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I just get tired of the head games and the being jerked-around. You know... they wanna "have" a relationship, but they DON'T wanna "have" a relationship. And a lot of times, it's because they think too much. They over-think the situation at hand and it ends up shooting them in the foot more than anything else. I'm often standing there just thinking, "WTF???!!!" in the end. So I don't even bother anymore, as I figure it'll all fall apart in some manner anyway. |
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dating people........is too much work!!! I'd take my time to date you Gypsy and do all the work too But Canada is too cold! |
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You're so right Gyps... I had a date last week... He brought friends.. We all got along fine.. He however, didn't of course look like his pics and wouldn't get off me... At one point he turned to me and said "so what do you think? are we hitting it off? well I know I am but if you're not then no reason to waste $70 on eats and drinks".... I haven't spoken to him since.. He keeps calling, I'm still trying to figure out how to tell him "thanks but no thanks"... |
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dating people........is too much work!!! I'd take my time to date you Gypsy and do all the work too But Canada is too cold! |
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I am at the point where I don't even want to go out... I don't want to talk, do the niceties, etc. I don't feel like I can even like someone or meet someone I'd like enough to want to spend time with them.. I'm trying to figure out why but can't... I miss that liking someone feeling but just don't have it... I could have written that myself. I know exactly what you're saying. Isn't it weird.. we're on dating site(s) were there are what thousands of people.. We see people in our every day life.. But still.. NOTHING... I don't get it.. That's why I wonder if I'm just being ridiculous but I know I cannot change what I want or what I'm attracted to or my expectations of a mate... I know I've always been very spoiled in the past... I liked that, it was nice and I don't want to let that standard go either... |
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dating people........is too much work!!! I'd take my time to date you Gypsy and do all the work too But Canada is too cold! Holy sh*t! really? will you marry me? (4th time asking for those who don't know) |
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I know exactly why princess.....because Im not actively looking for anyone. I never have since Ive been here. Im me.....take me or leave me.
In real life.....I work such odd hours.... But is that really the reason? or have I been hiding???? |
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dating people........is too much work!!! I'd take my time to date you Gypsy and do all the work too But Canada is too cold! Holy sh*t! really? will you marry me? (4th time asking for those who don't know) |
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tooooooo dayummmmmmmm faaaaarrrrrrrrrrr aaaaawwwwwaaaayyyy |
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I don't know Gyps, I think you've hit on something.. HIDING... We play on here and hang with our friends and love chatting but really we're not looking for something it would have to hit us upside the head...
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dating people........is too much work!!! I'd take my time to date you Gypsy and do all the work too But Canada is too cold! Holy sh*t! really? will you marry me? (4th time asking for those who don't know) I'll even bath your kitty(ies) if you want me to! How's that? |
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tooooooo dayummmmmmmm faaaaarrrrrrrrrrr aaaaawwwwwaaaayyyy (((Ghost))) |
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I don't know Gyps, I think you've hit on something.. HIDING... We play on here and hang with our friends and love chatting but really we're not looking for something it would have to hit us upside the head... |
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I know exactly why princess.....because Im not actively looking for anyone. I never have since Ive been here. Im me.....take me or leave me. In real life.....I work such odd hours.... But is that really the reason? or have I been hiding???? wow! that was deep |
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dating people........is too much work!!! I'd take my time to date you Gypsy and do all the work too But Canada is too cold! Holy sh*t! really? will you marry me? (4th time asking for those who don't know) I'll even bath your kitty(ies) if you want me to! How's that? |
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I know exactly why princess.....because Im not actively looking for anyone. I never have since Ive been here. Im me.....take me or leave me. In real life.....I work such odd hours.... But is that really the reason? or have I been hiding???? wow! that was deep |
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I don't know Gyps, I think you've hit on something.. HIDING... We play on here and hang with our friends and love chatting but really we're not looking for something it would have to hit us upside the head... I guess that means you have to move here... We have institutions you know... |
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I used to think it was everyone else.........
then one day I woke up and said........ WTF am I doing in Illinois????? its me..... I'm too Dayummmmmmm faaaarrrr aaaawwwaaaayyyyyyyy (((((IP))))) |
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I don't know Gyps, I think you've hit on something.. HIDING... We play on here and hang with our friends and love chatting but really we're not looking for something it would have to hit us upside the head... I guess that means you have to move here... We have institutions you know... |
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Do you ever wonder why it's so hard to meet someone you'd like to date? Of course you do we all do.. Do you think it's distance? I used to, I don't anymore... Do we set our criteria/expectations to high? Anyone mentions nice guys/girls as a reason gets shot by the firing squad... Oh and let's concentrate on the POSITIVE not the "women suck or men suck" b/c that's bullsh*t! cause women suck fire away.... |
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