her, be naturally caring,
patient, and give my heart freely & openly.
She just isn't interested in me.

There is a perception in many places that "nice guy" equates to "doormat." No one ever admits to looking for a doormat, even when they really are (and lots of them really are). So a site for them might be a bit of a stretch, if no one wants to admit to being one and no one wants to admit to looking for one. It would be like starting a dating site for terrorists.