ANYONE ELSE WHO MIGHT BE ABLE TO HELP.

okay so ive decided this is a perfect place to spill my guts thanks to the anonymity of this sight.
i could use some advice, helpful hints, guidance, input, or really whatever you want to share.
i know there are quite a few lightworkers and "sensitives" on this site as ive had the pleasure of meeting and chatting with a number of you.
basically put, i can be referred to as clairvoyant, clairaudient,clairalient, and claircognizant and possibly clairsentient. i am not strong, in my opinion, in these "abilities",i didnt "learn how to do this" (though i find its a constant learning process), i have no formal training, im not sure if the above words even truly apply to me,and i rarely talk about this with anyone outside of the women in my family, trent ,and a very few select friends. most people ive met view this as unusual and are skeptical, i however view this as a normal way of life, since ive not really known any other. in the past few years ive slowly come to embrace it more than i have since at some point in childhood i dedicated a LOT of time just trying to "turn this dang thing off" - which is kinda hard to do when you live in a "haunted" home with other "haunted" people. there was even a time in my life where i would send everything to my mom to be dealt with - thanks amber for being so cool about it. in texas, i found a fondness for a lot of our "regulars" who just normally want to be acknowledged or a part of whats going on. it actually had become quite comfortable the past few years i lived in texas.
moving to minneapolis this year i found that i moved into a house that not only has high activity but also houses so to speak a small vortex. throw the fact that spirits/souls seem to view me an energy magnet i had a very busy few months establishing some ground rules about our shared environment. most of the energy that comes through our home is transient though and doesnt hang around long. we did have some very negative energy early this year but finally with the help of trents masonic brother, father thomas, we were able to cleanse our home and lives of the negativity. each month that passes by the activity in our home grows in strength and occurence...mostly it is neutral and sometimes even positive so i dont have much of a problem there even if it is still disconcerting after almost three decades of dealing with this. the past six weeks or so i was very sick and often bed or couch bound and found that without my normal daily distractions that i was becoming hypersensitive - my house sounded like an airport terminal full of people and windchimes. to top that off my lights keep flickering in whichever room im in and electricity goes out when im in there from what i believe is an overload of communications or manifestations trying to come through. finally last week i was able to arrive at a compromise that i would spend at least a few hours one night of the week trying to listen and discern what was trying to be sent across to me in order to have a reasonable amount of peace and quiet the rest of the week, and to get them to stop provoking my animals to get me to listen. so here is my dilemna.
one of the spirits that is not transient and only passed away a few years ago that i normally see in my yard and street has very politely asked me to help them move on to their next existence... i.e. into the light in "dess'" case. i have no clue how to do this. i have no clue whom to go to for help. my mother doesnt have experience helping souls move on. and when trent spoke to father thomas on my behalf he promised to look into it but had no experience in the matter,himself.
so please if you have any input, help, offers, guidance, or ideas i am open to hearing them. ive promised "dess" i would look into this and try to find a solution in every place i could think of to look. really anything you have to offer is appreciated. thanks for taking the time to listen.

have you ever used a spray smudge before?