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Topic: Why is it so hard for a older women
BlkmatureMan57's photo
Mon 08/26/13 08:36 PM
Will marry a woman 10 older than me before I marry a sweetie 10year younger than me.
Anyway after 50 age don't matter to much anymore.Yall both be kinda sorta ole.

Sharris's photo
Mon 08/26/13 09:22 PM
Edited by Sharris on Mon 08/26/13 09:30 PM

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Tue 08/27/13 02:14 AM
Young man wants older lady in little rock area

vivian2981's photo
Tue 08/27/13 04:30 AM

Finding love is like having a older car.You got to take good care of the car and he or she will just keep running better and better.Now would you trade or get rid of a very nice running car for a bigger or better car?No way not after I done put all I have in it and she just keep getting me where I want to go.I know what I have already.
Some people just wants to upgrade to bigger and better thangs.



Welcome to Mingle...flowerforyou I like the way you think..and the way you explain things.

navygirl's photo
Tue 08/27/13 06:51 AM



Got news for you ladies. You hit a certain age and its all over.


Yep, this is my thought too. :thumbsup:


What 90+?? I think attitude is more important than age.

I know some at 80+ can still enjoy a good date.

So to me it is a personal choice & attitude.

Guarantee there are 60+ that can still curl a guys toes, IF they want to. THANK GOD for them.

blushing blushing bigsmile :banana: flowers surprised :thumbsup:


Well; I am speaking just for myself not the other ladies. After 50; my relationship potential did end for me and that is just the way it is. Can't change anything so I accept it as gracefully as I can.

JohnDavidDavid's photo
Tue 08/27/13 10:40 AM
To me, age is immaterial – hers or mine. However, mental, physical and personal condition is all important.

When people reach "middle age" many let themselves go to pot (literally), curtail strenuous or "dangerous" activities (such as canoeing), and take on geriatric interests and characteristics. Focus often shifts away from active lifestyle to emphasize leisure / relaxation and vicarious activities (watching others) or entertainment.

Pets often become the center of life (and perhaps pseudo children). Health issues (often self-imposed presently or historically) become a major concern. Learning new things is often regarded as distasteful. Unfortunate baggage from past relationships or circumstances can intrude into present or future relationships.

Of course, younger people often exhibit similar characteristics, but they seem to amplify with age.

vivian2981's photo
Tue 08/27/13 12:55 PM

To me, age is immaterial – hers or mine. However, mental, physical and personal condition is all important.

When people reach "middle age" many let themselves go to pot (literally), curtail strenuous or "dangerous" activities (such as canoeing), and take on geriatric interests and characteristics. Focus often shifts away from active lifestyle to emphasize leisure / relaxation and vicarious activities (watching others) or entertainment.

Pets often become the center of life (and perhaps pseudo children). Health issues (often self-imposed presently or historically) become a major concern. Learning new things is often regarded as distasteful. Unfortunate baggage from past relationships or circumstances can intrude into present or future relationships.

Of course, younger people often exhibit similar characteristics, but they seem to amplify with age.



sounds like an oxymoron to me, especially since you said age was immaterial..Love the way younger people almost always have preconceived ideas. But Older people do also..they know one or two people that fits the bill they have in their minds, so think all of them do.

robertrj34's photo
Tue 08/27/13 01:10 PM
Hi my name is Robert I'm 58 yrs old and still love dating women my age,sure it would be nice to have a young girl by your side but its like dating your daughter.

Toodygirl5's photo
Tue 08/27/13 02:13 PM
It is not that hard, for Older women.bigsmile

JohnDavidDavid's photo
Tue 08/27/13 03:27 PM
Edited by JohnDavidDavid on Tue 08/27/13 03:31 PM
sounds like an oxymoron to me, especially since you said age was immaterial..Love the way younger people almost always have preconceived ideas. But Older people do also..they know one or two people that fits the bill they have in their minds, so think all of them do.


Yes, humans tend to have preconceived ideas.

Notice that my statement "age is immaterial" is immediately followed by "However, mental, physical and personal condition is all important."

Thus; age is set apart from mental, physical and personal characteristics.

Yes, some people of either gender avoid fitting the age stereotype – but not many from what I observe.

vivian2981's photo
Tue 08/27/13 05:06 PM

sounds like an oxymoron to me, especially since you said age was immaterial..Love the way younger people almost always have preconceived ideas. But Older people do also..they know one or two people that fits the bill they have in their minds, so think all of them do.


Yes, humans tend to have preconceived ideas.

Notice that my statement "age is immaterial" is immediately followed by "However, mental, physical and personal condition is all important."

Thus; age is set apart from mental, physical and personal characteristics.

Yes, some people of either gender avoid fitting the age stereotype – but not many from what I observe.



I noticed that..but however, when one ages, things change for us all..even if it's from being a teenager to an adult..30 to 40..when you reach a certain age, you expect to slow down a bit..but it's not always from letting oneself 'go'. Just because a person doen't want to spend their time bungie jumping, ( altho I know older people who still do that) doesn't mean they are ready for the Rest Home. Ever heard the expression...stop and smell the roses?

dcastelmissy's photo
Wed 08/28/13 09:11 AM
You must also consider that there are star athletes who have fallen over dead from myocardial infarctions whom you would have never dreamed would have a chance of dying. So although it is true that older people are at higher risk of leading a sedentary life, it's also possible for a young person to have a stroke at 30. You just never know, so why just a book by it's cover, after all the whole story is on the inside, not the outside. And that is what keeps the reader interested.

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Wed 08/28/13 09:35 AM

to find LOVE?


I'm thinkin maybe you got dumped.......................................................by an older woman!:tongue:




laugh

BlkmatureMan57's photo
Wed 08/28/13 10:25 AM


Finding love is like having a older car.You got to take good care of the car and he or she will just keep running better and better.Now would you trade or get rid of a very nice running car for a bigger or better car?No way not after I done put all I have in it and she just keep getting me where I want to go.I know what I have already.
Some people just wants to upgrade to bigger and better thangs.



Welcome to Mingle...flowerforyou I like the way you think..and the way you explain things.


If you only knew smiling.

Lulu347's photo
Sat 08/31/13 06:35 AM
Confidence is key. I don't look my age at all; a genetic blessing AND yet an attitude adaptation. Think young at heart and it shines through. Everyone is attracted to that. Even when I was much younger, women my age looked and behaved a lot older bc of their lousy attitude or misconceptions.

sparkyae5's photo
Sat 08/31/13 09:45 AM
amen.....the woman my age are so negative in there profiles.example the do not want a guy like this or that. what i hear is a victim... its so easy to see others stuff and not our stuff...and even harder to take a real look at it. to really see that person in front of you,,you have clean the attic get resolved and removed all the hurts,fights, etc out from the past and keep all negative stuff you plan to in the future out... and you will find it hard to have something to to say. every woman was born with a beautiful child inside,for most the child is wounded and needs to be healed. every thing i have said goes for the guys also.we have our share of stuff in the attic. whats so sad is most will not look at there part because its part of who they are and facing the unknown has risks. all feelings come from the child in us..... be good to that child!:smile:

woodyweave's photo
Tue 09/03/13 10:36 AM
:wink: I have tried the younger woman twice now. Both were 13 years younger, and both failed miserably! Ladies my age are the way to go for sure! I am shy and do not put myself out there because of fear of rejection mainly. Ladies do not give up on us 55+ men. I know I understand commitment and monogamy. Say hi and at least there will be a conversation to start with. No one can know another person very quick. We are all on our best behavior at first. Thanks for your time!

woodyweave's photo
Tue 09/03/13 10:37 AM
laugh I like the way you think!

woodyweave's photo
Tue 09/03/13 10:39 AM
:smile: I am retired from the Navy and would love to know you better. I would imagine you are more popular than you think! Fair seas and following winds!

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Wed 09/04/13 06:42 PM

Q: Why is it so hard for a older women....





A: It's not usually hard. Most of the time, he can't even get it up.




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