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The man is honest & he has preferences, most people do. exactly. what's the big deal if he isn't attracted to overweight women? doesn't sound to me like he's labelling them, or poking fun, or anything, except to say that he doesn't find them attractive. how can anyone take offense to what one individual deems dateable? right on right on..... I am a bigger woman but I don't take offense...because no one on this earth could tell me I am not sexy.....it's all about the person and how they perceive themselves...I don't get offended because I am secure with who I am. And if others are not...then I would show them why it is important to first love ones self......Everyone matters, and if you don't fit what another person is looking for move on because there are plenty that you would fit the bill. I wanna be right on you lee your a nut.......and I heart ya madly..... |
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We all know what we want(most of us) but dont go around bashing people for it, he said he is honest which I find hard to believe. He is the one making a big deal about about head shots and large people. His quote " Be yourself and dont be ashamed of who you are..If your big..Your Big! If your small, your small! But dont hide behind just a head shot! " Why would someone care what type of pic you have up if they didn't have issues. He could of said it would be nice to see a full body pic of everyone or share one. instead. he brought up the issues so yes he is allowed to be bashed back. but i am not bashing him and if he had a problem with me asking question i think for one he wouldnt answer them and for two would tell me so I meant he be able to take the heat with out people standing up for him when he started the issue Im not the one with the issue....There are several others here that have the issue...I stated a point, opinion, preference, whatever anyone wants to call it. Many took it and ran with it...This is definitley not an issue for me... only issuse i had was in your first post it did make you seem alittle arrogant how you posted it ...TO ME! but thats why i asked and i actually liked your answers thankyou for them most big girls do not post full body pictures but will tell you in their profiles they are not "skinny" because there are assh^les out there who would not even give them the time of day but if asked then the truth about any thing should be told but sadly over the net it is not |
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nice new pic IndnPrncs (((Button))) thanks darlin' it's my new haircut.. Um sorry I stopped the bash Jim party.. continue.... |
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The man is honest & he has preferences, most people do. exactly. what's the big deal if he isn't attracted to overweight women? doesn't sound to me like he's labelling them, or poking fun, or anything, except to say that he doesn't find them attractive. how can anyone take offense to what one individual deems dateable? right on right on..... I am a bigger woman but I don't take offense...because no one on this earth could tell me I am not sexy.....it's all about the person and how they perceive themselves...I don't get offended because I am secure with who I am. And if others are not...then I would show them why it is important to first love ones self......Everyone matters, and if you don't fit what another person is looking for move on because there are plenty that you would fit the bill. I wanna be right on you lee your a nut.......and I heart ya madly..... |
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The man is honest & he has preferences, most people do. exactly. what's the big deal if he isn't attracted to overweight women? doesn't sound to me like he's labelling them, or poking fun, or anything, except to say that he doesn't find them attractive. how can anyone take offense to what one individual deems dateable? right on right on..... I am a bigger woman but I don't take offense...because no one on this earth could tell me I am not sexy.....it's all about the person and how they perceive themselves...I don't get offended because I am secure with who I am. And if others are not...then I would show them why it is important to first love ones self......Everyone matters, and if you don't fit what another person is looking for move on because there are plenty that you would fit the bill. I wanna be right on you lee your a nut.......and I heart ya madly..... awwwww my sweet Lee.......you know I love you madly........you mad crazy lil flirt...love it...... |
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Not basjin' anyone here...
Just wanted to say that my biggest disappointment in the few on-line friends I have met, wasn't about how they looked at all. It was about how they acted. People can appear to be very positive, upbeat, sensitive, kind, open-minded, whatever while on-line, but in person, a few have proven to be very different. Luckily, I have met a few that were really terrific & just as they seem on-line, and we are still friends ! |
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As I said, I could care less what someone elses "preferences" or "requirements" are. Have them, you are only limiting yourself.......but at least you don't have to put up with what you don't want............. Thats the difference between you and me...I "prefer" to make it known what I want.... |
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I miss Jim-bo's semi-nude pick..
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Edited by
Plainome
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Wed 09/24/08 06:52 PM
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As I said, I could care less what someone elses "preferences" or "requirements" are. Have them, you are only limiting yourself.......but at least you don't have to put up with what you don't want............. Thats the difference between you and me...I "prefer" to make it known what I want....
LOL, true enough....... I suppose I just don't understand why you would care to make it known to the general populace.......but that is me. |
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Most of mine are full body pics and it hasnt helped me a da*n bit!~ Sure helped me though! |
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As I said, I could care less what someone elses "preferences" or "requirements" are. Have them, you are only limiting yourself.......but at least you don't have to put up with what you don't want............. Thats the difference between you and me...I "prefer" to make it known what I want.... And that is what I love about Jim the most...although he does take the prize for my hardest match ever.....lol lol |
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I miss Jim-bo's semi-nude pick.. |
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I miss Jim-bo's semi-nude pick.. Truth is? That was me.....6 years ago, but was me Still wishing I looked like that now |
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I miss Jim-bo's semi-nude pick.. aw...thats sweet...will it come with a monkey shot? |
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Edited by
Plainome
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Wed 09/24/08 06:59 PM
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As I said, I could care less what someone elses "preferences" or "requirements" are. Have them, you are only limiting yourself.......but at least you don't have to put up with what you don't want............. Thats the difference between you and me...I "prefer" to make it known what I want.... And that is what I love about Jim the most...although he does take the prize for my hardest match ever.....lol lol But, Deb, u "heart" almost everyone........ I will admit that everyone has both preferences and requirements......if not we would never have moved away from arranged marraiges........ And knowing what you do/do not want and waiting for it, is better than being in a relationship where your eye "wanders" because you aren't getting what you really want...... |
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I find this post and the replies funny, only because my own individual preferences are apparently not the norm..I like big, bearish men..all belly and butt..someone I can climb like a mountain...beauty is in the eye of the beholder, everyone has a right to seek that which they find beautiful..does it make a person shallow?...perhaps..but its not up to me to judge..
I still think your hot Jim-bo... |
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I'm dying to know....have you gotten any thin chicks to email you after reading all this? I hope you at least get something out of it, since you did get quite a character assassination today.
I'm still on the fence in all of it (albeit a sturdy fence!), but I do think it went a bit far. Not that my opinion really matters in all of this, however I do still agree with your OP regarding "hiding behind a head shot". Your choices may be much more "slim" though if you close yourself off but to a select few. Good Luck! |
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Slap the thigh and ride the wave on in!
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