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Topic: Fully Body Pics!
Fade2Black's photo
Wed 09/24/08 07:23 PM



Let me speak for a minute......to know Jim and have him as a friend...none better.....He knows what he wants and he won't settle...there is nothing wrong with that. It does not mean however that he is not friends with bigger women...He is probably one of my closest friends.....but chemistry as far as dating me....no......But do I think that makes him bad....no way jose....he knows what he wants and wont settle.....so my advise for trying to change that is get over your big bad ugly selves. Jim is jim you take it or leave he doesn't care....But no better friend will you have then in this man...and I know that too.



Well I don't know Jim THAT well., but I do relate with his demise.

I get sooooooooooo much flack for dating younger guys exclusively. Does that mean I don't have guys close to my age or even older as friends? Of course not.

But no one knows better than Deb, that I have a preference for younger. It drives my dating pool. Some older men get really offended by that. I've been called some pretty ridiculously stupid things. Out of jealousy I believe.

Either way, a person has a right to draw parameters and preferences the way they want to.

Just sayin ..
drinks And Im just sayin, hey pretty baby,smitten

drool Come give me a kissflowers



oooooooooooooh babyyyyyyyyyyyy love

TwilightsTwin's photo
Wed 09/24/08 07:24 PM
holy artachoke...this is still going?

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 09/24/08 07:25 PM



Let me speak for a minute......to know Jim and have him as a friend...none better.....He knows what he wants and he won't settle...there is nothing wrong with that. It does not mean however that he is not friends with bigger women...He is probably one of my closest friends.....but chemistry as far as dating me....no......But do I think that makes him bad....no way jose....he knows what he wants and wont settle.....so my advise for trying to change that is get over your big bad ugly selves. Jim is jim you take it or leave he doesn't care....But no better friend will you have then in this man...and I know that too.



Well I don't know Jim THAT well., but I do relate with his demise.

I get sooooooooooo much flack for dating younger guys exclusively. Does that mean I don't have guys close to my age or even older as friends? Of course not.

But no one knows better than Deb, that I have a preference for younger. It drives my dating pool. Some older men get really offended by that. I've been called some pretty ridiculously stupid things. Out of jealousy I believe.

Either way, a person has a right to draw parameters and preferences the way they want to.

Just sayin ..

I am young I am young pick me pickbigsmile

Hi Black flowerforyou flowerforyou


awwwwwwww it's my secret service guy .. sorry the campaign left you with out a job Tap :tongue:

Jim519's photo
Wed 09/24/08 07:27 PM

I find this post and the replies funny, only because my own individual preferences are apparently not the norm..I like big, bearish men..all belly and butt..someone I can climb like a mountain...beauty is in the eye of the beholder, everyone has a right to seek that which they find beautiful..does it make a person shallow?...perhaps..but its not up to me to judge..

I still think your hot Jim-bo...smooched


Thank you! flowerforyou flowerforyou

Jim519's photo
Wed 09/24/08 07:28 PM

I'm dying to know....have you gotten any thin chicks to email you after reading all this? I hope you at least get something out of it, since you did get quite a character assassination today.
I'm still on the fence in all of it (albeit a sturdy fence!), but I do think it went a bit far. Not that my opinion really matters in all of this, however I do still agree with your OP regarding "hiding behind a head shot". Your choices may be much more "slim" though if you close yourself off but to a select few. Good Luck!


I get emails from everyone. Thin, Thick, White, Black, Asian. Most appreciate my honesty....

Jim519's photo
Wed 09/24/08 07:29 PM

holy artachoke...this is still going?


Hey there Rockstar!

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 09/24/08 07:29 PM

holy artachoke...this is still going?
drinks We can keep it going all nightdrinks

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 09/24/08 07:30 PM





As I said, I could care less what someone elses "preferences" or "requirements" are. Have them, you are only limiting yourself.......but at least you don't have to put up with what you don't want.............




Thats the difference between you and me...I "prefer" to make it known what I want....


again, agreed.

feralcatlady's photo
Wed 09/24/08 07:31 PM




Let me speak for a minute......to know Jim and have him as a friend...none better.....He knows what he wants and he won't settle...there is nothing wrong with that. It does not mean however that he is not friends with bigger women...He is probably one of my closest friends.....but chemistry as far as dating me....no......But do I think that makes him bad....no way jose....he knows what he wants and wont settle.....so my advise for trying to change that is get over your big bad ugly selves. Jim is jim you take it or leave he doesn't care....But no better friend will you have then in this man...and I know that too.



Well I don't know Jim THAT well., but I do relate with his demise.

I get sooooooooooo much flack for dating younger guys exclusively. Does that mean I don't have guys close to my age or even older as friends? Of course not.

But no one knows better than Deb, that I have a preference for younger. It drives my dating pool. Some older men get really offended by that. I've been called some pretty ridiculously stupid things. Out of jealousy I believe.

Either way, a person has a right to draw parameters and preferences the way they want to.

Just sayin ..
drinks And Im just sayin, hey pretty baby,smitten

drool Come give me a kissflowers



oooooooooooooh babyyyyyyyyyyyy love


This is quite true......and I would not want her to settle either.....she is entitled just like Jim is....to go after exactly what she/he wants.

And if people take offense to that...well they need to check themselves.

buttons's photo
Wed 09/24/08 07:31 PM
Edited by buttons on Wed 09/24/08 07:36 PM





As I said, I could care less what someone elses "preferences" or "requirements" are. Have them, you are only limiting yourself.......but at least you don't have to put up with what you don't want.............




Thats the difference between you and me...I "prefer" to make it known what I want....





if there is something you are not attracted to or care to have in another person who gives a ratz azz? come on........... dont tell me everybody doesnt have something that they find so irritating that they wouldnt care to have or try out? i mean wth?..... if a woman prefers a man and is hetrosexual dont tell me these gals would think twice about being with another gal when they dont "prefer to be" if they have something against drinking they wouldnt try out a alcoholic..... be real people!!! edit wow the quotes are going in white sometimes nowlaugh laugh i said the last paragraph that isnt a paragraph lmaolaugh and i agree with the latter.. what fade said...flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 09/24/08 07:32 PM






As I said, I could care less what someone elses "preferences" or "requirements" are. Have them, you are only limiting yourself.......but at least you don't have to put up with what you don't want.............




Thats the difference between you and me...I "prefer" to make it known what I want....


again, agreed.
drool And I prefer to want you.....

Joaverage's photo
Wed 09/24/08 07:32 PM

I miss Jim-bo's semi-nude pick..blushing


Me too!!! Put it back up Jim.....please?:banana:

TwilightsTwin's photo
Wed 09/24/08 07:33 PM


holy artachoke...this is still going?


Hey there Rockstar!


Yo!laugh

A64WOODY's photo
Wed 09/24/08 08:21 PM
Edited by A64WOODY on Wed 09/24/08 08:23 PM
I have said it before and I'll say it again.....Fake impressions are not worth the toilet paper needed to wipe yourself. (ok, maybe i did not say it that way!) Be honest first and let the rest sort itself out!! One should NEVER settle for what makes him/her happy at the time. This only leads to heartache later on, if not for you, definately the other. Either way, true happiness can only start with true honesty. What is said in true honesty builds the bricks that hold the foundation of the relationship together. If built on trust, honesty and love, two people can work through anything and survive. If started with a lie, deception, misleading, or even lack of heart, the end result will always lead to failure and very hurt feelings and emotions. And this leads to all others suffering from distrust due to another's actions. Ask me! I know!


Just my humble, but honest, opinion!

feralcatlady's photo
Thu 09/25/08 07:11 AM

I have said it before and I'll say it again.....Fake impressions are not worth the toilet paper needed to wipe yourself. (ok, maybe i did not say it that way!) Be honest first and let the rest sort itself out!! One should NEVER settle for what makes him/her happy at the time. This only leads to heartache later on, if not for you, definately the other. Either way, true happiness can only start with true honesty. What is said in true honesty builds the bricks that hold the foundation of the relationship together. If built on trust, honesty and love, two people can work through anything and survive. If started with a lie, deception, misleading, or even lack of heart, the end result will always lead to failure and very hurt feelings and emotions. And this leads to all others suffering from distrust due to another's actions. Ask me! I know!


Just my humble, but honest, opinion!



Honestly I so love the woodster


Your a good man Mr.

franshade's photo
Thu 09/25/08 07:22 AM
Are we still trying to rationalize other people? As to why they do/don't post pictures?

I don't post pictures, because I choose not to, no science, no secret, no ulterior motive, just because I don't.

I am not misinterpreting nor misleading anyone. If the way I or anyone looks determines whether they are worthy or not worthy of you, or your time, we could never be, so in fact I am saving those a lot of heartache(laugh).

If people are so interested in looking at pictures, I say get magazines (all different types available, one to suit every need/desire).



feralcatlady's photo
Thu 09/25/08 09:21 AM
Your joking right.......How could someone not want to see what the person they are talking to looks like.

A lil known fact men are very visual creatures so saying "hey you don't need to see me" Is so beyond lame.....sorry but my opinion.

jtip1977's photo
Thu 09/25/08 09:26 AM
I only want to show my face dammit!!!!:angry:

But Summercusp can see whatever she wants.....oh, hi to you to Summer....blushing

franshade's photo
Thu 09/25/08 09:56 AM

Your joking right.......How could someone not want to see what the person they are talking to looks like.

A lil known fact men are very visual creatures so saying "hey you don't need to see me" Is so beyond lame.....sorry but my opinion.


not lame at all Feral just a matter of preference, I speak to people in forums. Does it matter what they look like in order to share a laugh, joke or idea? not to me... just my opinion

Riding_Dubz's photo
Thu 09/25/08 09:57 AM
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