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wait a minute...are you guys discussing full body pics or body builds? Exactly... He suggested pics to be upfront but yet now it's about his tastes.... who cares what his tastes are! If he's not into me or you or the other girl or that guy, it's his business and his preference... He never said he thought non-skinny girls were less than skinny, he stated he preferred smaller women when he was asked... |
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but you can have sex with someone your not connected with No, I cant |
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cotton lets go back to the big bad and ugly topic wher we are loved for who we are hahahahahaha
wait was that a put now i think i have to run to the mods now in no where did i put him down so yeah that was uncalled for |
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Let me speak for a minute......to know Jim and have him as a friend...none better.....He knows what he wants and he won't settle...there is nothing wrong with that. It does not mean however that he is not friends with bigger women...He is probably one of my closest friends.....but chemistry as far as dating me....no......But do I think that makes him bad....no way jose....he knows what he wants and wont settle.....so my advise for trying to change that is get over your big bad ugly selves. Jim is jim you take it or leave he doesn't care....But no better friend will you have then in this man...and I know that too. i dont think im "getting on him" or trying to change him just asking questions And ask away...cuz this man is the real deal.....not a lying bone in him....no way.....might not like his answers...but oh well...like I said to know him is to love him...and he is a fierce friend...... |
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cotton lets go back to the big bad and ugly topic wher we are loved for who we are hahahahahaha wait was that a put now i think i have to run to the mods now in no where did i put him down so yeah that was uncalled for hmmmm did I use names.....ahhhhh no |
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Let me speak for a minute......to know Jim and have him as a friend...none better.....He knows what he wants and he won't settle...there is nothing wrong with that. It does not mean however that he is not friends with bigger women...He is probably one of my closest friends.....but chemistry as far as dating me....no......But do I think that makes him bad....no way jose....he knows what he wants and wont settle.....so my advise for trying to change that is get over your big bad ugly selves. Jim is jim you take it or leave he doesn't care....But no better friend will you have then in this man...and I know that too. Thank you Deb, you are a true gem! 
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i agree you have to have some kinda connection in looks sometimes but i have fallen for guys at first i thought i would never touch but then as time went on we became friends and well point being sometimes it just happens without you relizing it or wanting it dont be so closed minded over that so would you rather have someone (big or skinny) you completely connect with or someone who is just okay to go out with and really no conncetion at all. Thats the beauty of many things... I dont need and have plenty of time I do have a choice Life goes on whether you have someone or not, I will just continue in life and if it happens? Great, if not..than fine as well... I had a major connection with a great friend for many years. She was beautiful, but a large woman. I tried, I honestly, truthfully triend with 150% effort. I could not do it, we tried to be sexual, and I couldnt...I felt horrible and it crushed her.... did you offer to help her work out the non asshole way? And that is? |
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We all know what we want(most of us) but dont go around bashing people for it, he said he is honest which I find hard to believe. He is the one making a big deal about about head shots and large people. His quote " Be yourself and dont be ashamed of who you are..If your big..Your Big! If your small, your small! But dont hide behind just a head shot! " Why would someone care what type of pic you have up if they didn't have issues. He could of said it would be nice to see a full body pic of everyone or share one. instead. he brought up the issues so yes he is allowed to be bashed back. |
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 It feels great to wake up and not know what day it is, doesn't it?
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cotton lets go back to the big bad and ugly topic wher we are loved for who we are hahahahahaha wait was that a put now i think i have to run to the mods now in no where did i put him down so yeah that was uncalled for Asking if I didnt do it in an azzhole way? What are you insinuating? |
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The man is honest & he has preferences, most people do.
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Edited by
cottonelle
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Wed 09/24/08 06:07 PM
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cotton lets go back to the big bad and ugly topic wher we are loved for who we are hahahahahaha wait was that a put now i think i have to run to the mods now in no where did i put him down so yeah that was uncalled for hmmmm did I use names.....ahhhhh no you dont always have to use names when directing comments to people in a thread |
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wait a minute...are you guys discussing full body pics or body builds? Exactly... He suggested pics to be upfront but yet now it's about his tastes.... who cares what his tastes are! If he's not into me or you or the other girl or that guy, it's his business and his preference... He never said he thought non-skinny girls were less than skinny, he stated he preferred smaller women when he was asked...  I'll send you any kind of picture you want baby
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i agree you have to have some kinda connection in looks sometimes but i have fallen for guys at first i thought i would never touch but then as time went on we became friends and well point being sometimes it just happens without you relizing it or wanting it dont be so closed minded over that so would you rather have someone (big or skinny) you completely connect with or someone who is just okay to go out with and really no conncetion at all. Thats the beauty of many things... I dont need and have plenty of time I do have a choice Life goes on whether you have someone or not, I will just continue in life and if it happens? Great, if not..than fine as well... I had a major connection with a great friend for many years. She was beautiful, but a large woman. I tried, I honestly, truthfully triend with 150% effort. I could not do it, we tried to be sexual, and I couldnt...I felt horrible and it crushed her.... did you offer to help her work out the non asshole way? And that is? thats is "hey let me show you how to do this at the gym" or "i'll go walking with you" not the "get off your fat ass and go to the gym will ya" "wow my dog can even walk around the block and you cant" just wondering would you even responded to her or email a big girl if she had a full body picture?? |
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sometimes its hard to get a full body i dont have anyone to take it for me. just myself and that can get tricky.
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We all know what we want(most of us) but dont go around bashing people for it, he said he is honest which I find hard to believe. He is the one making a big deal about about head shots and large people. His quote " Be yourself and dont be ashamed of who you are..If your big..Your Big! If your small, your small! But dont hide behind just a head shot! " Why would someone care what type of pic you have up if they didn't have issues. He could of said it would be nice to see a full body pic of everyone or share one. instead. he brought up the issues so yes he is allowed to be bashed back. but i am not bashing him and if he had a problem with me asking question i think for one he wouldnt answer them and for two would tell me so |
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sometimes its hard to get a full body i dont have anyone to take it for me. just myself and that can get tricky.  We can trade tricky pics sometime if you want sweetheart
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i agree you have to have some kinda connection in looks sometimes but i have fallen for guys at first i thought i would never touch but then as time went on we became friends and well point being sometimes it just happens without you relizing it or wanting it dont be so closed minded over that so would you rather have someone (big or skinny) you completely connect with or someone who is just okay to go out with and really no conncetion at all. Thats the beauty of many things... I dont need and have plenty of time I do have a choice Life goes on whether you have someone or not, I will just continue in life and if it happens? Great, if not..than fine as well... I had a major connection with a great friend for many years. She was beautiful, but a large woman. I tried, I honestly, truthfully triend with 150% effort. I could not do it, we tried to be sexual, and I couldnt...I felt horrible and it crushed her.... did you offer to help her work out the non asshole way? And that is? thats is "hey let me show you how to do this at the gym" or "i'll go walking with you" not the "get off your fat ass and go to the gym will ya" "wow my dog can even walk around the block and you cant" just wondering would you even responded to her or email a big girl if she had a full body picture?? Of course I would...But it would be made very clear upfront that I was only interested in a friendship then. I have no issues in discussing what I prefer, if they judge me and feel I am shallow, trust me...their loss. I would never consider saying the things you mention above. That is just degrading..... Secondly, I wont be the one to "coach" someone into going to the gym, or go for a walk to lose weight in order to date them. They know, and dont need me telling them, they should do it on their own.... |
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Edited by
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yes i do have them... well my feet are cut off in some of them does that count? this on has one foot showing anyway but i do have 2 feet
 i guess only one has the "whole" body  oh ps the feet are 7 1/2
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We all know what we want(most of us) but dont go around bashing people for it, he said he is honest which I find hard to believe. He is the one making a big deal about about head shots and large people. His quote " Be yourself and dont be ashamed of who you are..If your big..Your Big! If your small, your small! But dont hide behind just a head shot! " Why would someone care what type of pic you have up if they didn't have issues. He could of said it would be nice to see a full body pic of everyone or share one. instead. he brought up the issues so yes he is allowed to be bashed back. I havent seen anyone on here able to "bash" me...Simply because I will lose no sleep over this...
Where do you feel I am not being honest? |
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