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so by being good friends
what happens if you fall in love with her then what deny yourself?? and this is just a question not meant as any other way are you one of those guys who says he wont or dont like dating bigger woman but yet when you want sex (oral or reg) they are great to call but not "date"? |
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aaw did you meet a girl and was told she was skinny but she turned out to be big boned? or do you just totally ignore the big boned girls and you want us to make your life easy? I would like to be friends with everyone My preference in "dating" is a thinner woamn yes... 
you are kinda being a jerk with this.. ya i get that you have preferences.. but quite essentialy the way that i (and many others i am guessin) am taking this is that us fat girls are not good enough to be dated.. we are good enough to be "friends" but thats it... and honestly.. its an attitude like that from every person i have almost essentialy ever met in my life that caused me to want to kill my self the entire time i was in high school.... if you THINK it its fine.. if you feel that way.. so be it... but HONESTLY to SAY it... like i said.. ya kno i love ya.. you are a good friend... but this thread is kinda BS.. yes i will be staying out of it from now on.. (for those of you who will say "if you dont like it dont read it") but the fact that people like me have been dealing with this attitude our whole lives.. its things like this that give me the duck theory.. have a nice day everyone...  
Izz, in no way is this personal toward you. SOrry if you have taken it that way. We are all entitled to our preference of course. Me? I make it public with no remorse, but that has always been me since day one. That is my personal attraction. I am sure you have a preference of some sort. Maybe no hairy backs, maybe bald headed or not, there is something there you are more attracted to than not. We are human. Do I dislike larger woman? No! Can I physically be attracted to a larger woman? No, I cant...But can I be one of your best of friends? Completely! Of course this is the internet and words are just words, but I can assure you, there is no one on here as loyal as a friend as me.... Call me a jerk all you want...I am honest to the extreme...THis thread was intended to let people know that they should always be honest about themselves and not hide behind something, just because I may not be attracted to one, sure doesnt not mean someone else wont...My loss? Maybe....but then again...Maybe not I'm supposed to tell you as the best friend messenger that you are talking to deaf ears as she has de-activated..... Ok, cool |
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aaw did you meet a girl and was told she was skinny but she turned out to be big boned? or do you just totally ignore the big boned girls and you want us to make your life easy? I would like to be friends with everyone My preference in "dating" is a thinner woamn yes...
you are kinda being a jerk with this.. ya i get that you have preferences.. but quite essentialy the way that i (and many others i am guessin) am taking this is that us fat girls are not good enough to be dated.. we are good enough to be "friends" but thats it... and honestly.. its an attitude like that from every person i have almost essentialy ever met in my life that caused me to want to kill my self the entire time i was in high school.... if you THINK it its fine.. if you feel that way.. so be it... but HONESTLY to SAY it... like i said.. ya kno i love ya.. you are a good friend... but this thread is kinda BS.. yes i will be staying out of it from now on.. (for those of you who will say "if you dont like it dont read it") but the fact that people like me have been dealing with this attitude our whole lives.. its things like this that give me the duck theory.. have a nice day everyone...
Izz, in no way is this personal toward you. SOrry if you have taken it that way. We are all entitled to our preference of course. Me? I make it public with no remorse, but that has always been me since day one. That is my personal attraction. I am sure you have a preference of some sort. Maybe no hairy backs, maybe bald headed or not, there is something there you are more attracted to than not. We are human. Do I dislike larger woman? No! Can I physically be attracted to a larger woman? No, I cant...But can I be one of your best of friends? Completely! Of course this is the internet and words are just words, but I can assure you, there is no one on here as loyal as a friend as me.... Call me a jerk all you want...I am honest to the extreme...THis thread was intended to let people know that they should always be honest about themselves and not hide behind something, just because I may not be attracted to one, sure doesnt not mean someone else wont...My loss? Maybe....but then again...Maybe not You said this is the net if you had met her first in person would you have been friends I think not because you would of not gave her a second look. Dude the @#23343355233 because some one went crying to the site mod. so $$$$$$$$%%^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^$$$$$^^$$^ |
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so by being good friends what happens if you fall in love with her then what deny yourself?? and this is just a question not meant as any other way are you one of those guys who says he wont or dont like dating bigger woman but yet when you want sex (oral or reg) they are great to call but not "date"? Again, I physically can not be attracted to a larger woman. Im just not, not something I can control, so the chances of falling in love with here is slim to none.... I have a few girl.."friends" that are larger women. We are great friends and I would be there for them in a split second if any of them ever needed me. Thats what friends do.... I would never want nor expect any form of sexual activity from a woman I am not attracted to....I am a man, not a dog |
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aaw did you meet a girl and was told she was skinny but she turned out to be big boned? or do you just totally ignore the big boned girls and you want us to make your life easy? I would like to be friends with everyone My preference in "dating" is a thinner woamn yes...
you are kinda being a jerk with this.. ya i get that you have preferences.. but quite essentialy the way that i (and many others i am guessin) am taking this is that us fat girls are not good enough to be dated.. we are good enough to be "friends" but thats it... and honestly.. its an attitude like that from every person i have almost essentialy ever met in my life that caused me to want to kill my self the entire time i was in high school.... if you THINK it its fine.. if you feel that way.. so be it... but HONESTLY to SAY it... like i said.. ya kno i love ya.. you are a good friend... but this thread is kinda BS.. yes i will be staying out of it from now on.. (for those of you who will say "if you dont like it dont read it") but the fact that people like me have been dealing with this attitude our whole lives.. its things like this that give me the duck theory.. have a nice day everyone...
Izz, in no way is this personal toward you. SOrry if you have taken it that way. We are all entitled to our preference of course. Me? I make it public with no remorse, but that has always been me since day one. That is my personal attraction. I am sure you have a preference of some sort. Maybe no hairy backs, maybe bald headed or not, there is something there you are more attracted to than not. We are human. Do I dislike larger woman? No! Can I physically be attracted to a larger woman? No, I cant...But can I be one of your best of friends? Completely! Of course this is the internet and words are just words, but I can assure you, there is no one on here as loyal as a friend as me.... Call me a jerk all you want...I am honest to the extreme...THis thread was intended to let people know that they should always be honest about themselves and not hide behind something, just because I may not be attracted to one, sure doesnt not mean someone else wont...My loss? Maybe....but then again...Maybe not You said this is the net if you had met her first in person would you have been friends I think not because you would of not gave her a second look. Dude the @#23343355233 because some one went crying to the site mod. so $$$$$$$$%%^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^$$$$$^^$$^ If she approached me as a friend? I absoltuley would communicate with her. But I get a lot of "hey sexy", "your hott", crap on here from a headshot, if we are going to attempt a dating chemistry I need to know the whole package... Dude the @#23343355233 because some one went crying to the site mod. so $$$$$$$$%%^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^$$$$$^^$$^ <----------------What is that all about? |
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so basicly looks are more important to you than actual love when it comes to a sexual relationship?
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so basicly looks are more important to you than actual love when it comes to a sexual relationship? Relationships dont require chemistry? |
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there is more to chemistry than looks
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Dude the @#23343355233 because some one went crying to the site mod. so $$$$$$$$%%^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^$$$$$^^$$^ and yeah, what is that?^^^^ |
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there is more to chemistry than looks My perception of attraction may be totally different from yours....Your assuming I require some hot blonde beach babe....Far from the least I prefer smaller women...I am sure you have some sort of preference you may be attracted to more than another.....We are all looking for something |
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Edited by
cutelildevilsmom
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Wed 09/24/08 05:41 PM
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i have one.oops i mean 2.if someone doesn't want a larger woman then I don't want to waste anyone's time especially mine.
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Edited by
duckiegiggles
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Wed 09/24/08 05:44 PM
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i agree you have to have some kinda connection in looks sometimes
but i have fallen for guys at first i thought i would never touch but then as time went on we became friends and well point being sometimes it just happens without you relizing it or wanting it dont be so closed minded over that so would you rather have someone (big or skinny) you completely connect with or someone who is just okay to go out with and really no connection at all. |
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i agree you have to have some kinda connection in looks sometimes but i have fallen for guys at first i thought i would never touch but then as time went on we became friends and well point being sometimes it just happens without you relizing it or wanting it dont be so closed minded over that so would you rather have someone (big or skinny) you completely connect with or someone who is just okay to go out with and really no conncetion at all. Thats the beauty of many things... I dont need and have plenty of time I do have a choice Life goes on whether you have someone or not, I will just continue in life and if it happens? Great, if not..than fine as well... I had a major connection with a great friend for many years. She was beautiful, but a large woman. I tried, I honestly, truthfully triend with 150% effort. I could not do it, we tried to be sexual, and I couldnt...I felt horrible and it crushed her.... |
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but you can have sex with someone your not connected with
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i agree you have to have some kinda connection in looks sometimes but i have fallen for guys at first i thought i would never touch but then as time went on we became friends and well point being sometimes it just happens without you relizing it or wanting it dont be so closed minded over that so would you rather have someone (big or skinny) you completely connect with or someone who is just okay to go out with and really no conncetion at all. Thats the beauty of many things... I dont need and have plenty of time I do have a choice Life goes on whether you have someone or not, I will just continue in life and if it happens? Great, if not..than fine as well... I had a major connection with a great friend for many years. She was beautiful, but a large woman. I tried, I honestly, truthfully triend with 150% effort. I could not do it, we tried to be sexual, and I couldnt...I felt horrible and it crushed her.... did you offer to help her work out the non asshole way? |
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wait a minute...are you guys discussing full body pics or body builds?
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Let me speak for a minute......to know Jim and have him as a friend...none better.....He knows what he wants and he won't settle...there is nothing wrong with that. It does not mean however that he is not friends with bigger women...He is probably one of my closest friends.....but chemistry as far as dating me....no......But do I think that makes him bad....no way jose....he knows what he wants and wont settle.....so my advise for trying to change that is get over your big bad ugly selves. Jim is jim you take it or leave he doesn't care....But no better friend will you have then in this man...and I know that too.
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Let me speak for a minute......to know Jim and have him as a friend...none better.....He knows what he wants and he won't settle...there is nothing wrong with that. It does not mean however that he is not friends with bigger women...He is probably one of my closest friends.....but chemistry as far as dating me....no......But do I think that makes him bad....no way jose....he knows what he wants and wont settle.....so my advise for trying to change that is get over your big bad ugly selves. Jim is jim you take it or leave he doesn't care....But no better friend will you have then in this man...and I know that too. i dont think im "getting on him" or trying to change him just asking questions |
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so my advise for trying to change that is get over your big bad ugly selves. wow! spoken like a true christian |
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so my advise for trying to change that is get over your big bad ugly selves. wow! spoken like a true christian Oh shut up phil gigglesnort....now how is that for a Christian.....lol |
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