Topic: Is it you or them?
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Thu 06/04/09 10:23 PM

I just get tired of the head games and the being jerked-around. You know... they wanna "have" a relationship, but they DON'T wanna "have" a relationship.

And a lot of times, it's because they think too much. They over-think the situation at hand and it ends up shooting them in the foot more than anything else. I'm often standing there just thinking, "WTF???!!!" in the end.

So I don't even bother anymore, as I figure it'll all fall apart in some manner anyway.
Ok charlie brown!!!:wink:

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Thu 06/04/09 10:23 PM

dating people........is too much work!!!shocked scared


I'd take my time to date you Gypsy

and do all the work too flowerforyou

But Canada is too cold! whoa rofl

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Thu 06/04/09 10:24 PM

You're so right Gyps... I had a date last week... He brought friends.. We all got along fine.. He however, didn't of course look like his pics and wouldn't get off me... At one point he turned to me and said "so what do you think? are we hitting it off? well I know I am but if you're not then no reason to waste $70 on eats and drinks".... noway I haven't spoken to him since.. He keeps calling, I'm still trying to figure out how to tell him "thanks but no thanks"... spock
pfffffffffffffffft loserrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!slaphead

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Thu 06/04/09 10:24 PM


dating people........is too much work!!!shocked scared


I'd take my time to date you Gypsy

and do all the work too flowerforyou

But Canada is too cold! whoa rofl
it was ****ing 94 today.........wuddddddddddddddya want from me???noway laugh laugh laugh

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Thu 06/04/09 10:26 PM



I am at the point where I don't even want to go out... I don't want to talk, do the niceties, etc. I don't feel like I can even like someone or meet someone I'd like enough to want to spend time with them.. I'm trying to figure out why but can't... I miss that liking someone feeling but just don't have it... ohwell


I could have written that myself. I know exactly what you're saying.


Isn't it weird.. we're on dating site(s) were there are what thousands of people.. We see people in our every day life.. But still.. NOTHING... I don't get it.. That's why I wonder if I'm just being ridiculous but I know I cannot change what I want or what I'm attracted to or my expectations of a mate...

I know I've always been very spoiled in the past... I liked that, it was nice and I don't want to let that standard go either...

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Thu 06/04/09 10:28 PM



dating people........is too much work!!!shocked scared


I'd take my time to date you Gypsy

and do all the work too flowerforyou

But Canada is too cold! whoa rofl
it was ****ing 94 today.........wuddddddddddddddya want from me???noway laugh laugh laugh


Holy sh*t! really? will you marry me? (4th time asking for those

who don't know)love love love flowerforyou laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Thu 06/04/09 10:29 PM
I know exactly why princess.....because Im not actively looking for anyone. I never have since Ive been here. Im me.....take me or leave me.

In real life.....I work such odd hours....

But is that really the reason? or have I been hiding????huh

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Thu 06/04/09 10:30 PM




dating people........is too much work!!!shocked scared


I'd take my time to date you Gypsy

and do all the work too flowerforyou

But Canada is too cold! whoa rofl
it was ****ing 94 today.........wuddddddddddddddya want from me???noway laugh laugh laugh


Holy sh*t! really? will you marry me? (4th time asking for those

who don't know)love love love flowerforyou laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
Will you vacuum and do the dishes??? and do yard work???huh laugh laugh

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Thu 06/04/09 10:30 PM
flowers

tooooooo dayummmmmmmm faaaaarrrrrrrrrrr aaaaawwwwwaaaayyyy

smokin devil smokin

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Thu 06/04/09 10:31 PM
I don't know Gyps, I think you've hit on something.. HIDING... :wink: We play on here and hang with our friends and love chatting but really we're not looking for something it would have to hit us upside the head...

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Thu 06/04/09 10:32 PM





dating people........is too much work!!!shocked scared


I'd take my time to date you Gypsy

and do all the work too flowerforyou

But Canada is too cold! whoa rofl
it was ****ing 94 today.........wuddddddddddddddya want from me???noway laugh laugh laugh


Holy sh*t! really? will you marry me? (4th time asking for those

who don't know)love love love flowerforyou laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
Will you vacuum and do the dishes??? and do yard work???huh laugh laugh


I'll even bath your kitty(ies) if you want me to!

How's that? :wink:

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Thu 06/04/09 10:33 PM

flowers

tooooooo dayummmmmmmm faaaaarrrrrrrrrrr aaaaawwwwwaaaayyyy

smokin devil smokin


(((Ghost)))flowerforyou

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Thu 06/04/09 10:33 PM

I don't know Gyps, I think you've hit on something.. HIDING... :wink: We play on here and hang with our friends and love chatting but really we're not looking for something it would have to hit us upside the head...
and everyone is far away that I connect with on that level. What are there? 4 canadians on here???noway laugh laugh

DTHRomeo's photo
Thu 06/04/09 10:33 PM

I know exactly why princess.....because Im not actively looking for anyone. I never have since Ive been here. Im me.....take me or leave me.

In real life.....I work such odd hours....

But is that really the reason? or have I been hiding????huh


wow! that was deep

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Thu 06/04/09 10:34 PM






dating people........is too much work!!!shocked scared


I'd take my time to date you Gypsy

and do all the work too flowerforyou

But Canada is too cold! whoa rofl
it was ****ing 94 today.........wuddddddddddddddya want from me???noway laugh laugh laugh


Holy sh*t! really? will you marry me? (4th time asking for those

who don't know)love love love flowerforyou laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
Will you vacuum and do the dishes??? and do yard work???huh laugh laugh


I'll even bath your kitty(ies) if you want me to!

How's that? :wink:
Now thats a proposal!!!! When do you start......errrrrrrr I mean.........when do we get married???bigsmile drinker :banana:

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Thu 06/04/09 10:35 PM


I know exactly why princess.....because Im not actively looking for anyone. I never have since Ive been here. Im me.....take me or leave me.

In real life.....I work such odd hours....

But is that really the reason? or have I been hiding????huh


wow! that was deep
The boobas get deep sometimes.....laugh

IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 06/04/09 10:35 PM


I don't know Gyps, I think you've hit on something.. HIDING... :wink: We play on here and hang with our friends and love chatting but really we're not looking for something it would have to hit us upside the head...
and everyone is far away that I connect with on that level. What are there? 4 canadians on here???noway laugh laugh


laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
I guess that means you have to move here... We have institutions you know... bigsmile

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Thu 06/04/09 10:36 PM
I used to think it was everyone else.........

then one day I woke up and said........

WTF am I doing in Illinois?????

its me.....

I'm too Dayummmmmmm faaaarrrr aaaawwwaaaayyyyyyyy

(((((IP)))))flowers

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Thu 06/04/09 10:37 PM



I don't know Gyps, I think you've hit on something.. HIDING... :wink: We play on here and hang with our friends and love chatting but really we're not looking for something it would have to hit us upside the head...
and everyone is far away that I connect with on that level. What are there? 4 canadians on here???noway laugh laugh


laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
I guess that means you have to move here... We have institutions you know... bigsmile
rofl rofl rofl rofl Please send me to your finest rubber room!!!rofl rofl rofl

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Thu 06/04/09 10:39 PM

Do you ever wonder why it's so hard to meet someone you'd like to date? Of course you do we all do.. Do you think it's distance? I used to, I don't anymore... Do we set our criteria/expectations to high?

Anyone mentions nice guys/girls as a reason gets shot by the firing squad... huh laugh


Oh and let's concentrate on the POSITIVE not the "women suck or men suck" b/c that's bullsh*t!



cause women suck




fire away....