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Edited by
IndnPrncs
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Thu 06/04/09 09:46 PM
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Do you ever wonder why it's so hard to meet someone you'd like to date? Of course you do we all do.. Do you think it's distance? I used to, I don't anymore... Do we set our criteria/expectations to high?
Anyone mentions nice guys/girls as a reason gets shot by the firing squad...  
Oh and let's concentrate on the POSITIVE not the "women suck or men suck" b/c that's bullsh*t! |
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I sometimes think it is neither "you or them" but rather this cyberspace format. People forget what the real world is about.
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Its them.....
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Edited by
misstina2
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Thu 06/04/09 09:54 PM
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most of the local people I meet
 I don't have any interest in dating I prefer to get to know someone on a friendship level first I have found someone I have interest in and of course distance is involved but that won't stop me
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I date outside of the internet as well and well the same results...
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Its them.....
Good for you Lee
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Edited by
silly
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Thu 06/04/09 09:59 PM
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Do you ever wonder why it's so hard to meet someone you'd like to date? Of course you do we all do.. Do you think it's distance? I used to, I don't anymore... Do we set our criteria/expectations to high? Anyone mentions nice guys/girls as a reason gets shot by the firing squad...
Oh and let's concentrate on the POSITIVE not the "women suck or men suck" b/c that's bullsh*t! is it to high to want what u want? I don't think so,y settle for less.
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joy...don't get me started
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joy...don't get me started Sorry hun..
Silly I don't think it's wrong at all.. I think we're all entitled to want what we want.. I just often wonder if some of what we want is unreachable and expecting too much from another person... I know that I have expectations and sometimes just a word one word will turn me off and I high tail it outta there... |
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I guess everybody has some sort of quirks or defects. The question then becomes can you live with them? Or do you keep searching?
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I think that most of the time when I do meet men in my area....we dont really know each other well. No mind melding. Just a physical attraction.......and that most of the time its in a bar and he is probably plastered!!
  
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I get phone numbers from guys.......and they say....Are you going to call me? are you going to call me??? call me ok??? ok?
I end up throwing their numbers out....I dont know why..... |
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I get phone numbers from guys.......and they say....Are you going to call me? are you going to call me??? call me ok??? ok? I end up throwing their numbers out....I dont know why..... I always wondered why you never called!!! 
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I hear you Gyps.. Even online, the first is physical attraction, then mental then you talk and see if you have things in common... An dennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn???
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Do you ever wonder why it's so hard to meet someone you'd like to date? Of course you do we all do.. Do you think it's distance? I used to, I don't anymore... Do we set our criteria/expectations to high? Anyone mentions nice guys/girls as a reason gets shot by the firing squad...
Oh and let's concentrate on the POSITIVE not the "women suck or men suck" b/c that's bullsh*t! hey prncs - ya remember that post i made about 3 4 days ago? you were the only one nice enough to reply? well i realize now it is my fault i cant meet anyone like me --- because thru all of the hard terrible relationships (which were prob half my fault too) that I have created this perfect person i want people to be that i drive them and myself crazy trying to make it work |
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Because unfortunately, I have standards.
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I get phone numbers from guys.......and they say....Are you going to call me? are you going to call me??? call me ok??? ok? I end up throwing their numbers out....I dont know why..... I always wondered why you never called!!!
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Oh Joy, if I ever meet a guy good enough for you I'll die of shock. Good thing is you have me here to help you filter out the NO's LOL
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(((Billy)))
I do that same thing Gyps... So Taurus, you don't think that you're standards are unattainable for the opposite sex? |
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joy...don't get me started Sorry hun..
Silly I don't think it's wrong at all.. I think we're all entitled to want what we want.. I just often wonder if some of what we want is unreachable and expecting too much from another person... I know that I have expectations and sometimes just a word one word will turn me off and I high tail it outta there... lol hon...i expect too much |
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