Awwww ((Myka))



See I'm not saying we're wrong for having standards, I'm not saying we should lower them.. I'm just wondering if our standards are such that no one will ever meet them...

lol all i get is hugs

im gonna run with this depression thing whenever i see you

I think........I like to get to know someone a long time before I date them.

Unless of course I just want to use him for sex!!!

It's me

No one wants me!

Umm.. could be, but Ive had some wonderful men, and been totally spoiled with happiness, so I know theres places where I click. Right now, and I dont know why, but I am honestly going through sick of sex mode, I dont want to hear about it. I just want fun company. I know, maybe I should get another dog.


I am just not ready for all the sex stuff.. and hope someone will try to get to know me for me first. I end up with all the people looking for phone sex, and, im really not into it. Also, just most are too quick to bed for me.

I get turned on, but I have to put it on the backburner, Id prefer to wait til it feels more real first.

I spose thats my standard.

Ive tried everything else.. just dont want to go there anymore.

oh crap!!! Muriel woke up!!! She's terrible!!!

You'll get hugged anyway.... do the depression thing too much and I'll kick ya in the azz...



Me too Gyps and online it's so much easier than when you meet them in real life... But even online they don't want to take the time....

omg romeo..........EVERYONE wants you!!!

im not depressed at all

i am just trying things different but keep the hugs coming either way lol

Having been married, and also been in other relationships, I have a very clear idea of what I do and don't want. I honestly have a hard time dating someone if they aren't exactly what I'm looking for. I feel like it isn't worth the hassle of having to worry about someone else that I don't have to worry about (like my kids) and that may not be around forever. I definitely don't think I'm picky, or overly selective but I do have a few requirements that at this point I'm not budging on. Maybe in time that will change, but right now I'm not going to compromise. I don't think it's always necessary in general, but especially not right now (for me). I don't need to be with someone. I don't need a relationship. If it takes me a few years to find what I'm looking for, I'm okay with that. No rush. I'm just focusing on myself and my children.

Oh your such a ham, you look interesting from the inside just by looking at your eyes! I suspect you must know this. lol.

I hear ya... I am at the point where I don't even want to go out... I don't want to talk, do the niceties, etc. I don't feel like I can even like someone or meet someone I'd like enough to want to spend time with them.. I'm trying to figure out why but can't... I miss that liking someone feeling but just don't have it...

I like the idea of me being used for sex by you Gypsy

do i really? thank you Taurus

dating people........is too much work!!!

I just get tired of the head games and the being jerked-around. You know... they wanna "have" a relationship, but they DON'T wanna "have" a relationship.

And a lot of times, it's because they think too much. They over-think the situation at hand and it ends up shooting them in the foot more than anything else. I'm often standing there just thinking, "WTF???!!!" in the end.

So I don't even bother anymore, as I figure it'll all fall apart in some manner anyway.

I totally relate.

When something soulful touches me, Ill know it. But, anymore, I dont believe theres only like, one soulmate for me, ive had many. I dont even rely apon one marriage being long term.


Im patient. I just keep putting myself out there like with profile, and make myself available. Im glad Im good with alone time, I used to not be so good at it, and was miserable years ago.


Im meeting nice men though, I dont know how they will work out, but, there are some nice ones.

Still a "well see".


I just keep telling myself im exactly where I am supposed to be right now.

I could have written that myself. I know exactly what you're saying.

You're so right Gyps... I had a date last week... He brought friends.. We all got along fine.. He however, didn't of course look like his pics and wouldn't get off me... At one point he turned to me and said "so what do you think? are we hitting it off? well I know I am but if you're not then no reason to waste $70 on eats and drinks".... I haven't spoken to him since.. He keeps calling, I'm still trying to figure out how to tell him "thanks but no thanks"...