yes you are probably right on that count:

thats why get along then! lol

I get hooked into the games. In other words, I do not allow myself to feel what is really inside (because I think its too scary or painful) and instead, feed into their bullsh1t to feel "something".

Well, I usually give too much of myself, in general, to the man I'm in a relationship with. I DO NOT get the same in return. I guess this happens basically because I dont judge every person that I've dated based on my past bad experiences with others. Everyone gets a fair chance until they are proven wrong...I don't believe in that expression..."All Men Are Alike", because it's simply not true!

Some people take my kindness as a weakness until the "SCORPION" in me comes to the surface...then "BAM"...to the curb they go!

So now, I just take my time, be patient and just wait for the person that is meant for me...whomever that may be

There is somebody special out there for everybody

Hi Mirror

Hello FindMe

There are two aspects to this, my self image and my choice of partner

Hmm what makes you think I have the problem perhaps its the other person that has the problem, I don't like problems I just kick them to the curve

In my last three relationships I didn't realize that they weren't over their ex's for a long time. I realized my pattern of dating these people and stopped it.
Now I am not dating anyone. I guess my problem was thinking they were into me. Hindsight tells me differently.

How does that affect it?

For me it is probably the fact that I have trouble letting people get close to me. I will get close to them and be there for them but I have problems letting anyone be there for me.

remembering to put the toilet seat down

my biggest problem is actually letting someone get close enough for a relationship to develop.

my biggest problem is having a woman give me a chance for a relationship

I always gotta chuckle at Gypsy's responses, lol.

I tend to be a bit...over enthusiastic.

Lack of potential mates. That, and I'm a bit on the weird strange make you stare in shock kind of way.

My problem is that I have a tendency to make myself "too available" to the people I'm dating. When a girl I'm dating calls up wanting me to show up, I'm there. When she wants me to drive her somewhere, I'm there. And so on and so forth.

If anything, I should follow the example put forth by some of the "bro's" out there and leave the ladies hanging at the most inopportune times.

i don't try, so nothing happens

Last one went south due to she wanted to get married within the first year of dating...
Another girl was a major liar, and another a drama queen. The majority were different looks on life.