Topic: What is your biggest problem in relationships? | |
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i also make a point to hear you out and try to reciprocate what you feel is best for you....i like to focuse on an actual issue and what it will take to get through it (not over under around it etc etc - it only just reoccurs then) and dont like when my sig other consistently cant follow thru on this or do the same for me
i validate your feelings and actions....im human too!lol |
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i dont like when the other person gets intimidate becaus ethey flip out easily and im hard to shake up i also dont like dishonesty....especially petty dishonesty i normally recieve a lot of attention and the last few guys i dated had some problems with that...they werent paying any attention to the fact that i wasnt reciprocating or engouraging/enabling aforementioned unwanted attentions i also have a penchant to date guys that are hung up on their ex...they seem to think a date is a great therapy session...i know im less expensive and easy to talk to but cmon fellas....if the same type of girl keeps breaking you...find a different type of girl and move on! they are the dating worlds equivalent of cutters! +1 on the honesty... therapy sessions? it seems they think I'm Dr. Fuzzy!!! lol |
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lol!
im actually usually very happy in my relationships...most of the past ones have ended due to my moving or just the wrong timing in life....but there have been some bad seeds lol i tend to remain friends with all my exes...some guys are intimidated by that...but once they open their eyes and take a look they see its nothing to worry about... i enjoy being single though also....and right now there are plenty of great guys trying to date me just the chemistry isnt there and im not one to try and force it |
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Edited by
freeonthree
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Mon 12/15/08 10:41 AM
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Me, definently... Im holding out for a lady who doesn't exsist, but when I find her, were going to build her VW Trike together.
Oh, was this about past relationships ? Then I would have to say that I get bored because they never have any interest in my favorite hobby, building and riding VW Trikes. If you want to be and stay with me, you gotta look cute with the welding hood and gloves on. Dennis |
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Me, definently... Im holding out for a lady who doesn't exsist, but when I find her, were going to build her VW Trike together. Dennis |
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Edited by
Ron1218
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Mon 12/15/08 08:41 PM
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Hmm, I'd have to say that my fear of her breaking my heart or cheating on me. I've been hurt in the past and it's made me really uneasy when first getting into a relationship. I'm generally very cautious and though I try not to fall off the deep end right away, it does happen sometimes. And it always seems like when I find the girl that fits me, something in my life bars us from being together and there I am left alone again.
Most women can't handle the fact that I'm in the military and travel a lot either. I won't always come home 365 days a year and certain bases don't allow you to bring your spouses/children along. I'm going to South Korea in June for a year and that's one such base. So in many ways, the military is one of my greatest problems to finding the woman for me. |
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Me, definently... Im holding out for a lady who doesn't exsist, but when I find her, were going to build her VW Trike together. Oh, was this about past relationships ? Then I would have to say that I get bored because they never have any interest in my favorite hobby, building and riding VW Trikes. If you want to be and stay with me, you gotta look cute with the welding hood and gloves on. Dennis |
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Hmm, I'd have to say that my fear of her breaking my heart or cheating on me. I've been hurt in the past and it's made me really uneasy when first getting into a relationship. I'm generally very cautious and though I try not to fall off the deep end right away, it does happen sometimes. And it always seems like when I find the girl that fits me, something in my life bars us from being together and there I am left alone again. Most women can't handle the fact that I'm in the military and travel a lot either. I won't always come home 365 days a year and certain bases don't allow you to bring your spouses/children along. I'm going to South Korea in June for a year and that's one such base. So in many ways, the military is one of my greatest problems to finding the woman for me. and that sux dude. |
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Small penis. on them or you? cause for some reason, I see you as a John Holmes |
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As a relationship ages, changes occur. Those changes can lead to drifting apart, and that becomes a big problem. Trying to overcome or adapt to those changes is probably one of the hardest things to do in any long term serious relationship.
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In general, what is your biggest problem in relationships? im too picky. |
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I am my worst enemy.
I overthink it and complicate it to excess. |
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In general, what is your biggest problem in relationships? im too picky. same here |
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As a relationship ages, changes occur. Those changes can lead to drifting apart, and that becomes a big problem. Trying to overcome or adapt to those changes is probably one of the hardest things to do in any long term serious relationship. There you have it in a nutshell.... as I get older I find that I am like a good wine. I get better with age. More open minded less uptight... more go with the flow. My X's on the other hand have always seemed to be more like cheap watches... wound up titghter than a 3 dollar watch |
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Dependency issues.........
I'm self reliant and most times that turns men off.......I seem to not need them enough |
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Edited by
diesel_hunter
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Tue 12/16/08 06:34 PM
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I'm not the one with problems, its all the women I've had relationships with that flip out and have issues, it's funny how I never change, but that is always their excuse hmmmmm.
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I had someone tell me once that I am too independent, strong willed and stubborn
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Im not sure...i gonna say for the most part...I was never the problem in any of my relationships. except one perhaps. but he had more issues than me.
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Dependency issues......... I'm self reliant and most times that turns men off.......I seem to not need them enough I like independence in a woman... but there is a big difference in that and felling shunned |
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In general, what is your biggest problem in relationships? im too picky. same here and then, like, after i decide not to, i always second guess myself and worry if i missed out on something. |
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