i've have only set up an account to keep in touch with some already established friends, and to have a peek into the forums. I'm not interested in dating. please don't send off those friend's invites, or IM's, without ever having spoken with me before. they won't be opened, never mind replied to or accepted. if you've gotten to know me by participating in the forums, then i've no problem with corresponding or making friends. however, the one-liners, or no-liners, interest me little and chatting men up in private is not why i'm a member of this site.