good for you if it happens. If you have this baby their wont be much time for fraternizing with the fraulines......

And that too...

and thats ok ... ill have my hands FULL.. i ALMOST am my three little brothers father as well ... i have a head start... 2 and 5 in the morning is fine ill eat with the baby..

i dont want this kid for the cute thing.. i just want this baby to have the best life it can

are you taking them to Berlin as well?

my brother alec is going to SDSU next year so hes fine BUt the twins adam and avery are only 14 and they want to go so im going to take rights from my mother so they can go... ill get more money for that too.. sounds evil i know but ill be able to help them with school too.. and base's off our shores has schools that meet american standerds (which are not the best) and my mom can hit her glass d1ck without worrying anymore

ya i grew up in a crack house ...who would have known

well maybe my spelling gives it away

sorry to hear that. I wish you the best!

no need to be sorry lol.. you did nothing wrong to me.. im just in a bad mood tonight..

but thank you

sorry for changing the topic guys .. im feeling bad for myself now lol SORRY

Ugh, tell me about it. I'm in the Bay Area and boy oh boy - not always easy.



I think that's kind of pessimistic. Everyone has at least a few things that they consider perfect in a mate. That could be 3 qualities, or 33 qualities. Different for everyone. And if you want to, you'll find someone who meets all of the ones you have eventually. Someday. Maybe not by the time you're 25, but if you put in the effort and look in the right places, you will. And the person or people that you could be perfect for, will find you, provided they put in that effort. That doesn't guarantee that you'll both match up as each others' "perfect" though. That's what takes a little more work, but eventually, it CAN happen.

Prncs also made a good point - when you meet someone that just gets you, and you click with, they don't necessarily have to be your perfect. You overlook things that you wouldn't with someone who maybe you didn't click with as quickly.

It's me, I know it's me...but refuse to change because I am currently happy with me. At such time that I become unhappy with me, well, I guess I will change.

i absolutely think we do.

i don't think we should settle, or lower our standards, but if we are stuck on that one particular type of individual, what attributes they possess, what physical qualities they have, we may not even notice the one who differs who may have been the perfect mate.

i've always tried to rely on chemistry and rapport rather than some pre-determined ideal i had set in my mind.

For me, distance has been a factor, although not necessarily one of the biggest.

The "locals" on the site don't participate in the forums; and, from what I've been able to determine, they don't reply to e-mails. The people who do talk to me here are all very very far away.

On the rare occasions when I do hear from a local, it's always a lurker who wants to argue about something or other in my profile.

As for criteria/expectations, I'd guess that's a strictly individual issue. Mine are what they are because anything outside of them isn't going to work for me. If that makes them "too high," then so be it, but "lower" is going to be a complete waste of time for everyone involved, so there you go.

As for "me or them," all I can tell you is I've never made it my life's ambition to turn anyone into a goat.

It's me. I don't go out and seek a relationship. I just wait for people to come to me. I don't want to chase or play games or anything, I just want her to come to me.

Very good question. I would have to say it's me at this point in my life. I felt lonely after my divorce, missing that togetherness, and company of a woman. I cant really say I set any standards for someone I meet. I was just happy someone showed interest in me (the good ole rebound dating). Now that I've had time to think about it I'm really not looking for anything special. I'm really liking the "me time" and my time with my girls. For about 15 years I was doing things for everyone else, ok not totally for everyone else, but I put my self on the back burner. So I really dont know if I have a certain set of standards I'm looking for, when someone comes around hopefully it will hit me like a ton of bricks, and hopefully I will be ready for it and wont miss it.

I totally agree. But then again I know why I am single and it is taking all that I have to work on that.

Good to see you (((Joy)))