I meant he be able to take the heat with out people standing up for him when he started the issue

Nope! I need to see both feet and all the hair!

exactly. what's the big deal if he isn't attracted to overweight women?

doesn't sound to me like he's labelling them, or poking fun, or anything, except to say that he doesn't find them attractive. how can anyone take offense to what one individual deems dateable?

hair on my feet?

so he has issues about the size that turns him on... Um is that his issue or yours? You tell me you've never got an email from a girl with NO real pic at all, read the email maybe emailed a bit back and forth and thought wow she sounds nice. chatted for a bit and then FINALLY she emailed a pic and you about fell off your chair of fright? Tell me you've never been disappointed???? I dont' think you can or you've never been on a date.. It's happened to me a few times, no pic or not clear/far away, etc pic and when FINALLY I get to see a pic it was so not what I'm attracted to... So whether we agree or disagree with what another is attracted to, it is OUR issue if we take ISSUE with it...

good answer
but even if it wasnt to date them some i think would love for you to as you put it "coach them"
looks like you know what are doing in a gym right?
well they might not know

Good one! Kudos!

That is why I finally just stopped sitting in a chair...I moved my computer to the floor

I'd like to take issue with you

THank you

Hey! Me first!

Do you not see the arrogance?? I don't see how you can't.

I'm taken, so I could care less..........and probably wouldn't be interested in you anymore than you would be me..........BUT

You ASSume that anyone who only puts up face shots, is fat, and hiding it...........

Well, I only have face shots, because I can't take a full body shot that looks halfway decent (and if it doesn't look like me I ain't gonna post it.) I do have one that isn't too bad but it is from a few years ago.

The thing is..........to go into a forum and post that people are "hiding" or "lying" because they only put face shots up is RUDE, INCONSIDERATE, and JUDGEMENTAL.

All "negative" qualities imo.

Now, if ur talking with someone, and wanna know, just ask.

If ur not interested in even talking with someone because you can't judge their looks.............then well, don't be on the internet, because a pic doesn't exactly capture the person anyway.

Trust me, I'm larger, but pics of me make me look much larger than I actually am, unless they are taken right.


ALSO:

It is one thing to have "preferences" but what you define as a "preference" is actually a requirement. So, stop trying to make it sound better than it is.

IF you will not date overweight women, then it is not a preference, it is a requirement to date you........which is fine, but call it what it is.

Also, to have a preference is one thing........but to start a thread to promote your preferences (if asked in a topical fashion is different) is a bit egotistical imo.

If someone asks and you share, but to say HEY, I WILL NOT DATE FAT WOMEN, to someone who didn't ask............is well, just rude, imo.

ps i shave daily, not my feet though no hair on them!!!nor do i need to shave my arms blonde peach fuzz on them but my pits yes i shave now if you want a shot of my pits id be glad to send ya one

Because you have friends on here, that are large. due to the internet. But how many of them would you have been friend you had met them or seen in person first. If one came up and had said hi sweetie you said you would been turned off, but that could just be how that person says hi.

I don't think alot of people would be friends if that had first met in person with out getting to know each other. That is just how things work.

Well I don't know Jim THAT well., but I do relate with his demise.

I get sooooooooooo much flack for dating younger guys exclusively. Does that mean I don't have guys close to my age or even older as friends? Of course not.

But no one knows better than Deb, that I have a preference for younger. It drives my dating pool. Some older men get really offended by that. I've been called some pretty ridiculously stupid things. Out of jealousy I believe.

Either way, a person has a right to draw parameters and preferences the way they want to.

Just sayin ..

yes i am overweight too..... about 10 -15 lbs due to the fact im gonna weigh more cause im muscular......still wear a size 6 though just not my 4's awww i think partly cause of my age...

And Im just sayin, hey pretty baby,

Come give me a kiss

I agree

i know what ya mean jim.... i once long ago went to meet this guy he had a whole body pic.... and it was him alright only 10 yrs later damn he looked old for his age!!! and furthermore told me he was 5'8 not that that even mattered i get there and the dude was shorter than me!!!!!!! im 5'4 hello like im gonna be stupid and not notice roflmao! phoney people are a waste of time....

Before I get to far in toit, I do ask for apic,if i don't get one then I state it that we will only chat then. yes i have been done that road, I have also seen a pic of someone that was taken five years before and when I met them they had changed alot. But the pics we get on here hopefully are true.